遇到花心的男人，女人要怎么办

　　weishenmenanshengshuofenshouzheimejianjue？zheiyiwentikunraozhehenduoren。fenshoutongchangshiyizhongbeishangdequeding，dannanshengzaizheiguochengzhongsihugengjiaguoduan。henyoukenengdeyinsuyouhenduo，birushoushanghaizhihoudefangfanyishixinlizhuangtai、duilianaiwentidebuchengshuchulifangfa，huozheshiduiguanxizhongcunzaidewentishiquzixin。yaoqingchunanshengdexuanze，womenyinggaishenrufenxitamenneixindezhenzhengdongjihejingshenxuqiu。genjutongguoxianxiangkanbenzhi，yexuwomennengmingbaiweishenmenanshengshuofenshoudeshihoujiuhuizheibanguoduan。

　　心理自我维护：为了避免再度负伤

　　weishenmenanshengshuofenshouzheimejianjue，nanshengshuofenshouguoduan，qizhongyigeyuanyinkenengshitamendexinliziwofangyujizhi。zaiganqingshoushanghou，nanshengwangwanghuixuanzesheqiguanxi，yifangzhizaidushoushanghai。zheixieguoduanxinglaiziyuduiyiwangshangtongdezhuiyi，tamenyexudanxinzaiduqinshenjinglitongchuganqingjingli，yincijuedingjueranliqu。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanshengbuyuanyingduiwanliudejiyuhuojiejuewentigailv，ershizhijiewanquanfangkaishou。

　　情感问题：对恋爱问题解决不成熟

　　lingyigeyuanyinkenengshinanshengzailianaiwentishangdechulifangfahaibugouchengshu。takenenghuikunhuobuyi、wufayingduihuoquefawentijiejuenengli。yiner，dangmianduikunnanhuoyuairenchanshengmaodunshi，tamenwangwanghuixuanzecaiyongjiduanhuadefangshilaijiejue，jijiangchufenshou。zheileijuerankenengshiyinweitamenmeiyouhenhaodegoutongdejiqiaohuochuliqinggankunhuojileidejingyan，erfeizhenzhenzhengzhengdaibiaozhetamenchedifangxiaduiguanxidejihui。

　　信任缺失：对关系难题失去自信

　　nanshengshuofenshouguoduanhaihuiyuanyuduiguanxinantidezixinqueshao。jinglilepanbian、mengpianhuoqitaxinlaipoliedeshijianzhihou，tamenkenenghuishiquduilingyibanheguanxiderenke。zheishidetamenduiguanxiweilaidefazhanjuedecaiyi，bingzhichufenshoushiweiyijiejuewentidefangshi。tamenkenenghuijuedezaijianchixiaquzhinengdailaixindetongkuheyihan，yinerhaobuyouyudixuanlefenshou。

　　个人提升：追寻个人规划与成长

　　youshihou，nanshengguoduanfenshoukenengshiweizhuiqiugerenguihuayuchengzhang。tamenkenengjuedeguanxizulanletadefazhanqushi，meifajunhenggerenhuoaiqing。weilenengshixianzijidelixiangyuzhuiqiugerendelixiang，tamenyexufangqiguanxi，jiangjujiaodianzhuanyizhinidegerenfazhanshang。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，fenshoujiushitamentongwangziwoshixiandelumian。

　　冷静分析：对关系全方位考虑

　　nanshengzhisuoyijiaofenshoujueranqishihaishijinglileqingxingdesisuohequanmiandekaolv。tamenhuoxuyijingyongxinhengliangleguanxideyixiliewentihebuhemudedifang，zuihouzongjiechulefenshoudeguandian。zheileixuanzekenengshichuziyutamenduizijiheduiciduanguanxidechengdan，zaitamenkanlaifenshoushiduiyushuangfangzuijiadexuanze。

　　weishenmenanshengshuofenshouzheimejianjue，zongjielaikan，nanshengshuofenshouguoduandeyuanyinhenduoduofangmiandeyinsujiaocuo。danbuguanshifangfanyishi、jiejuebuchengshu、xinrenqueshi、gerentishenghuoshilengjingfenxi，douzhixiangleyigegongtongjiandingdexinnian——zaitamenkanlaifenshoushiyizhongchuliwenti，xunzhaogengqiangjianglaidefangfa。duinvshenglaijiang，lejienanshengshuofenshoudongjiyuxuqiushihenzhongyaode，genjuzhenshiqieyouxiaogoutonghejiejuewentidefangshi，yexukeyixunzhaoguanxidezhuanzhe，huozaifenshouyihou，jizijigenduifangchuangzaoyigegengmeihaodemingtian。