为什么善解人意的女人总是被男人辜负？

　　danglianggerenfenshoushi，youyixienvshengzongshihuiqingbuzijindetucaoqifenshouduixiangdezhuduobugou。liru，neiyigefenshoushitucaoduixiangdenanshengyexuzongshibugouguanzhuduifangdeganshou，shishikekedouzhiguanzhuzishendeliyi；huoshitazonghuiduitadehuashushiwudu，mieshitajianyi。bulunshiyixiexiaoshi，huoshiyixiedadechabie，douchengweiletamentucaotaolundehuati。yexu，zheizhongtucaojinjinshiweilefaxiexinliqiangliebuman，doushizhengshijieshuzheiyiduanganqingdaobiefangfa。

　　一、分手时的情绪发泄

　　zaifenshoudeguochengdangzhong，gezhongqingxuhuizaibuzhibujuezhongbuduanyongxianchongchu。duiyuyixienvshengeryan，tucaoduixiangdenanshengbianchengletamenqingxufaxiededuixiang。zaizheishihou，tamenhuibuzijuediyongjianruiyuyanbiaodalaixingronglefenshouduixiang，haobuliuqingdeqiangdiaotamencunzaidebuzu。zheizhongxingweikenengzhishiweilenengfaxiexinliqiangliebuman，weilerangnizaikunanzhongtanxunyisikuanwei。

　　二、揭开被忽略的需要

　　youyixienvshengfenshoushitucaoduixiangdenansheng，jiushiweilejiekaibeihulvedexuyao。tamenrenweizaiganqinglibeiduishouhushilehaoduoci，bulunshiguanzhuhuoshizhongshi。yiner，tamenzaifenshoushiyunyongtucaodexingshi，genjunengrangduifangtingjiantamenqiangliebuman，laichangshigouqilingyifangduitamenshichangxuqiudegaoduzhongshi。zheileitucaoyexushibiaoshutadeneixinbeihulvedekuchu，doushiduiaiqingdedaobiefangfa。

　　三、引起思考与更改

　　youyixienvshengfenshoushitucaoduixiangdenanshengjiushixiwangnenggouyinfatadesikaoyugenggai。tamengenjuyanyujiansuankebodizhichuduifangyixiliewenti，qidainengrangduifangrenshidaozijidecunzaidebuzubingjinxingfansi。zheileitucaoyexushitamenzuihouyicijiduifangtishengdejiyu，yeshiweilerangfenshoubudandanshijieshu，zhishiduishuangfangyouyidingdeqifayuchengzhangdeyizhongfangshi。

　　四、释放出来被伤害的情绪

　　fenshoushitucaoduixiangdenanshengtongchangjiushiweileshifangchulaibeishanghaideqingxu。shiquleyifenganqinghou，nvshengmenchangchanghuibeiqingxusuoyingxiang，neixinchongmantongchufennu。tucaoshitamenqingtuhefaxiedeyizhongfangshi，tongguoyongruilideyanyubiaodazijidesunhai，changshipingfuxinlidekuchu。zheileitucaokenengzhishitamenxunzhaoxinlingshangdeweijie，shiyizhongqingganshangdeshifangchulai。

　　五、突显自强自立

　　fenshoushitucaoduixiangdenanshengyoushihoujiushiweiletuxiannvshengdeduliziyouzili。tamengenjuhuaiyiduifangyixiliewenti，shuomingzijibingbuyidingjiezhusuoyouren，tamenyoushuipingzishiqili。zheileitucaoshiyizhongziworenkehezizunxindezhanshi，jiushiweilejiduifangyuqitarenzhanxiantamenziqiangzilideyimian。zheizhongtucaokenengzhishitamendeyizhonggulizijihejiandinglixiangxinniandexingshi。

　　zaifenshoushitucaoduixiangdenanshengbianchengleyixienvshengdetiaoxuan，bulunshiweilenengqingxufaxie、jiekaiyaoqiu、yinqisikaoyugenggai、shifangchulaibeishanghaideqingxu，huoshituxianziqiangzili。tucaoyexuzhishiyishidexuanxie，danlingtamenhaiyoujihuibiaoshuneixindebumanhetongchu，yechengweijieshuyiduanganqingdeyizhongfangshi。