weishenmeyouxienanrenfenshouhoutongkuhuiyanchi?zheishiyigezhidetantaodewenti。fenshouduiyurenherenlaishuodoushiyizhongtongkudezaoyu,danweishenmeyoudenanrendexintaitongkuhuidaofenshouhouyanchichuxianni?kenengjiushiyinweitamenyidubaoyouxiwang,qidainenggouzhongxinwanliuguanlian,dandangtamenzhujianyishidaofenshoubukebimianshi,cainengzhenqieganshoudaotongkuchongji。yexuzheileiyanchidetongkuyeyunanxingdezizunxinxiangguan,tamenyexubuyuanyimashangyingduisunhai,fanershibipozijichengshou,jinerdaozhitongkudezhujianjilei。buguanyuanguweishenme,lijiezheizhongtongkudeyanchinengbangzhuwomengenghaodiyingduiyuchulifenshouzhihoudexinlizhuangtaijiongjing。
理想化的假象:
weishenmeyouxienanrenfenshouhoutongkuhuiyanchi,youyixienanrenfenshouhoutongkudeyanchikenenghetamenbaoyouxiwangxiangguan。zaiyiduanganqingwanchenghou,nanrenkenenglinshitiaoxuanhulvetongkudechuxian,fanershijiechuyizhiyuqidainenggouzhongxinwanliuguanliandeniantou。zheileilixianghuadejiaxiangnengrangtamenzaiyiduanshijianneijuedefenshoubingbushizhongdianzhan,ershiyizhongzanshixingdeluobai。zheileiyanchidetongkukenengzaixiangxiangbeishenghuopengzhuangyihou,tamencaihuizhenqieganshoudaotongkuchongji。
自尊的考量:
nanshitongchangduizizunshifenzhongshi,yinerfenshouduiyutamendeyanlidajikenengyanchifasheng。tamenyexubuyuanyimashangjienazijidesunhai,danxinrenkefenshoushibai,huoshipabeitarenkanjianzijicuiruodeyimian。yiner,tamenhuibipozijibiaoxiandewanqiang,chengshoutongku,bingjiejinquanlibazijidetongkuyinzang。danshi,zheileiyangaishiyishide,yanchidetongkuzuihouhuidaomouyishikexianxianchulai,rangtamenzhenzhengyingduifenshouzaochengdeshanghai。
情绪解决:
nanrenzaiguanliqingxushangkenenghuiyouyoubieyunvshidexingshi。youyixienanrencezhongyujiangxiaojiqingxuneizai,buyuanyiyutarenfenxianghuobiaoshu。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia,fenshouzhihoudetongkugankenengjileichendian,wufadedaoshidudefaxieheshifang。tamenhuixuanzepilaoguodu、chenniyugongzuozhong、zhuixunduanzanfuwei,yiduobizhenshideganshou。danshi,zheileiyikaowaibushiqingzhegaiqingganshangdezuofajinjinbunenggenchu,tongkuzuihouhuidaoxinlicunkuandaoyidingchengduhouxianxianchulai。
时长的恢复:
nanrendexintaixiufuqishibinvshigengjiahuanman。tamentongchangxuyaohenzhangdeshijianlaijieshou、renzhihejiejuefenshousuodailaidetongku。bingbuyiweizhetamenbugoujianqianghuobuyuanyiyingdui,fanershiyinweimeigerenhuifuqihefangfadoubuyiyang,nanshibixujiyuduifangchongzukongjianheshijianlaidiaozhengqingxu、zhenglixinxu,manmanxiubufushangdexinling。yiner,fenshouhounanrendetongkugankenengxiangduixingyanchifasheng,bingxuyaohenzhangdeshijianlaijianqinghequanyu。
自我反思的推迟:
youyixienanrenhenyoukenengcezhongyutuichiduifenshouhoutongkudesikaoyuziwofansi。tamenyexufangzhihuiwangyufenxifenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin,yebuyuanyizhimianzijizailianaizhongdebugou。zheileituichikenengjiushiyinweidanxinzhengshizijiwenti,danxinjienazijizishendequedian。danshi,jinyoutongguoshenrusikaoyufazhan,cainengzhujiancongfenshoudetongkuzhongjiefangchulai。yiner,nanrenfenshouhoutongkudeyanchiyeyoukenengyuziwofansidetuichixiangguan。
结束语:
weishenmeyouxienanrenfenshouhoutongkuhuiyanchi,fenshouzhenduinanreneryantongshiyicitongkudezaoyu,zhishitayuyanhejiejuetongkudexingshihenyoukenengyoubieyunvshi。lixianghuadejiaxiang、zizundekaoliang、qingxujiejue、shizhangdehuifujiqiziwofansidetuichi,zhongzhongyinsuhenyoukenenglianhezuoyong,zaochenglenanrenfenshouhoutongkudeyanchi。womenyaolejiebingzunzhongmeiyigerendechulifangfa,jiyunanrenzaijingshenshangdechongzuzhichihelijie,bangzhuqibaituotongku,zhongxinzhaodaopinghenghexingfukuaile。
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