做错事如何道歉挽回男友？

 nvshengzuocuoshidaozhifenshou，xiang wanhuinanyou danyoufangbuxiamianzi。qishihenduoshihouzhiyaonvshengyuanyizhenchengdixiangqiannanyoudaoqian，tayehuiyuanyihenifuhede。neimenvshengzuocuoshiyinggairuhegenqiannanyoudaoqianbingwanhuitadexinni？

zuocuoshiruhedaoqianwanhuinanyou？

1.调整分手后的负面情绪

 xiangxinnvshengbeinanyoushuailekendinghuishihenshangxinde，zheishihoujizizeyouyuanhendangengduodeshixintong，weishenmefanlexiaoxiaocuowutajiuyaopaoqizijini？weishenmenanrenzheimejueqingshuozoujiuzouni？weishenmeduifangbukenyuanliangzijini……ruguonvrenchuyuzheiyangdeqingxuzhuangtaixiaquwanhuinanyou，duobanshibuhuichenggongde。

 xiangyaowanhuinanyoushouxianjiuyaodiaozhenghaozijidexintai，yaolengjingdiduidaifenshouzheijianshi，fansizijicuowudexingwei，bingqiezhenzhengdicongneixinshenchuyishidaozijidecuowu。zhiyouzhenzhengyishidaozijidecuowu，xiangnanyoudaoqiandeshihoutacaihuiganshoudaonidechengyi，wanhuicainenggougengjiashunli。

2.主动向男友认错但不要表露复合的想法。

 henduonvshengwanhuinanyoushidouhuifanxiazheiyangdecuowu：“nizhiyaohuidaowoshenbian，woshenmedouyuanyiweinigaibian。”qishizheizhongkansidizitaidewanhuifangshihuirangduifangjuedegengdayali，erqieqiannanyouwanquanganshoubudaoniyaogaibiandechengyi，neimetajiugengbukenenghuiyuanliangnile。tazhihuijuedeniweilewanhuierbuzeshouduan，erbushizhenxinyishidaozijidecuowu。

 zheishihouzhengquedewanhuifangshishi，nixuyaozhenchengdixiangnanyoudaoqian，chengrenzijizuocuodedifang，bingqiechengnuoduifangyihouzenmegaibian。（cishideniyijingzaigaibian，bingqienenggoukanchuyidingdebianhua。）qiannanyoukandaoniruciweita，jishitameiyoulijidayinghenifuhe，danshizhishaotabuhuipaichiniyaneni，fanerhuizhongxinduinichanshenghaogan。

3.断联并继续提升自己

 xiangqiannanyouzhenchengdidaoqianzhihou，wulunduifangyoumeiyoujieshou，niyeyaojixutishengziji。erqiezaitishengziwodeguochengzhongjinxingduanlian，buyaoguoyupinfandilianxiduifang，gengbuyaokeyidizhanshizijidegaibian。

 wanhuidemudeshixiyin，erbushikeyidizhanshi。youshihouguoyukeyidehua，fanerhuirangduifangjuedenimudexingtaiqiang，huirangqiannanyougengxiangyuanlini。

4. 二次吸引 并复合

 ziwotishengdeguochengjiushiercixiyindeguocheng，ruguoyishangdaoqiandeguochengnenggoushunlidehua，xiangxinqiannanyouhuijixuhenibaochilianxi。jiexialaijiushiruhejinxingercixiyinle。

 dangzijiwanchengtuibianleyihou，xuyaoshidangdizhanshiziji，rangduifangkandaonigaibiandedifang，rangtaduiniguamuxiangkanshenzhizhongxinbeinixiyin，zheishihouzhenghaoshifuhedeshiji。fuhebuyaozhudongtichulai，ershibuduandiyindaoduifangzhongxinzhuiqiuni，jiuxianggangrenshiyiyang，zhizaoaimeideqifenbuduantuijinliangrenzhijiandeguanxi，shijichengshuletajiuhuiduinitichufuhe。

 yinweizuocuoshierbeifenshou，zuiguanjiandeshiyishidaozijidecuowubingqiegaibianziwo。ruguoninenggouzhenchengdixiangqiannanyoudaoqian，erqienuliditishengzishenjiazhi，xiangxintahuiyuanliangnideguocuo，nimenzhijianfuhedejihuiyehuihenda。