恋爱宝典：什么是爱情？怎样谈恋爱？

 shenghuozhongyouyileirenbuzhidaozenmetanlianai，congyidingchengdushanglaishuo，tamenbuzhidaoshenmeshiaiqing，benwenfenxiangquanmiandelianaibaodian，gaosunishenmeshiaiqing，zenmetanlianai。

一、情感问答

qishiwoyizhihenmimang，tebiemimang。huozheshuo，woshiyimimangzaitaobiba。

 taobishenmeni?taobixianshi，taobizheigeguannianshenzhongdeshijie!wobuxianglianai，yebuxiangjiehun，yebuxiangbianchengqianqianwanwanrenzhongzhiyi。zheishiwozuijinshijiancaidechudejielun。bushishuoshuoeryie!

 wohenxiaohenxiaodeshihoujiuzaixiang，zheigeshijieweishenmeyouhunyinni?qishibuguoshiyinweijiatingshishehuidexibao，shichaodaigengdiedezuixiaodanwei。renleixuyaojiating，xuyaohunyin，xuyaoyanxu。

 woxiaoshihoujiutaiguolizhi，yinweiwozhidaohenduorenbingbushiyinweiaicaijiehun。wozhoubianlihundedarentaiduole，gezhongyuanyin。yizhiyuwoxianmingbaizenyangyunyongfalv，cainengzailihunzhongweihuzijiliyi。

 erhou，wocaikaishinulilijiehunyin、aiqing。jiuxiangdongleyidaoshuxuegongshi，jiusiweiguhua，wufazaibatimulidewenziyiyuwendefangshizaidulijie。woyewufalijielianai、aiqing、hunyinshishenme?

zaiwokanlai，neibuguoshipizheaiqingwaipi，yidanyudaodawentijiuhuilaoyanfenfeideliyigongrongti。shiyichangpianju!

woyeyizhiqidai，zheigeshijienengjiwoyigeyiwai。woshixiangxinaiqingde，zhishiwobuxiangxinaiqinghuifashengzaiwoshenshang。

 wotailejierenxingzuishenchulaiziyubenwodetanlandeyinan。suoyiwobaozhejiaoxingxintai，xiangqinguohenduoci。womeicidourenzhe，xiangbuduanchangshi，yexuaiqinglaiyuanyujiechulejie，huozhemougeshunjiandeqiji。

danshiqishiwozhidao，woyanetamen，lianpengshou，doubuxiang。

 wozhidaotamenyouxiehuai，youxiedanchun，youxiegaoao，youxiewuzhi……fengfudexingge，buwanshandexinggebingbushitamendecuo。huozheshuo，wentibushiwo，yebushita，ershiwoheta。zhiyouwoheta，biancheng“wo、ta”，wentijiubucunzaile。

liusuiwojiubuxiangxinaiqing，kongpawozhendeshibuhunzhuyi。

二、情感解答

wokandaoguozheimeduoyinan，danyiranxiangxinaiqing，buhuishuo“wotailejieyinan”。

womeikandaoyipianyinanshijiuzhidao，zheipianheianshiyinweiyangguangtouxialaicaichanshengleyinying。

neixieyangguangsajinlaidedifang，caishiwomenzhenzhengyaokanxiangdedifang。

womenbuyaoqingeryijudijiangzijitailejierenxing，meiyigerendoushibuyiyangde。

nizongjieleneimeduobierendejingyan、bierendeguilvshuo“wozhoubianlihundedarentaiduole，gezhongyuanyin。”

zheige“taiduo”youduoshaoge?

nijianguo100gedarenlihunle，haishijianguo8724gedarenlihunle?

henduoshihou，womenzongjiedegetijingyanzhishishehuiwangyangdahaizhongdeyidishui，womenjiujuedezijijianguotaiduole。

badanaolideshuixiandaochulai，yongyizhongkongbeidexintaizhongxinkandaizheijianshiqingba。

bierendejingli、jingyandoushibierende，zhiyouzijidegerentiyancaishizijide。

buyaozhishizongjieshenbianneixierenderensheng，neibushidashuju。yebushizhenzhengshuyunidetiyan、niderensheng。

第二，男女之间更重要的是合作。

bukefouren，liangxingzhijiancunzaijingzheng;

bukefouren，liangxingdeliyicunzaichongtu;

gengbukefouren，liangxingzhijianyouqipian，youlaoyanfenfeidengdeng。

danwomenyidingyaokandao，nannvzhijianbujincunzaichayi、jingzheng，haiyouhezuo。nannvguanxigengshiyizhongjingheguanxi。

qijinweizhi，womendekejizaizenmefada，yigerendechusheng，yebixuyaoyoufuyoumu，bixulaiziyunanrengennvrendehezuo。

napashiyikeshoujingluan，tayeshiyikejingziheyikeluanzihezuodechanwu。

baokuomeiyiweiduzhenengkandaoyanqianzheiyixingxingwenzideqianti，doushiyinweinanrenhenvrenyouhezuo。

yinweimeiyouhezuo，jiumeiyounidedansheng，zheijiushizuizhongyaode。

nisuoweide“shijiejiniyigeyiwai”，zheizhongyiwaimeitiandouzaifashenglehaoma?

