zaiaiqingshijieli,zaiwomenyunvpengyoufenshoushi,lizhishibukequeshaode。keshi,zenmequedinglizhishijianshizaiyigezhongyaohuanjie。henvyoufenshouhou,meiyigerensuoxudelizhishizhangdougebuxiangtong。youderenkenengbixujiri,youderenkenengbixujigexingqi,shenzhigengzhangshijian。zheigeshihoubujinkeyibangzhuwomenzhongxinshenshizijihezheifenganqing,hainenggourangwomencongtongchuzhongjiefangchulai,zhongshineixindeningjing。yiner,yaolixingdijiyuduifangchongzukongjianheshijian,lailengjingfenxihenvpengyoufenshoulengjingduoshaotianheshi,cainenggenghaodemianduihejingyingganqingdegaibian。
应对分手,必须适当理智
henvpengyoufenshoulengjingduoshaotianheshi,fenshoushiyiduanganqinglvtuzhongdeyizhongjielun,takenenghuidailaitongchu、kunhuoheshiwang。erfenshouzhihoudelengjingqi,shiweilejizijiyiduanshijianlaihuifuqingxu、zaicishenshizijihezheifenganqing,jiqiweiyihouzuochugenghaodeguanlijuece。keshi,dajiazenmepanduanfenshouhoushidangqingxingdeshijian?
了解自己情绪和需求
meigerenduiyufenshouhousuoxuyaodelizhishizhangshibuyiyangde。yiner,diyibujiushilejiezijiqingxuqingkuangyuxuqiu。wenziji:zijishifoujuedefushang?zijishifouhaixuyaoshijianlaijieshouzheigeshishi?woshifouyaozhongshizishenbingchongshiziwo?genjuzhenxinshiyijienazijideqingxuyuxuqiu,dajiakeyigenghaodefenbiansuoxuyaodelengjingqi。
寻找外界适用
renshishehuixingdeshengwu,womenyinggaiyubierengoutongyugongxiangzijideqingxu。zailengjingqijian,xunzhaowaibushiyongshifeichangzhongyaode。nenggouyupengyou、jiarenhuoxinlizhuangtaizhuanyerenyuangoutongjiaoliu,tamennenggoujiyunitiyi、zhichihelijie。yutarenfenxiangnideqingxuhegulv,yekeyiweinintigongbutongshijiaohesiweifangshi。
理智时间的长度不适合太短
lengjingqizhangduyousuobutong,danshitabushihetaiduan。fenshouhou,dajiaxuyaoyidingdeshijianlaijianqingqingxu、shutonggongzuoyali、huifuxinli。guoduanlengjingqikenenghuishidajiameijihuiquanfangweisikaoyumianduixianshi,yenanyichedixiaochuyiwangdeqingxujiuchanbuqing。yiner,hebuweizijiyiduanxiangduixinghenzhangdeshijianlailengjingfenxi。
却也不宜过多
jinguanshidudelizhishizhangshifeichangbiyaode,danjiaozhangdelengjingqiyehuiyingxiangdajiafazhanhefazhan。zhangshijiandezhiliuzaiguoqukunanzhong,nengrangwomenmeifaxiangqiantuijin。zaiquerenlengjingqizhangdushi,yeyaoyouyishidikongchuyidingdeshijianlaizhongxingaishanzijishenghuojiezouyumubiao,weiweilaifazhanchongfenzhunbei。
慢慢复建自信和探寻新趋势
fenshouzhihoudelengjingqi,bingbuzhishiweilehuifuqingxu,yeshiweilexiangqianzou、zhaodaoxindefangwei。genjulengjingqidetansuo,womennengzaicishenshizijideyaoqiuheqidai,fujianzixinxin,bingjizijishezhiyigexindeziwoguihua。bubimilianyiwanghuanxiang,fanershijijizhudongmianduiweilaidegailv。
结束语
henvpengyoufenshoulengjingduoshaotianheshi,yingduifenshou,shidangdelizhishifeichangbiyaode,danlizhishijiandezhangduyousuobutong。lejiezijiqingxuyaoqiu、xunzhaowaijieshiyong、fangzhitaiduanhejiaozhangdelengjingqi,manmanfujianzixinyutanxunxinqushi,zheixiedoushiwomenxuyaokaolvyunulide。zuihou,lengjingqidemudejiushiweileyerangwomenzouxiangchengshujiaoaodimianduiweilaiderichangshenghuoyuqinggan。
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