异地恋能长久都是因为这3点

 qianjitian，woshuazheshuazhepengyouquan，turankandaopengyouahuafaleyizhanggennanxingdehezhao，liangrenbizhejiandaoshou，chuanzheqinglvtxu，xiaodemiqiyanjing。

woxianshilengleleng，xinxiang：ahuadenanpengyouhaoxiangbuzhangzheiyangba，nandaohuanxindele?

 houlaiwoxianglingwaiyigenvshengbagualeyixia，tagenwoshuo，ahuaheqiannanyoubiyeshijiufenshou，nanpengyouliuzaishenzhen，ahuahuilaojiagongzuo，suirangezhe3xiaoshidechecheng，danhaishidibuguo yidilian demozhou。

 ahuadexiannanyougentazaitongyigechengshi，zhudedifangxiangge2gejiequ，tamenjihumeitiandounengjianmian，suoyijibianzaipengyoukanlai，xinnanyoudeyingtiaojianmeiyouqiannanyouyouzhi，dantayijiuxuanzejieshuyidilian，yongbaokeyipengchudelianren。

 bijingzaijuedabufennvshengkanlai，biqimeitianduizheshoujixuhanwennuan，huozhebicicaiyi，tamengengyuanyixuanzejinzaizhichidebanlv。

wocengzaizhihushangkandaozheiyangyijuhua：quantianxiadeyidiliandouyiyang，meicixiangjiandouyiweizhebieli。

 gezhejibaijiqiangonglidejuli，meicixiangjiandoushilaiqucongcong，shouxinhaimeiwurebianyaozhuanshenquchezhanganche，chepiaocungenbihezhaohaiduo，meinianyiqichifandecishuquzhikeshu。

 henjiuyiqianwobianzhidaoyidiliandechenggonglvjidi，bingqiejidaduoshudoushiyounvshengtichudefenshou，yizhiyuyouxienvshengkaolvdaoduifanggenzijibuzaitonggechengshi，zheizhongbuquedingyinsudecunzaishidetaxiangkaojinyourenbuzhuyuanli。

 kewoshenbianyouyigenanxingpengyou，tahetanvpengyouconggaozhongkaishizaiyiqi，yitongjingliledaxueyixiaolianhebiyehouyidilian，xianzaijijiangzoujinhunyindediantang。

 yikaishibubeikanhaodetamen，yibuyigejiaoyinditanle10nian，qijianwocengwenguowopengyou：yizhidoushiyidilian，nandaonimenjiumeixiangguofenshouma?

pengyoushuo，dangranyou，erqiebuzhiyici，danmeicidoumeifencheng，jiushiyinweiwomendoubuxianggufubicideai。

 pengyoudehuatingdewojipigedadiaoyidi，dancongtadefenxiangzhong，wozhidaoyidilianchenggonglvdi，hendachengdushiqinglvmendedakaifangshibudui。pengyoushuo，yidilianxiangyaozhangjiu，yidingyaozuohao3jianxiaoshiqing：

（yidiliannengzhangjiu doushiyinweizhei3dian！）

每天都保持联系

 yidiliandediren，jiushibicigezhepingmuwuhuakeshuo，daxuedeshihoudajiadoumangzhexueye，biyehoudajiadoumangzhejiaban，ruguoxinlizhixiangzhemangwanzheiduanshijianwojiuhaohaopeita，neimezheiduanguanxihenkuaijiuhuilengdiao。

 yidilianqinglvxuyaobaochiliaotiandeguanxing，zaimangzaileizhishaoyeyaogenduifangdaogezaoan，wanan，wenwenduifangjintianyoumeiyoufashengshenmequshi，jiusuanchedianyoudemeide，yezongbishenmedoubushuolaideshiji。

dangnikenengjiexialaihuiyouyiduanshiliandeshijian，niyinggaitiqiangenduifangbaobeiyisheng，piru：

woshoujikuaimeidianle，xianbuliaole，daojiadajini。

woqukaihuile，kenengde2-3gexiaoshi，kaiwanzaigaosuni。

zheiduanshijianwodechuchayigelibai，xingchengbijiaojincou，kenengbunengmeitianwanshanggennishipinle。

duiyidiliandeqinglveryan，rangduifangzhidaonidezhuangkuang，rangtazhidaonishikedianjizheta，cainengrangtagenganxin。

