如何拥有一个有趣的灵魂

 doushuoyouqudelinghunwanlitiaoyi，bianchengyigeyouxiuderenhuihuodexuduoyixingpengyounaizhinantongdexiai，keshirenmenyaozenyangyouzheyigeyouqudelinghunni?“shejiaoxing”、“jingzhengxing”、“kewanxing”，youqudelinghun，bukehuoquezheisangeguanjianhuanjie。

1、优良的“社交性”是趣味的牌里。

 shanyuherenxiangchu、youzhepingwendeshejiaomeiti，shiyigerenquweidedaibiao。shexiangyixia，dangniganglejieyigenvsheng，fajuetashenpangyouxuduodehaoguimihepenyou，weichiyiqiezhengchangguanliandeyixingpengyouxiaohuobanyexuduo，tongshi、shangshuxiadouyongyoufeichanghaodeguanlian，pingchangkandaotadeneishihouchangyoudaziranhexinxindemiandaiweixiao，shiquntiliguanghuidecunyou，ninengjuedezheiyinvshengshigenaxiederen?

quweiyidingshizaiqizhongyigehuishanguozaininaohaizhonglideci。

 yuanyisuzaoyouliangdeshejiaoxing，jiubixuyoudaliangdegerenaihao，gengjijizhudongdeshenghuoguannian，jiqigengjijidirongjinshejiaomeitiziranhuanjing，bingbushibizhezishenquzuo，zhishizaizheiqizhongxunzhaozishenkuaile。

2、强劲的“竞争性”是趣味的驱动力。

 youxizhongli，jiaruniyaoying，buyidingyaobitarenzijintourudaliangdeshijianqulvyou，danwubiyaoyoudaliangfangfahexuexipeixun。xuduoneishihou，kanyigechunshougongzhizuodeshipinjiaoxue，binizishenmangmugenfengdashipanyaodaolaiheli。jingzhengxingjiushishuo“nibiwogengqiang，woyexuexipeixunni，suihoukuayueni!”erbingbushi“ai，suanle!”

 youqudelinghunwanlitiaoyi，huiyiyixia，richangshenghuoyoushiduoshaoairenhuoshiquweidezhutihuodong，youyuniyiju“suanle”jiucuoguode，jiaruyou，congjintiankaishi，tishengnidejingzhengxing，yigeyongxindenvren，feichangquwei、feichangyouhuo。youyulingyifangcongnishoushangnengtihuidaozhuanxinzhizhihexinxin。

3、广阔的“可玩性”是趣味的拓宽。

“今天吃什么?”

“aiyo，buxiangxiang，huanshiquzhiqiannajiaba。”

“周末去哪玩呀?”

“buqingchue，kankanbei。”

 tashihaoguimihuoshilianrenjianzuipubiandehuihuaba?meidaofandianhuoshilibaitianqianyitian，wohainengtingjianneiyangdehuihua。huoxuhuihuazishen meiyounanti，dandangnidechangtaihuashineiyang，erqienimeiyouguanniandaozishenyaoxunzhaogenggai，neimenidekewanxingjiuhuidafudujiangdi。

 zenyangyouzheyigeyouqudelinghun？jiufangfoyikuanshoujiyouxi，jiaruzhinengyigeyouxiwanfa，zhinengyitaodaban，zhinengyibawuqizhuangbei，neixunsujiuhuiwanni，jiaruyouxiwanjiabukeyiwujuwushudichangwan5，zheiyishoujiyouxixunsujiuhuijindaosilu。

duoyongxinkexueyanjiuzenmedabanziji，buyidinglikejiunengyuelaiyuehenmei，danyiduanshijianchulai，haowuyiwenhuiyouyixiezhuanbian。

 zairichangshenghuozhong，gerenaihaohaikeyichongzudichongfenfahuikewanxing，tufaqixiangdeshinenggouzuo，zuomeishiguodeshier，shiliaoweijidetanchinenggouquchi，chimeichangguodetesemeishi，gesanchawubiangefangfa，rangshenpangderendaonishoushangtihuidaomianmianbujuedehuoli。jiarunikeyijiangnidazaochuyouxirenwudeshejifenggehesisuo，fangjinnideyishizhuxingli，niyidingnengbianchengyigequweidenvren。