如何判断我们遇到的是不是真爱?

　　nvpengyouchaojiayaofenshouzenmeban，zuonvpengyouyinchaojiaertichufenshoushi，xintaitongchangchuyugaoduguodujinzhang。zaizheiyangdejinyaoguantou，lizhibianchengzhongyaoyinsu。xiantingzhuzhengzhiyuchize，jiduifangyixieshijianyukongjian，rangxintaipingfu。jiezhe，zhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliu，lingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou，biaodazijideguandian，tanxunjiejuewentidefangshi。yucitongshi，huiwanglianaizhongdemeihaoshike，zhuiyichuxinhebicizhijiandeduobaozhong，yexunengranqiaiqinghuohua。zaizheiguochengzhong，shendusikaohelijieduifangdeliyicaishiguanjian，xianghutilianghetuoxieyeshifeichangzhongyaodeyuansu。zuihou，jinyoubicizhijianzhenxinxiangdai，baorongyufazhan，caikeyichaoyuezhengzhidejiongjing，fujianwengudeguanlian。nvyouchaojiayaofenshou，weiyoutongguolizhi、zhenzhihezhongshi，caikeyifanzhuanjushi，xunzhaolianggerenyiqideweilaifazhanfangxiang。

　　nvpengyouchaojiayaofenshouzenmeban

　　冷静和理性的态度是不可或缺的

　　zuonvpengyouyinchaojiaertichufenshoushi，xintaitongchangchuyugaoduguodujinzhang，zheishiwomenyinggaibaochilixinghelixingdetaidu。jinliangbuyaozuochujueding，fanershijiduifangyixieshijianyukongjian，rangbiciqingxuhuanhechulai。qingxingdesisuonengbangzhuwomengenghaodichulijiejuewenti。

　　聆听彼此之间的想法和感受

　　chaojiashi，bicitongchangdouhuiqingxuguoji，yiweidizhengzhihehuxiangzhize，danzheizhihuijiazhongfenqi。fanguolai，womenyaoqingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou，lejieduifanglichang。genjuhuanweisikaoyixia，womenkeyigenghaodilejieduifangdexuqiuheqiwang，congeryouzhuyubicigenghaodigoutongyujiejuewenti。

　　重构沟通交流的方式和方式

　　hezuoshiguanlianweichidezhongyaoyihuan。zaichaojiahuanjiezhong，changchanghuichuxiankoutoushangjingong、qingxubengkuidengzhongzhongdejiaoliufangshi。zhonggouyouxiaodegoutongfangshishifeichangyoubiyaode。womenkeyichangshiyong"woyu"biaodazijideganshou，fangzhigongjixingyanyuheyongyu，weichipingjingyuzunzhongdexintai。chucizhiwai，nenggouxunzhaoyixiefeichongtuxingdejiaoliufangshi，birujixin、lingjulideduitandeng，bianyugenghaodibiaoshizijihelejieduifang。

　　回望难忘的回忆与初心

　　jibianchaojiashiwomenduibicizhijianfeichangshiwanghepibei，danwomenyeyaohuiwangwomenzaiyiqidemeihaoshikehechuxin。zhuiyicengjingdetianmiyuxingfu，keyibangzhuwomenranqiaiqingdehuomiao，jiqidajiazhongxinsikaoguanliandejiazhihebiyaoxing。genjuzhuiyihesikao，womenkeyizhaodaodajiazuikaishizaiyiqidequdonglihexinnian，jinergenghaodiyingduichaojiasuoyinfadefenshoukunjing。

　　了解、包容与发展

　　meiyigerendouyouquedianhequexian，zaiwomentiaoxuanxianglianshi，yidingyaojieshouduifangzishendequedian。baorongyulijieshiweixiguanxidezhongyaojishi。zaichaojiahou，womenyaosikaozijidewentiyubuzu，tongshihaiyaolejieduifangdexuqiuheqiwang。genjubicibaorongyulijie，womenkeyiyiqichengzhang，genghaodijiejuechaojiahechongtu，jinerjiazhongbicizhijiandeganqing。

　　探寻解决问题的方式

　　fenshouzhishiyizhongtongguochaojialaijiejuewentidefangshi，erfeiweiyidexuanze。zaimianduifenshoujuedingshi，womenyaogongtongfendoutanxunjiejuewentidefangshi。nengtongguofufuhuolianrenzhidao，yikaozhuanyerenshidexiezhu，huoshizizhutanxunjiejuetujing。zhongyaodeshiyaoweichibaorongdexintai，xiangyaolaigaibianhetuoxie，weilenengyitongxingfuqinfennuli。

　　nvpengyouchaojiayaofenshouzenmeban，fenshoushiyizhongjiduanhuadetiaoxuan，womenkeyishizhezheixiefangfaquchulichaojiananti，zhongxinsikaoliangrendeguanxihezishenwenti。zuihou，weiyoutongguolizhi、lizhixianghuxinren，womencainenggouxunzhaojiejuewentidefangshi，zhongxinranqiaiqinghuohua，wanchengzhangjiudexingfuhexingfu。