男人婚后心态上的五大变化

　　nanpengyouduiwolengdanyoubuyuanyifenshou，zheileifuzaguanxirangwoshenxianmaodunhedanyoudangzhong。tadelengdanrangwojuedexinhuiyileng，eryouguoduanbuyuanyiwanbiwomendeguanxi，rangwogaobuqingtadezhenzhenzhengzhengniantou。wobuyoudesisuo，weishenmetaduiwozheibanlengmodanyoubuyuanyifangkaishou?zheizhongqingkuangkunraozhewo，rangwobuzhidaoruhemianduiyuganqing。yexu，renzhihehezuoshijiechuzheiyiyituandeguanjiansuozai，weiyoutongguobicidegoutongcainengfaxiannantidegenyuanhekenengdeduice。

　　被逼入困境的矛盾情绪

　　nanpengyouduiwolengdanyoubuyuanyifenshou，nanyoudelengmorangwoxianrulekunjing。dajiacengshiqinmiwujiandexiaoqinglv，tanchengxiangdaizhe，danshizuijintaduiwoquemanmanshuyuanershengshu。tadebiaoxianrangwonanyilijie，gengrangwoxincungulv。wojianjianyiweitashibushihaiaiwo，shibushiduiwodeyingxiangzaoyitibuqixingqu。ciwai，keshitaguoduanbiaoshubuyuanyifenshoulichang，zheirangwoxianrumaodundexinxudangzhong。

　　思索冷淡的缘故

　　wokaishikaolvtalengmodeyuangu。huoxushibicizhijianchuxianleyixiewenti，shitazhujianbiandeshuyuan。huozhelianggerendeganqingjinrupingdanqi，shitaduiwoshiqujiqing。woyexiangzhidaotaneixindezhenzhenzhengzhengniantou，weishenmetabuyuanyifenshou，youhenduiwolengmodexintaizheibanxianzhu。gezhongwentijiuchanbuqingzaiwodenaohaizhong，bunengdedaomingquededaan。

　　沟通交流变成对策

　　mianduizheiyangdejiongjing，wocaiyishidaohezuoshichuliwentidehexin。weiyoutongguozhenzhidegoutongjiaoliu，cainenglejiebicizhijiandeguannianhetihui。wodasuanhenanyouzuoxiahaohaoditanyitan，lingtingtadexinli。zaijiaotanzhong，womenjiangbiaodaduitalengdanweifaxingweidemimanghegulv，tongshihaihuigongxiangwodeganjueheqiwang。xiwangyongzhenchengdejiaoliu，dajianengzhaodaoyitongjiejuefangan，jinerfujianlianggerendeganqing。

　　探寻可能性的难题

　　chukaigoutongjiaoliu，woyexiangsisuokenengcunzaidewenti。huoxuwomenzairichangrichangshenghuohushilebicizhijiandexuyao，zhishiaiqingshengshu。huoshiwomendeguanxiyuelaiyueguoduyilai，shiqugerendekongjianhezijuexing。gezhongwentiyoukenengshishitalengdandeyuanyinzhiyi。yiner，wozhunbeihetashangyi，gongtongqujiejuezheigewenti，zaicigoujianqixianghulijieyuzhichizhijiandeguanxi。

　　面对现实与自我提升

　　wulunmianduishenmeyangdezhuangkuang，zuihoujuecequanzaiyuziji。jiarubuguanzenyangqinfen，tayiranwufahuidaodangchuduiwodeguanaiyureqing，wohuoxubixujieshouzheigeshishi，bingjinxingxiangyingdeguanlijuece。wulunxuanzezaicihaishifenshou，zheixiejinglidoushiyicichengzhangdejihui。wonengyifazhanchengweizongtimubiao，xuehuizilihewanqiang，xiangxinweilailangsonghuiyougenghaoderenyugengmeihaodeaiqingdenghouzheta。

　　重构幸福和将来

　　nanpengyouduiwolengdanyoubuyuanyifenshou，buguanzuihoujieguoruhe，wojianxinxingfujiushinenggouzhongxinsuzaode。buguanqinshenjinglishenmeyangdecuozheyujiongjing，zuizhongyaodeshiyonggandemianduibingcongzhongxuexi。genjuzheixiejingli，wohuigengjiajiandingziwo，qingchuzijiduixingfudedingyi，bingqieweiwanchengzijidexingfuerfendou。bulunshifouhenanyoufenshou，woxiangxinweilaizhongrengranhuiyuelaiyueduomeihaoderenheshidenghouzheta。