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（nanyoushuotachadianfancuo wogaibugaiyuanliangta？）

花镇情感咨询师 藏栋轲 回答：

1、nixuyaolijiedeshizijidedixianjiujingshishenme。ruguozheigezhendeshinidedixian，weishenmezuobulejuedingni?

 tongshi，worenweinixuyaobuduanzengjiazaizheiduanguanxizhongdechouma，gongzuodebuwendinghuidaozhijiazhibuwending，nanrenzaizeoushishigenjuyigenvrenshifouzhidelaipanduande。

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2、tanengtanchengdegaosunizheijianshi，shuomingtajuedenishitadelingyiban，zuiqinjinderenmeiyoubiyaoyinman。

 lingwai，tajiangjinitingbingbushijinitiandude，tawanquanmeiyoubiyaojiangzheimeduo，danshitaweilerangnifangxin，yiranjiangchulaile，zheidianzhideniqukendingta，taxuyaonidexinrenhekending，tahuiganshoudaoniduitadetaidu，duitadezaiyi。

suoyitajiangzheijianshi，congmouzhongyiyishangjiang，yezaiqidaizheniduitalingyanxiangkan。tazaibiaodatagenqitananrenbuyiyang。

 3、lianggerennengbunengzaiyiqishiyijushenmeni?qizhongyigetiaojianjiushizhencheng。neimezheijianshitashijianglezhencheng，haishibujiangzhencheng?

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 4、duiguoqukeyifansizongjie，keyibiaodazijixiwangtazenmezuo。huangejiaodu，ruguoshiyoulingyigenanshengxihuanniyaosongnihuijia，nihuizenmechulini?nidezuofayeshitaxuexiruhechulideyigejihui。

 zongzhi，duibanlvhelideqidai，buduantishengzijidejiazhizengjiaganqingchouma，youxiangyingdeweijiyishi，shicujinbicigongtongchengzhangdeqiji。

duomewanmeideguanxidoubibushangyikeyuanyichengzhangdexin。