从短期择偶策略看第三者在男人心中的地位

　　jiaxingfenshoujiushizhiqinglvzhijianzaiyidingchengdushangfangzhenmonifenshouqingkuang，keshishishangbingweizhenzhengfenli。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，dajiakenengzhanshichuyixietedingdexingweibiaoxianbiaoxian。neiyang，jiaxingfenshouyounaxiebiaoxianni？zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，yifanghuoshuangfanghenyoukenengbiaoxianchuqingxulengmo、fangzhiqinjin、nandeshaoyougoutongjiaoliuhuobushanyanci、jingchangyanchiyouhui、renzhidujiangdi、shejiaomeitishangzhijiandehudongjianshaodeng。zheizhongbiaoxianyifangmiankenengshiweileceshilingyifangdefanying，huozhelinshishengshuyihuanjieguanliannanti。jiaxingfenshoudedanshengwangwangyiweizheqingxubuwen，shuangfangbixuzhenchenggoutongyichuliwenti。

　　困惑的间距

　　jiaxingfenshouyounaxiebiaoxian，zaiyiduanganqingzhong，jiaxingfenshoukenengshiqinglvzhijiandeyizhongbiaoxian。zheiyangdezhuangtaidaibiaozhezaibierenkanlaihaoxiangyijingjieshu，keshishishangmeiyouwanquanfenli。bicikenenghuiyouzhongzhongyuanyinhedongyinlaicaiquzheizhongjiaxingfenshoudejudong，xiamianjiangtaolunhaoduogezuidianxingdebiaoxian。

　　冷淡与疏远

　　yifangzaizhujianjiaxingfenshouhou，kenenganshidilengmomianduilingyifang。zheibiaoxianweiqingganshangdejianwen，tamenduibicideguanhuaihejiqingjiangdi。henyoukenengbuzaixiangyiqianneiyangjijiyouhui、guanzhutarendeshenghuo，shenzhishizaigoutongshitaobihuofuyanyingfu。zheileilengmoshuyuandexintaihenyoukenenghuiranglingyifangkunhuobuyihejuewang。

　　防止亲近

　　lingyigemingxiandebiaoxianshiduiyuqinmijiechudetaobi。zhuyaobaokuohuijuexiangyong、jiewenhuoxingxingwei，naizhitangzaichuangshanglakaijuli。zheizhongzuofawangwanghuirangqinglvzhijianzhijiandeguanxiyuelaiyuelengmonaizhishengshu，zengqianglexianghuzhijiandeweizhihejiedi。

　　欠缺沟通与不善言辞

　　jiaxingfenshouqinei，shuangfangzhijiandegoutonggongzuopinlvhenyoukenengmingxianjiangdi。tamenyexuyuelaiyuegupi，duiganqingzhongdenantizhuanglongzuoya。zheileichenmowuyankenengshinimenbicidoushizaichangshijiejuezijidexinqinghekanfa，huozheyinweimouzhongyuanyinbuyuanbiaoshiziji。zheileiquefayouxiaogoutongzhuangtaizhinengjinyibujiashenbicizhijiandegehehewujie。

　　经常延迟幽会

　　zaijiaxingfenshouqinei，yifangkenengjingchangyanchiyouhuihuodiaozhengzaoyijihuahaodezhutihuodong。zheizhongzuofakenengshiweilenengzhizaoyizhongshuligan，yiceshilingyifangfanyinghuoyinqilingyifangdegaoduguanzhu。xiangfan，lingyifangkenenghuiyinweipinfandiyanchikunhuobuyiheyihan，buzhidaoduifangdezhenshiyongyishisha。

　　社交媒体互动交流降低

　　jiaxingfenshouqinei，qinglvzhijiandeshejiaomeitihudongjiaoliukenengmingxianjiangdi。zheikeyitongguoguanzhudianzan、pingjia、huxiangguanzhudengfangshilaizhanxian。jiaxingfenshoudeyifangkenenghuibiandemeiyouneimehuoyuexing，shaoheduifangzaishejiaomeitishanghudong，zheishilingyizhongbiaoxianchutamenxiangyaolakaijulidexingshi。

　　存在的困难和解决方案

　　jiaxingfenshouyounaxiebiaoxian，jiaxingfenshoubiaomianshangkanqilaikanqilaixiangyizhongduice，keshishishangquekenengzaochenggengduomimanghewuhui。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，guanjianzaiyubiciyaochengshiertanchengdigoutong。tayinggaichangshilejieduifangdezhenshitiyanheyongyi，bingxunzhaojiejuewentidefangfa。ruguolianggerenqingyuanfuchuqinfen，genjujiaohaodegoutongyulijiekeyihuajiewuhui，fujianqiqinmiwujianhewendingdeguanlian。