前任攻略3 ：明明你也很爱我 为什么爱不到结果

　　nanrenfenshouhoubujiedianhuadexinli，dangmianduifenshouzhihoudetongkuyushiwang，nanrenjingchangtiaoxuantaobihebimiangoutongjiaoliu，biaoxianchulebujiedianhuadexintai。zheiyixingweijingchangyuanyutamenneixindewunaihexinlishangdechengshoubuzhu，shoujichengweiletamenheguoquqinglvdelianluoqiaoliang，jiedianhuazexiangdangyubeizhuiyibeishangdejiushi。tamenhaipamianduifenshousuodailaideqingxuganqinghejiuchanbuqing，suoyixuanzebikaishouji，changshijiejuebuyukuaizhuiyi，jixuqianjin。zheileixinlitezhengdoushinanshiduifenshouhouqinggansunhaideyizhongbaohutizhi，yizhongtaobidefangfa。danshi，zheizhongzuofahuoxuyeyiweizhetamenduiairenweilaidefazhandewuzhuhewufamianduidezhengtuo。

　　男人面对分手：情感的柔弱与沟通障碍

　　zaiaiqingdebodongzhong，fenshoushiyizhongzaisuonanmianshiji。dangnanrenqinshenjinglifenshouhou，tamenwangwangmianlinyizhongxinlizhuangtaixuanze：shibushijietingdianhua。zheiyixinlitiaoxuanjitixianletamenduiyuqingganshanghaitaobi，chongfentixianletamenduigoutongzhangaihebumingque。benwentongguopouxinanrenfenshouhoubujiedianhuadexinli，womennenggenghaodilejietamenneixindezhuangkuangyuxingweibeihoudeyuangu。

　　1. 逃避痛楚：逃出痛苦回忆

　　duiyuxuduonanrenlaijiang，fenshoushiyizhongjingshenshangdewaishang。shoujichengweiletamenheguoquqinglvdelianluoqiaoliang，erjiedianhuadaibiaozhezaicimianduitongkudehuiyi。yiner，tamengengpianzhongyutaobishouji，changshijiangyiwangdekuchufengcunzaixinli。zheizhongzuofatixianlenanrenmenduiyuqingganshanghaitaobi，tamenxiwangtongguofangzhishoujichupeng，huanjieneixindeyali。

　　2. 情感无助与挣脱：接受不了实际

　　dangfenshouchuxianhou，nanrenjingchangshenxianqingganwuzhuyuzhengtuodangzhong。jiedianhuakenenghuishitamenmianduifenshousuodailaideqingxuganqinghejiuchanbuqing，shidetamenwufamianduixianshi。zheileixintaishitamentaobishoujidejudongjuyouyizhongbaohuhaozijideyongyi，changshijiejuebuyukuaizhuiyi，jixuqianjin。danshi，zheiyefanyingchutamenduiairendejianglaidewunaihemeifamianduidezhengtuo，tamenhaipazhangwodaotamenzhanxindeshenghuo，huozhezaicixianrujiyidewoxuan。

　　3. 沟通障碍：无法面对反复的对谈

　　fenshouzhihoudeshoujitongchangshifanfudeduitan，zhenduinanreneryan，zheileifanfuyoukenengshinanyichengshoude。huiyingleisidewenti、biaoshutongyangdeliyou，zhuduofanfurangtamengandaopijuanyuwuqu。yinci，taxuanzebujiedianhua，qidaibikaizheileihaowuyiyidegoutongjiaoliu。zheileigoutongzhangaitixianlenanrenmenduiyufenshouzhihoudechenmowuyandexiangwang，tamenningyuanheguoquzhijiandeguanxiduanjue，yebuyuanshenxianjiaoliudewuxianxunhuan。

　　4. 没法释放出来情绪：内心深处的担心与焦虑

　　nanrenfenshouhoubujiedianhuabeihou，yidingchengdushangyefanyingchutamenneixindejiujiehejiaolvqingxu。tamenyexuqipantingjianqiannvyoudexiangsheng，danyoudanxinxinlishangdeqifu。zhenduiyiduanyijieshudeaiqingeryan，dianhualianxikenenghuishitamenwufaxuanxieqingxu，rangtamenzaicishenxianaitonghehouhuimojidangzhong。yiner，genjubujiedianhua，nanrenchangshiweihuzijineixin，fangzhizaiduxianruqinggandewoxuan。

　　汇总

　　nanrenfenshouhoubujiedianhuadexinli，nanrenfenshouhoubujiedianhuashiyizhongfanzadexinlitezheng，jitixianletamenduiyuqingganshanghaitaobi，yezheshechutamenmianduigoutongzhangaihebumingque。tamenxiwangtongguobikaishouji，jiejuetongkudehuiyi，shouweineixinshenchudemingan。danshi，zheizhongzuofayeyushizhetamenduiqiannanyouheguoqudewuzhuhewufamianduidezhengtuo。zaifenxinanrendexintaitiaoxuandeqiantixia，womenyeyaoweitamentigongdalianglijieyuzhichi，bangzhuqibaituoqinggandejiongjing，zaicikaiqixindeshenghuo。