男友不哄我了，我该怎么挽回爱情？

 yiqianwomeicifapiqinanyouyudouhuihongwo，danshizuijinfaxiannanyouduiwohenlengdan，meiciwoxianghetahaohaogoutongtazongshibuyuanyi。weishenmenanyouhoulaibuhongwoleni？zenmezuocaineng wanhuinanyou dexinni？

nanyoubuhongwole，wogaizenmewanhuiaiqing？

网友 情感咨询：

 benrennv，20sui，shengao165tizhong48kg。nanpengyouhewoyiyangda，shengao185tizhong70kg。wohetarenshiliangnianbanle，zaiyiqikuaisigeyuele。

 yikaishiwomeicifapiqitadouhuihongwo，woshineizhongmanzuodenvsheng，piqihenbaozao，dashixiaoshidouhuihetabukaixin，tayehuihongworanhouanweiwo，meiguoduojiuwomenjiuyouhehaole。

 danshiguolehanjiahou，jiuzaizheijitianwoganjuetabianle，wojitadadianhuatayebujieyizhishuozijimang，wowentazaiganshenmetajiushuokandianshi，woshuoniweishenmebudaonizijifangjianliqujiwodadianhuahaoleyihouzaikandianshi，tajiuyizhihewoshuobufangbianshenmede，gaodewohuoqihenda。

 qiantianwohetadalegedianhuatajiele，tashuonimeitiandouyaowenwowoaibuaini，shibushizuiainizenmezenmeyidaduiwentigaodewofandoufansile，nijiubunengzijizuozuohaoma？biandeguaiyidianzhengtianfanwo，wohenishuoleyoushihouwozaimangmeibanfajienidianhuanizenmejiushibutingni？tadezheixiehuawotingletebienanshou，tayiqianconglaibuhuihewoshuode，wobuzhidaoweishenmetahuibianchengzheigeyangzi。

 zheiliangtianwofanyechibuxia，meitiandouhenyumen，woyebuzhidaozenmehetahaohaoxiangchu。meiciwoxianghetahaohaogoutongtazongshibuyuanyi，yaomejiushizhuanyihuatihuozhefajigebiaoqingbaofuyanjixia，woxianzaigaizenmebanni？zenyangzuocainengwanhuinanyoudexinni？

花镇情感咨询师回复：

一、为什么男友对你变得越来越冷淡？

 zaizheigegushili，wojuedeyoujuhuatebieyouyisi。nishuotayiqianconglaibuhuihenishuo（zheiyangdehua），buzhidaoweishenmetahuibianchengzheiyang。yuanyinhenjiandan——rendeganqingjiuxiangxinyongka，shualezongshiyaohaide，ernishuabaole，duifangdangranshizheizhongbiaoxian。

 meicinifapiqideshihou，duifangzongshihongzheni。danshi，zheizhong“hong”shiyouxiandude，bukenengyibeizichixu。taderennaidaodalejixianshi，ziranjiushiniyaohaizhaideshihou。

二、如何跟男友好好沟通并挽回爱情？

 nisuoshuode“haohaogoutong”，zhishixiwangtanengxiangyiqianyiyang，huidaocongqian（niyifapiqijiuhaohaohongni）dejiaose。danshi，zailiangxingguanxizhong，liangrendeweizhiyidanfashengyidong，bianhennanzaihuidaoguoqudeweizhi。

 nixianzaibiaoxianchulaidezhongzhongxingwei，yexuyinweinizhiyou20sui，meiyoutaiduojingyan，zhixiwangtongguoduifangdeanwei，laihuoquneixindeanquangan。woxiang，zheijiushichengzhangdegongke——ai，bushiwenduifang“aibuaiwo”，ershitongguoxingdongheguanxilaiqueren。

 taxianzaiyijingbiaodalezijidexuqiu，xiwangninengguanhaoziji。ruguonibunenggoushiyingzheigezhuanbian，neimezheiduanguanxidejieshushibiranhuifashengde。

三、学会不要“作”才能挽回男友的心。

 wojianyinizhongxindiaozhengzhuyili，fangxiaguoquguanzhuxianzaibingqiexuehuibuyao“zuo”。yinweinidezuo，yijingjiduifangdailaihendadekunrao。

 wozhidaoduiyuhenduorenlaishuo，zheishihennanxiuliandegongke。shishangsuoyoudezuo，doushiyinweizijiwufawendingzishendeqingxu，erxiangwaisuoqubierenanfuzijidetaidu。zheishiyizhongqingxunenglidixiadebiaoxian。

 woxiwangninengchengweiyigeyongyouqiangdaguanliqingxunenglideren。duoxiexieqingxurijiba，napameitianguanchazijideqingxubianhua，yebinixianzaizheiyangguohaodeduo。