怎么谈恋爱？谈恋爱的技巧（女生篇）

怎么谈恋爱？其实谈恋爱除了感觉，也是有谈 恋爱技巧  de。nvshengshengxingbijiaomingan，zaitanlianaiguochengzhong，jiyaoxuehuiaitaren，yeyaoxuehuiaiziji，jiyaoshiliangchicuyujidu，yeyaodongdebushiquziwo。nvshengtanlianai，bawohaoyigeduhenguanjian。

zenmetanlianai？tanlianaidejiqiao（nvshengpian）

女生谈恋爱的心态

1、爱情不是生活的全部

 nvshengzaiqianyishiliyaoyouzheigeyigerenshi——aiqingbushishenghuodequanbu，zaimangyutanlianaideshihou，yebuyaowangjiquyueziji。dulizixindenvrencongbuhuizhibazijidexingfujituozaihunyinheaiqingshang，ershijiangshenghuodezhongxinfangzaichongshi、yuyuezijishang。

2、恋爱不是结婚

 zaitanlianaideguochengzhong，huxiangdouyaoguanchatashibushigennichuyibeizideren，ruguoneigenandezanshimeiyougennijiehundedasuan，niyebieshangxin，niyekeyiyougengduodeshijianqutiaoxuanneigeheshideren，weibijiuzhiyouta。

女生谈恋爱的技巧

1、恋爱初期：柔弱一点

 lianaichuqi，renhenixuyaobangzhudeshihoushiyong。nanshengdouxihuandangyingxiong。jiyunvshengbangzhudeshihou，nanshengshunshijuedechongmanyingxiongqikai。

只有需要男生的女生，才有 吸引力  。danshiyaozhuyibuyaohuluanjiayijianxiazhihui，zheihuimoshatadenanziqikai，lingtafangan。haiyaoyaoxinhuaiganji，wuluntabangleniduomemiaoxiaodemang，douyaoganxieta，zanmeita，zheiyangyihoucaihuidedaonanshengdegengduoganqing。

2、多给对方弹性空间

 guanxisuiwengu，danrijiushengjuandaishi。youjuhuajiao“nanrenxuyaozunzhong，nvrenxuyaozhongshi”。duinanshengdezunzhongmoguoyujitayigedanxingkongjian，takeyiziyouhuxixinxiankongqi，shizhanquanjiao。nanshengdoubuqingyuanbeiai“kunbang”，jingchangdianhuazhuiwenxingzong，guolvtadepengyouheshihaodengdeng。

zenmetanlianai？tanlianaidejiqiao（nvshengpian）

3、谈恋爱期间适当沉默

 tanlianaiqijianshidangchenmo，birunanshengyouxinshishi，dangnanshengbutujinqushiyeyaobaochishidangdechenmo。nanshengdeyishengzhonghenshaonenggouyongyuanyiwangwuqian，daduoshunanshengzonghuiyouzhouqixingqingxubodonghexingweishangdediaozheng。biandakuainiudejieguowangwangshideqifan，nanshengbingbuzongshixuyaojili。

4、谈恋爱期间适当吃醋和嫉妒

 aiqingdeminganduxiajiang，siyoulaofulaoqideganjueshi。budongchicudenvhaizi，jiuxiangpaixiaqudanbuqilaidepiqiu—yanglingrenfawei，shishishiliangdejiduhecuyikeyizhengmingniduitadeaiyuzhongshi，manzunanshengdexurong。

 budongshengsedirangtagandaonixinzhongzhiyouta，yongchiculaiweixiaiqingdeminganduyaozhuyi：meicibunengjiuchanzaitongyijianshishang，jinliangyisajiaodekouqishuochu。

5、不要对对方100%付出

有句话说“付出越多的一方，越容易受伤”，谈恋爱中，不要对对方100%付出。在爱情里面不要当圣母，不要对一个男人太好，他会觉得你对他的爱是理所当然，你要让他患得患失，让他不确定你有多爱他，让他去提心吊胆，保持住征服欲，这样你才能得到他的心。