meiyouzheichangnannvdehezuo，jiumeiyouwomenmeiyigerendedansheng。

 xiangnvzhuzheiyangbeiguandibanannvzhijianjinjinkanchengyichanglingheboyi，kanchengyizhonghaoxiang，“woyounijiumeiyou”nisiwohuoyiyangdejingzheng，shiduinannvguanxibenzhiguilvmeiyouzhangwodewuzhibiaoxian。

 zhenzhengzhangwonannvguanxiyunzuoguilvderendouzhidao，nannvzhijianbujinyoujingzheng，gengzhongyaodeshihezuo，womenyaozheyanyuhezuo，cainengkanqingchuguanxizhongdeyiqie。

第三点，什么是爱或什么是爱情?

zheiweinvzhudangrankeyixuanzebuhunzhuyi，zheishimeiyigegetidequanli，meiyourenhewenti。

danbuhunbudaibiaowuai。bujiehungenmeiyouaiqingshiliangmashi。

keyikending，aishirenleishenghuodeyiyihezuizhongdongli;

yekeyikending，meigerendouxiwangqinmiguanxi，meigerendouxuyaoai。

wulunnixuanzebuhun、duju、tongjuhuoshixiangyaoyizhongkaifangshideguanxi，zheidouzhishilianggerendeguanxixingtaiwenti。

xuanzejianlishenmeyangdeguanxixingtaidoukeyi，zhiyaolianggerenyuedinghao，zenyangyuedingdoukeyi。

dan，qinmiguanxidebenzhishibubiande。

womenmeitiandouzaitanaiqing，jiexialaiwojiuzhenduigushizhongdewenti，tongshiyegenzaizuomeiyigerenkepulianggeaiqingdebenzhi。

diyigebenzhi，aiqingdehexinbenzhishiqinmiguanxi。

 nikandaoyigerenconglubianzouguoqu，xintiaohuranjiasu，zheijiaonibeiduifangxiyin，zheijiaodanxiangsi，zheibujiaoaiqing，bushiqinmiguanxi。

suoyoudeguanxibixushishuangxiangde。

zhiyoulianggerenhuxiangbeiduifangxiyin，ranhoukaishixingchengyueding，xingchengqiyue，zheishihoucaiyouleqinmiguanxi。

qiyueshiduozhongduoyangde，nimenzijiquyueding：

youderenyueding，yifangdegongzidoujiaojilingwaiyifang;

youderenyueding，duifangbixuyaozhuanyi;

youderenyueding，wobixuyaoziyou。

shenmedoukeyiyueding，zhiyaozheigeyuedingshishuangfanggongtongwanchengde。

zhengshiyinweiyoudeqinglvhuxiangyuedingyaozhuanyi，suoyicaihuiyouyifangchugui，jingshenchuhudeqiyue。

yueding，yiweizheyiduanguanxishishuangxiangdeguanxi。

 womenkandaoyouxiegushi，biruqianduanshijiandeyigetougao：yigenanshengweileyigenvshengshuo，zijiyaohuanyifengongzuoqudaotayigechengshi，yaomaigefangzixiangtaqiuhun，erzaitahaigenbenbuzhidaorenjiahuibuhuidayingjiajita，xibuxihuantadeqiantixia，zheijiaoaiqingma?

zheijiaoyixiangqingyuan，zheijiaowubidezilian，zheijiaoziwodexiangxiang。

lingyigebenzhi，aiqingbujinshiguanxi，tongshiyeshiyigeguocheng。

zaihenduorendexiangxiang，aiqingdoushiyibudaowei。

 yaomeshigushilinvshengzheizhong“lianpengshou，doubuxiang”;yaomejiushixiangyaoyishunjiandeqiji，aiqinghuranjianglindaowoshenshang，woyaogentayishengyishiyongbuxiangli。

不是这样的。

aiqingbushiheibaifenmingde，dianguanghuoshizhijian，huranjiuanxialeyigeanniu，lianggerenjiuaishangle。

aiqingyebushinidiyiciaishangyigerenshi，jiuyixiaziquandouxuehuile。

 aiqingshigeguocheng，dabufenrendouxuyaojicideaiqingjingli，qudongdezenmequaiyigeren;dabufenrenyexuyaozaiguanxizhongmanmandixiangchu，qulijieaishishenme，quzhangwozenmegoutong，zenmebiaoda，zenmechulibicidechongtu，zenmeyuedingxingcheng，zheidoushiyigeguocheng。

aiqingbuhuiyishunjianjiurangnicongyigenvtongbianchengleaiqingnvshen，zheibukeneng。

nikenengxuyaojingguoyiciyouyicidecuobai，yexubeiqipian，yexubeishanghai，danniyehuibeireai。

aiqingdemeiyigeguochengkenengdouxiangbingxueronghua，xiangwanwushengzhang，shiyibuyouyibudejiaoyin，erbushiyimiaozhongjianglindexingyun。

yishang，shijintianguanyuaiqingbenzhideliangfangmiankepu：yifangmian，aishiyizhongguanxi;lingwaiyifangmian，aishiyigeguocheng。

xiwangzheixiekepu，nenggoubangzhudajiaqulijieai、dongdeai、jingyingai、yongyouai。