情感咨询：一再妥协退让的感情还要继续吗

 you dao：“yizaituoxietuirangdeganqinghaiyaojixuma？”youxieganqingzhidaoyaojiehunlecaifaxianyouzheimeduowenti，huazhenqingganzaibenwenfenxiangyigeqinggananli。

一、情感咨询

 wo24sui，158cm，41kg，fumuzijifendouzaiyixianchengshimaifangchabuduoyijingdingjucichengshi，diyicijita，hetazaiyiqizuoguoyicirenliu。

 nan28sui，175cm，68kg，erben，xuetiyude，daxueshiyouguoyiduanganqing，kandechutaweiqianrenfuchudehaitingduode。

 wohetazaiyiqiliangnian，benlaiyijingjihuazaiwosuozaideyixianchengshimaifangwomenjiehun，qunianshiyiwoyequletalaojiakanlekan，houmiantamamakandaowomensuozaichengshifangjiaguogao，kenengzijinyouxian，zhijiefanhuishuoyaohuilaojiamaifang，dangshiwobuyuanyigentahuilaojiafazhan，talaojiashuyusansixianchengshi，gongzuojiaoyugefangmianmeiyoumuqiansuozaichengshihao。

 nianqiantajuedingcizhihuilaojia，yewenguowoshifouyuanyigentahuiqu，wochenmomeiyouhuida，tacizhihoumeiyouzhijiehuiqu，zuzupeilewoyigeyuekuaidaoguonianlecaihuiqu，huilaojiahoumeiduojiuwotichufenshou，tayijiulianxizhewo，guowannianhoutazailaojiazhaodaoxindegongzuo，jiumeizenmelianxile。

 zhidaozuijintalailianxiwo，zhijiewenwoyuanbuyuanyigentahuilaojiajiehun，bijingyezaiyiqineimejiule，haishuojialiyizhijitajieshaoduixiang，meiciliaozheliaozhejiumeihuale，yizhizaishizhefangxiawohetazhijiandezheiduanganqing，wobenlaixinliyeyizhifangbuxiata，hejiarenshangliang，woyeyuanyigentahuitalaojia。

 ranhoutajiayuanyizailaojiamaiquankuanfang，danshifangchanzhengdejiashangtababademingzi，tamadanxinwoliangbafangzimaile，tongshishuodaocailiqianhou，wodouhaimeishuowojiayaoduoshaocailiqian，taquhetamashangliang，tamajiuhetakaishinao，tamahaishuokule，kenengjiujuedewojiazheibianyaodeduo，ranhouwoliangjiujuedehaolei，doushuofangyifang。xianzaiouerlianxi，woxinliyejuedetingbiequde。

suqiuneirong：zheiyangdeganqinggaijixuma？ruguojixuwogaizenmequzuonengrangzheiduanganqingjiankangdefazhanni？haishizhijiefangqi？

二、情感解答

xianzaizuiyinggaizuodeshi：lengjing。

buguanshi“tacizhihoumeiyouzhijiehuiqu，zuzupeilewoyigeyuekuaidaoguonianlecaihuiqu”

haishi，“jialiyizhijitajieshaoduixiang，meiciliaozheliaozhejiumeihuale，yizhizaishizhefangxiawohetazhijiandezheiduanganqing”。

yishangzhongzhongxingweibulunweinidailaiduoshaogandong，nidouyinggaiqingchuzheidoubushiduiniyouchengyidebiaoxian。

pangguanzhekandaodezhenshiqingkuangqishishizheiyang：

 nidenanyouzaiganqingzaoyuxianshidajishi，congweizhanzainizheiyibiantinizhengqu；zaimianduijiatingheganqingdechongtushi，haobuyouyudixuanzediuxiani。

suoyi，tabushiyigenenggouhehushouhuniyishengdejiaou。

 duifangxianzaihuitouzhaoni，zhishilvcixiangqinweiguo，xiangjienilaitianbuzijiganqingdekongchuangqi，yijiumeiyouweinizuochusihaotuoxiedeyiyuan。tazhiqianjiumeiyouweinizuozhu，xiayiciyebiranbuhuiweinizhengqu。ruguoxianzainiyinweinianjijiuqing，zaicihuitou，xishengdiaodejianghuishizijiyishengdexingfu。

 yexunixianzaishangnengjieshounanyoujiqijiarenyiciyouyicidijiantanidedixian，yadinidetiaojian。dandangnituidaowuluketuishi，kenenghuifaxiannizuizhongdedaodeyezhishiyiduanhaowuchengyikeyandehunyineryi，neigeshihounihuihouhuima？

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