拜金爱慕虚荣 这样的恋爱注定悲剧

　　nvshengxiangnanshengtifenshounandeweishenmebuhui，zairenjiguanxizhong，nvshengxiangnanshengmingquetichufenshou，ernanshengyiranjuedingbuhuiying，zheiyangdeshiqingbingbuhanjian。yexushiyinweinanxingbeizhuonongheshangguo，danxinzaiyicifushang；yexujiushitamenduiganqingzaoyishiquzixin，buyuanzaizhankaiyiduanxindeganqing；yexushitamenbuganmianduizijideqingxu，haipamianduifenshoudedaodejieguo。buguanyinsuzenyang，nvshenghenanshengjiandeganqingshifuzaqienairenxunweide，xuyaolijiehejiaoliu，caikeyixunzhaodaodaan。

　　为什么男生不回应女生明确提出分手请求

　　情感压力：不敢面对分手的实际

　　nvshengxiangnanshengtifenshounandeweishenmebuhui，zhongsuozhouzhi，yiduanganqingchedijieshushiyijianrangrenkepadeshiqing。nvshengxiangnanshengmingquetichufenshouyoukenengshishuangfangcunzaidewenti，dannanshengbingbuyidingyoushilihuodanliangyingduifenshoudeshiji。tamenyexuduiciduanganqingyeyoulianlianbushe，huoshipashiqulingyifangzhihoudewuligan。zheizhongfudanrangnanshengbukenhuiyingnvshengqingqiu，youyutamenbuxiangyingduifenshousuochanshengdetongkuziwogaibian。

　　自尊：怕被拒绝性伤害

　　nanshengyibanxiwangnengzaiganqingzhongshiyan“wanqiang”derenwujiaose，tamenyexupabeijujue、beishanghai，yehaipazaifenshoushizhanxianzijidemingan。yiner，dangnvshengmingquetichufenshoushi，nanshengcezhongyubuhuiying，yekeyixuanzebaochilixingdexintai。tamenyinzangzijideqingxu，shiweilebaohuzijidezixinxinhezizun。

　　对感情的惧怕：害怕再一次负伤

　　yicibeishangdefenshouqinshenjinglikenenghuishinanshengduiganqingzaochengjupa。tamenhaipazaiduqinshenjingliaidebodongheganqingdequzhe。nvshengmingquetichufenshouhou，nanshenghenyoukenengxuyaotaobizheiyiduanganqingwenti，buyuanyizaibeijuanrujiuxindezhouqizhong。taxuanzebuhuiying，shiweilebaohuzijimianzaojinyibuzaochengdeshanghai。

　　交流障碍：不知如何表达真实想法

　　youshi，nanshengbunengyunvshengzhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliu，buzhiruhebiaodazijideneixinzhenshixiangfa。tamenkenengbunengzhaodaogenghaodeyujulaimiaoshuzijideqingxuqingkuang，huoshidanyoushangdaolingyifang。yiner，dangnvshengmingquetichufenshoushi，nanshengbuhuixuanzehuiying，kenengjiushiyinweitamenwufaqingtuzishenzhenshixiangfahetihui。

　　坚持自我发展：重视个人成长

　　nanshengkenenghuizaichengzhangjieduanzhong，gengjiazhongshigerenfazhanyuchengzhang。tamenyexuyougengzhongyaomubiaohuorenwuxuyaojinxing，zoushenyuganqingguanlian。dangnvshengmingquetichufenshouhou，nanshengkenengjuedezheishiyigejihuiquzhuanzhuzijishiye、keyehuoqitachengzhangmubiao，suoyixuanzebuhuiyingnvshengqingqiu。

　　结束语

　　nvshengxiangnanshengtifenshounandeweishenmebuhui，dangnvshengxiangnanshengmingquetichufenshoushi，nanshengbuhuiyingdeyuanyinhenduo。qingganyali、zizun、duiganqingdejupa、jiaoliuzhangaijiqigerenchengzhangdengdengdoushihenyoukenengdeyuanyinzhiyi。buguannanshengtiaoxuanzenyangfanying，womendouhuilijiehezunzhongbicizhijiandetiyan。zhenduiweichihuowanbiyiduanganqing，goutongyulejieshihenzhongyaode，bianyubicikeyizhaodaozuilixiangdejiejuefangfa。