时刻想着跟对方分享自己的生活

 ruguoshiputongqinglv，meishimeikexiangzhegenduifangfenxiangzijideshenghuo，huixiandegewaimeiyouyinsihekongjian，danduiyuyidilianqinglveryan，zheicainengrangduifangshishizaizaidicanyudaonideshenghuozhong。

 bunanfaxian，henduonvshengxuanzejieshuyiduanyidilian，shiyinweinanshengjitawushucixiwang，denglaidequeshiyicicishiwang，nanshengrangnvshengdengtasannianyousannian，kenvshengnaliyouzheimeduogesanniankeyihaozhe?

 ruguozhenxiangyizhizouxiaqu，neimejiuyinggaishikexiangzhegenduifangfenxiangzijideshenghuo，piru：nikandaoyigeyouqudedongxi，nipaizhaofajita，gaosutanijintianwuyijianfaxianleyijiayouqudedian，niyidinghenxihuan，xiacidainilai。

 tongshi，yekeyishizheyindaoduifanggennifenxiangshenghuosuipian，piru：nvpengyougaosuni，taxiawugenhaojiemeiguangjiemaiyifuqule，zheishihounikeyiwentamaileshenmeyifu，keyishichuanjinikankanma?

 tashichuanhaoyifu，kaileshipinjinizhanshi，zheishihou，nikeyikuatayanguanghao，kuatapinweihao，shenzhisasajiaoshuo，xiacijianmianyaotachuanzheitaolaijianni。

 jiusuangezhejibaijiqiangonglidejuli，danzheibuyingxiangnizhidaoduifangzuijinyouzengtianlejijianxinyifu，jiaolejigexinpengyou，bangongshidehuanjingzenmeyang，juzhudedifangshibushibuzhideyuelaiyuewenxin。

yidilian，zhiyoubuduanyongxinfenxiang，rangduifangrongruzijideshenghuo，cainengxiaochujulidailaidebuan。

一起做些有趣的事情，消除距离感

 jideyigepengyoucengjingjieshiguoweishenmetayaojieshuyiduanyidilian，shiyinweibicigezheyiduanjuli，jiezoubutong，pinlvbutong，chanshengbulegongming。

tazaiduziyirenzaijiachizhesushishala，qiannanyouquezaigentongshituanjiandayudarou。

 takanleyibuaiqingdianying，xingzhiboboxiangyaogenduifangfenxiang，caifaxianduifangbingbuganxingqu，jiuxiangmeiciqiannanyougentashuoqijingfeipianshi，tayetingdehunhunrushui。

yushi，pengyoujuedetamenjuliyuelaiyueyuan，bujinjinshiwulishangdejuli，gengzhongyaodeshixintaishangdejuli。

 duiyuyidilianqinglveryan，bufangchangshiyiqizuoxieyouqudeshiqing，piru：bicizaidiannaoqiandakaitongyibudianying，yibiankanyibiantongguoshoujishipintucaojuqing，kandaoganrendebufenbufangshenqingdikanzheduifang，kandaojingsongdebufenbufangbaduifangdebiaoqingjietuxialaizuochengbiaoqingbao。

 zaipiru：gezifenbiebadewucan，xiawucha，bixinxiaodongzuodenggezhongchangjingpaixialai，tongguoruanjianjianjipincouchengtongyizhangtupian，bingjiluxieshangriqijiluxialai。

 nizhongyouwo，wozhongyouni，yiqizuoxieyouqudeshiqing，zhaozhunjiezouhepinlv，chengweibicideqingtingzhe，cainengxiaochuwulihexintaishangdejuli。

 pengyoushuo，yidilianzhisuoyimei，meijiumeizaijuli，yidilianzhisuoyiku，kujiukuzaijuli。julinengchanshengmei，tongshiyenenghuimiemei。

 ruguozhendexiangheduifangyizhizouxiaqu，wulijulizhendebushizhangai。yongxinqingting，yongxinfenxiang，yongxinganshou，jiduifangyigekeyucedeweilai，nulibajuliyuelayuejin。

jiuxiangwowenpengyou：weishenmenimenyizhidoushiyidi，quenengzoudaozuihou?

 pengyoushuo，daxueshigezhejiqiangongli，biyehougezhejibaigongli，biye3nianjulisuoduandaoshijigongli，kansiyidi，danwomendouzainulikaojinduifang。

因为爱情，我们都变得更有信仰。 (本文作者：橙马良)