女生不能倒追，倒追的界限在哪里？

　　laogongwanglianjingshenchuguizenmeban，danglaogongshenxianwanglianbingjingshenchuguishi，dajiawufahuibizheiyijiankudeshiji。zenmekandaizheiyiqingkuangshiyigeyanjundewenti，womenbuyinggaidiaojinlejinghuangfennudangzhong。fanguolai，womenyaozhenchengdihetagoutongjiaoliu，changshizhidaotadedongyinyuxuqiu。yucitongshi，lajinguanxihexietongpeiheshibukehuoquede，nenggouxunzhaofuqixinlizixunlaibangzhuzijiyitongbaituokunjing。zuihou，womenyinggaizaijuedingshifouyingjiyudiercijihui，bingzaiciguochengzhongbaohuzijiliyihezizun。laogongwanglianjingshenchuguideduiceshifanzade，keshiwomenkeyigenjuzhencheng、goutongyuxunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhulaifujianliangrendeguanxi。

　　交流是重建信任的关键所在

　　laogongwanglianjingshenchuguizenmeban，zaiwomenfajuelaogongshenxianwanglianbingchuxianjingshenchuguiqingkuangshi，womenxianyaozuodejiushijieshouxianshi，binghetakaizhanduiwaikaifangerzhenchengdeduitan。jiaoliushizhongjianxinrendeguanjiansuozai，womenyinggailingtingtadexinlixuqiuyudongyin，erbuzhishihuaizhenaonuhezhizedexin。

　　探寻夫妻心理咨询的支持

　　yingduilaogongdewanglianjingshenchugui，womenkeyixunzhaofuqixinlizixundezhichi。gengzhuanyedezixunguwennenggouweidajiatigongzhuanyedejutizhidaoyujianyi，bangwomenlejieduifangdetiyanyuxuqiu，tuidonggoutongyulejie。fuqixinlizixunnengbangzhuwomenyiqimianduinanti，bingtanxunduice。

　　保护自己利益和自尊

　　zaiduidailaogongdewanglianjingshenchuguiwentideshihou，womenyinggaizishizhizhongbaohuzijiliyihezizun。zheijiuyiweizhewomenyinggaikaishejiankangdeshenghuojiexian，burenshoumieshiheshanghaigerenxingwei。womenkeyiyulaogongyitongzhidingguizeheguanshu，yizhongjianxinrenhelianxidepingwen。

　　再次建立联系的路

　　jiejuelaogongwanglianjingshenchuguinantibingfeiyishi，danwomenkeyitongguoyixiliejianchibuxiedenulizaicijianlilianxidelu。zhuyaobaokuozhongjianxinren、xietongpeihe、xianghufuchihelingtinglingyifangdexuyao。ciwai，womenyeyinggaizhuyizijidegerentishenghemeihao，bubiwanquanyilaibierenlaizhaoxundadao。

　　是不是给与第二次机会的决策

　　yingduilaogongdewanglianjingshenchugui，womenzuizhongbixuzaijuedingshifoujiyudiercijihui。zheiyeshiyigegerendexuanze，erqiexuyaodajiashensishulvhequanhenglibi。dajiayaolejiedajiazijidexiangfa、lingyifangtaiduhegenggaichengnuo，hengliangdajiashifounengjianlixindejiankangdeshenghuoguanlian。

　　laogongwanglianjingshenchuguizenmeban，zaiduidailaogongwanglianjingshenchuguiwentideshihou，meiyoujueduidezhengquedaan。meiduifuqidoushibutongdeqingkuangjidongyin。guanjianzaiyuwomenyinggaibaochilixing、keguanbingzishizhizhongguanzhuzijizishendeliyihemeihao。genjugoutongjiaoliu、zhuanyezixunhexianghuxinren，womenkeyishizhejianlixindeshenxinjiankang、xianghulijiezhijiandeguanxi。buguantiaoxuanshenmeyangdelumian，womendouhuimingjiaihejieshoudenengliang，jizijiyujiatingzhaodaobijiaohaodeduice。