情感问答：如何选择适合自己长期发展的职业规划

 youjuhuashuodehao“xuanzebinuligengzhongyao”，henduorenzaigerenfazhanzhiyexuanzeshangbuzhidaoruhexuanze，huazhenqingganjintianfenxiangyigeqinggananli，laikankangairuhezuozijidezhiyexuanze。

一、情感咨询

xingbienv，jinniancongyisuoguowaimingxiaodaxuebiye，zhuanyeshishichangyingxiao。

daxueqijianchuanglileyigexiaodianshangpinpai，jingyinglebudaoliangnian，lianggeyueqianzheigegongsibeishougou，xianzaizaixunzhaoxiayigefangxiang。

 wozaidaxueqijianzaoyulexintaiwenti，cengjieshouguoliangnianlianxudexintaizixun。wocongxiaoaihaoxintaixue，richanghuiyueduxiangguanshuji。daxuexuanzeyingxiaozhuanyeyeshikanzhongzheigexuekedui“ren”decezhong。

 liangniandezixunjinglihebujianduandeziwojiaoyurangwozaidaxueqijianyouletuotaihuanguzhigan。kandaoshenbianhenduorenxiangwocongqianyiyangdaizheguoqudebaofujiannanshenghuo，womengshenglechengweiyimingxintaizixunshidexiangfa。

 wohaishenzaiguowai，xianzaizaizhunbeishenqingsuozaichengshiyisuodaxuedexintaizixundeshuoshixiangmu(master of counseling psychology)。xiangmuxuyaoliangniandequanzhixuexihuodexueweihejiuyezige。

woxianzaiyouruxiakunhuo，xiwangnengtingtingnindekanfa：

 1、zheigexiangmuzhinengrangwozaixianzaideguojiayoujiuyezige。wodanxinjinhouruguoxuanzehuiguo，meiyoubanfazaitongguokaojihuoqitaqudaocongye。wochadaoxianzaiguoneizheigexingyehaibutaiguifan，xiangwenwenninyoushenmeyeneidexiaoxi？

 2、woshiyigefeichangnenggongqingderen，wodanxinjiaruquanzhizuoxintaizixun，jieshoudefumianxinxitaiduo，huiyingxiangwozijideqingxuheshenghuo。qingwenninzuoweixintaizixunshi，youguoleisidekunraoma？

 3、daxuezhuanyeyingxiao，chulejingyingzijidegongsi，meiyoutaiduogongzuojingyan，qianjigeyuezhaogongzuoshilvlvpengbi。jiarurihouzhongzhongyuanyinhaishicongshiyingxiao，wopazhaogongzuogengnan(jihuichengbenwenti)。ganxienin！

二、情感解答

第一，关于创业和职场。

 shouxian，nizaidaxueqijiannenggouchuangliyigexiaopinpai，ranhougongsibeishougou，zheiyijingshifeichanglebuqideyijianshi，zheizaizhenggeshangyeliyesuanshibijiaotimiandetuichule。

zheishuomingleyijianshiqing，zhishaozaichuangyeshang，chuleyunqiyiwai，nikendingyezuoduileshi。

danshi，chuangyegenzhichangshiwanquanbuyiyangde。 qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

chuangyemianxiangdeshizhongduanxiaofeizhe，birunidedianshangpinpai，wufeijiushixiaofeizhemaidanbumaidandewenti。

danshizaizhichang，nibujinyaojiejuexiaofeizhedewenti，gengduoshihou，nihaiyaojiejuelaobandewenti。

 huozhejiandandianshuo，youyigerenzaiyongyigefeichangzhuguandepingjiatixizaipingpannidexingwei。zheiyeshiweishenmenizhaogongzuodeshihou，lvlvpengbi。

erchuangye，buxuyaozaizhaodeshihoupengbi，xiaofeizhehuizhijiejinichengxiankeguanjieguo。

suoyi，zhichangshangxuyaodejinenggenchuangyewanquanbutong。

yinci，ruguoniyishinianshenzhigengdadeshijiankuadulaiwenzijiyigewenti：

wojinhoushiyaoquchuangye，haishiyaozaizhichangshangfazhanchengweiyigezhuanyedeguanlirencai？

zheishiwanquanbutongdeliangtiaodaolu，qujueyunixianzaijiujingxiangzounayitiao。

ruguonixiangjianglaijixuchuangye，neinixianzaibixujingligengduoderen、gengduodeshi，zheixiedoushiweinijianglaichuangyezuozhunbei。

 nibaoyoudesuoyoudagongxintai，doushiweilexuexihaodexitongshizenmeyunzhuande，tiyanshenmeshihaodexitong，jinglishenmeshizhenzhengdeshangyezhanzheng。zheiwanquanbutongdeliangtaodafa。

