挽回婚姻需要避免的三个误区

　　jiehunhounanrenshengqijiushuofenshoushishenmexintai，hunhounanrenshengqijiushuofenshoushiyizhongrangrennanyicaitoudexintai。zheileixintaishuomingtamenduiyuhunyinzhongcunzaidewentigandaowuzhuhedanyou，meifayouxiaodegoutonghejiejuewenti。zheiyexushiyinweitamenquefaxintaiguanlijineng，jiangfenshouzuoweijiejuewentidefangshi。huoshi，zheileixintaiyeyoukenengyuanyutamenduiyuhunyindebuquedingxinghuozheduizhizedehaipa。buguanyinsuzenyang，zhangwozheileixintaiyouliyunenggougenghaodijiejuehunyinlidemaodun，bingxunzhaoliangrengongtongchengzhangdejihui。

　　yangguangmingmeidehunlixianchang，tamenlishixiangbanyisheng，wulunfengyuyuputong。danshi，hunhounanrenshengqijiushuofenshou，zheidaodishiyizhongzenyangdexintaini？zaizheigemingtizhong，womenjiangyaoshenrufenxinanrendangmianduihunyinkunhuoshisuobiaoxianchudexintai，fajueshencengyuanyinyuyingxiang。

　　1. 难以言说的心里疑惑

　　jiehunhounanrenshengqijiushuofenshoushishenmexintai，hunyinrichangshenghuochongmanlegezhongtiaozhancuozhe，dangnanrenkunhuobuyihefalishi，wangwangshicaiyongjiduanhuadejucuo：mingquetichufenshou。tamenkenenghuiyinweigoutongbudaowei、guanxijinzhanghuozheshiduihunyinqingkuangganjuemimangerxuanzelezheiyiguojixingwei。zheileixintaijieluletamenmianduikunnanshiwuzhuyujiongjing。

　　2. 情绪控制的缺乏

　　nanrenyifenshouzuoweishufaqinggandeyizhongfangshi，daduoshiyinweitamenquefaqingxukongzhijiqiao。dangtamengandaofennu、xiaochenhuojusangshi，hennanshiyingbingtuoshanchuzhixintai，yincilikaizuoweiduobi。zheileixintaibaoluchutamenguanliqingxudebuchengshuhewufamianduikunjingnengli。

　　3. 对婚姻可靠性的焦虑

　　nanrenshengqishuofenshouyeyoukenengtixianletamenduiyuhunyinkekaoxingdejiaolv。dangmianduihunyinzhongcunzaidewentihemoheshijianshi，tamenyexuyiduhuaiyihunyindezhangqixing，danxinpengdaogengdadewenti。zheileixintaizhanxianleduiweilaikongjuheduixianzhuangquebudadao，congerxuanzefenshoulaijiejuefenqi。

　　4. 认清责任与发展

　　nanrenshengqishuofenshoudexintaiyeshiyizhongduiyiwutaobidezhuyaobiaoxian。yingduihunyinzhongcunzaidewenti，tamenwangwangxuanzetaochuerfeiyonggandequmiandui。zheileixintaibixuwomenlejiedao，hunyinxuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendouyuchengzhang，erbushiyongfenshouqujiejuewenti。zaihunyinzhong，biciyinggaijijifuzeren，dongdetuoshanchuzhinanti，yiqichengzhang。

　　5. 用沟通交流破译困境

　　fenshoubingbushichulihunyinnantidezuijiatujing，fanguolai，genjuyouxiaogoutongnenggoupoyikunjing。yangchenglianghaodegoutongdejiqiaoyouliyufuqijianchuangjianchuanqizhifuchengxu，tigaobicizhijiandelijiexinlai。yingduikunhuo，nanrenbixuxuehuiyuairenzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu，xunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。

　　jiehunhounanrenshengqijiushuofenshoushishenmexintai，hunhounanrenshengqijiushuofenshousuofanyingdexintaifuzaqieduozhongduoyang。congnanyiyanshuodexinliyihuo，daoqingxukongzhidequefa，zaicongduihunyinkekaoxingdejiaolv，zheizhongxintaidouxuyaoniqurenzhihechuli。jinyoutongguojijidejiaoliu、zhizededanfuhegongtongdefazhan，cainenggouzhenzhengchuangjianlaogu、jiankangdeshenghuohunyinguanlian，yinglaihunyinlidekaoyanbingqiezaikunhuozhongfazhan。