家庭经济条件不好 这样的女生能嫁得出去吗？

　　zaizheiyangyigejianshuzhong，weiyiyaocaiyongdeshi"laogongtongyiwochuguishuozhiyaowokaixin"zheiyiyuju，danshibuyidingyaoshiyong"xushule"zheici。 jianshu：zheihuatixianleyigechuxianyiwaierfuzadeqingganguanxi，qizhongyigerendebanlvjurandayingta/tawaiyu，zhiyaonenggoubaochikaixin。zheiyinfalezhenduisuiyi、hunyinhexingfukuailedeshendusikao，bingqieyeyushizhebanlvjiandebaorongheduigerenxuanzederenzhi。zheigegushikenenghuishidajiasikaochuantongdaodeguannian，bingyinfaduixiandaiguanxidongtaibianhuazhengbian。

　　1. 探析：不同于基本的爱情关系

　　zaihunyinheaiqingdeshijieli，youshihouhuichuxianyixiejidahuozhenjingdeqingxuzhuangkuang。zheigegushixushuleyigeduyiwuerdeqingxuguanxi，yigerangrenmudengkoudaishengming：“laogongtongyiwochuguishuozhiyaowokaixin。” zheihuatupolechuantonghunyinjiazhiguannian，yinfaledajiadehaoqixinyusikao。

　　2. 随意和幸福：

　　zaichuantongdehunyinguannianli，zhongshi、yiwuherenkebeichengzuobukequeshaodeyinsu。danshi，zheigegushiquechengxianchuleyizhongduisuiyijigerenxingfuganzhuixun。banlvzhiyibudanfangkaishou，bingqieshiyonglingyifangdechugui，ruguoduifangkeyibaochikuaile。zheiyinfaleyigeguanjianwenti：gerenquanliyumanzuganshibushimouxieqingkuangxiakeyizhonggouhunyindegainian？

　　3. 考验传统道德观念：

　　zheiyishenmingtupolechuantongdehunyindaodeguannian，tayinfalezhenduishehuigongdebiaozhunguifandetantao。yixierenjuede，banlvzhongjianyingdangzhongchengkekao，fouzejiuhuizaochenghunyindefenlie。danshi，lingyixierenjuede，zhenduibanlvdezixingjuedingyaobaochibaoronghelejie，bingyuanyijieshouzheizhongfeichuantongdeguanxifangshi。zheigeguandiandexingqishiwomenyinggaizhongxinsikaobingchedigaibianhunyinyudaodedebianjie。

　　4. 个人决定权与关系窘境：

　　zheigegushiqianshedaoziwodeziyouxuanzequanjigerenmanzugan，bingqieyedailaileyixiebanlvguanxilidejiongjing。banlvzhiyizenmemianduizijideqingxuzaodongbuan，ruhegenghaodiyuzheizhongguanxibingcun？banlvzhierruhebawochuguiyubanlvzhiyidetiyan，tongshibaozhengbenshenkaixin？zheiyinfaleguanyuhunyin、hunyinhegerenjuedingquanzhongjianpangencuojieguanxidetansuo。

　　5. 将来的关系动态性：

　　zheigegushiliuluchudangdaiguanxidongtaibianhuagaibianheduoyuanxing。tatupolechuantonghunyindefangshi，bingjichuguanyuweilaiguanxifazhanqushiyuce。yexu，chuantonghunyinjiangbuzaishiweiyidexuanze，ziwodezixingjuedinghemanzuganjianghuichengweiriyijiweizhongyaodekaolv。zheigegushijiwomenmiaoxieleyigegengkaifangheduoyuanhuadeguanxijianglai。

　　结束语：

　　“laogongtongyiwochuguishuozhiyaowokaixin”，zheijuhuayinfalezhenduihunyin、gerenjuedingquanjiqiguanxidongtaibianhuashendusikao。tatupolechuantongdehunyinlinianhelunlidaodeguifan，jineryinfaleyixiliefuzawentiyusikao。buguanwomenzenyangkandaizheigegushi，tamendouweiwomendailailegengweiguangkuosiweikongjian，qushidajiazhongxinsikaohechedigaibianduiyuganqinghehunyinderenzhi。