第二，关于兴趣爱好和个人体验的关系。

 wocengjingxieguoyixilieguanyufanxintaizixunfangmiandewenzhang，ruguodajiayouxingqu，wokeyitigongzheixiewenzhanglianjie，dajiakeyizixikanyixiawoduiyuzhenggefanxintaizixunshichangdekanfa，zheilijiubuzhankaile。

ranhou，guanyusuoweide“yeneixiaoxi”。

wodekanfahenjiandan，womenzhenggefanxintaizixunxingyehaichuzaifeichangzaoqideqibujieduan。

ruguonijinhouxiangzuoxintaizixunfangxiangdegongzuo，xiangcongshizheigexingye，neiniquduzheigeliangniandeshuoshixiangmukendingshihaoshi。

danshiniyidingyaokaolvqingchu，xingquaihaogenzijishijishangyonglaichifandezhuanye，zheishiliangjianshi。

ruguonixianzaicaiwuziyoule，nishuo“wojiushiduixintaizixunganxingqu”，neiwozhichiniquzuo。

shuobaile，zheijiushiyigefuguixianrennenggandeshiqing。

danruguonihaixiangtongguozuozheigeshixianshangyejiazhideduixian，zheikenengbushiyitiaohenhaodelu。

erqiejiuxiangnishuode，zuozixunyoukenenghuiyingxiangnideqingxugenshenghuo。

suirannikeyitongguodudao、chengzhangxiaozuhuoqitadefangshizuodiaojie，danshibukebimiande，nihaishihuishoudaoyingxiang。

jiurutongwoziji，pingchangzuozixunyehuijieshoudaoyixiefumiandexinxi。

 danshi，bijingwobushiyigewanquankaozuozixunshenghuoderen。woyouwodegongsi，woyouwodechuangzuotuandui，woyouwozijideshangyezhichi。

shuobaile，wokeyibukaozuozixunhuoxiaqu，zuozixunduiwolaijiangjiushiyijianxiangduibijiaoqingsongersatuodeshi。

 suoyi，woxiwangninenggoushenshendizhongxinkaolv：duizheijianshiqingdeaihao、tiyan，jiujingshibushiyaozuoweiyigequanqingtourudeshangyedeshiqinglaizuo？

 erqie，niyaohualiangniandeshijianzuozheijianshi，erzheijianshiqingzaiweilainengjinidezhiyeshengyadailaishenmeyangdeyingxiang，xianzaihaibuzhidao。

yishangliangfangmiandekanfagongnicankao。

wohenxiwangxiangnizheiyangdenianqingrenkeyiyonggengzhangdeshijiankuadulaisikaorensheng，bingqiegengduodequchangshi、qutiyan。

jiuxiangnixianglejiexintaizixunshiyijianshenmeyangdeshiqing。

 qishihenjiandan，buyonghualiangniandeshijianqutiyan，nihuayigeyuedeshijian，congguowaidaoguoneizhaoyigenirenweizuidingjidexintaizixunjigou，ranhougenduifangshuo：

 “wojinizuoyigong，wobuyaoqian，woquqiantaijiedianhuazongkeyiba？huozhexingzhengdaza，shoukuaidiyexing，wojiuxiangtiyanxiazheigexingyeshibushihewo，xiwangnimenjiwoyigejihui。”

 nizhiyaohuayigeyuedeshijian，shenzhikenengzhiyaolianggelibaishijian，nijiuhuifaxianneigenbenbushinixiangxiangzhongdeneizhongshenghuo，genbenbushinixiangyaodeshenghuo。

记住，找到自己想要的东西的最简单方法是去尝试、去试错，找到自己不想要什么，那剩下的你才能找到想要的。