生完孩子后老公开始嫌弃我了该离婚吗

　　fenshouyihouduojiulianxikeyiwanhuishiyigeyouguanfenshouhoushifouxiufulianluodexiangguanwenti，zheishihenduorenzaiaiqingcuozhezhongjingchangkaolvdewenti。wanhuiganqingbingbushishiyigejiandanquanguocheng，yinweimeiduiqinglvdeqingkuangdoubuyiyang。youderenrenwei，zidonghuifulianxihuixiandeguoyupobujidai，eryouderenkenengganjuedenghouhenjiuhuizhujianshiqulingyifangdereqing。yiner，duozhangshijianlianluonenggouwanhuizaiyulianrenzhijianzhuangtaihexinlijiankangzhuangkuang。zuizhuyaodeshi，yizhenchenghelixingdetaiduqujiejuefenshou，zhenxinzhenqingnaixindazaogenghaodejianglai。

　　分手后是否挽回，时长担任重要的角色

　　fenshouyihouduojiulianxikeyiwanhui，aidefenshouwangwanghuirangrenshenshoutongchuhedanyou，tebieshiduiyuyiranbaoyouqidaideyifang。renmentongchangkukusisuofenshouhoushenmeshihoucainengzaicilianluo，yiqidaiwanhuishiqudeaiqing。danshi，zaizheiguochengzhong，shizhangchengweileyigedanfuzhongyaojiaosedeyaosu。

　　情感上的减温与反思环节

　　fenshouhoudediyiduanshizhang，qingxujilie，shuangfangbixupingjingxialai。zheiyijieduanbeichengzuoqingganshangdejianwenqi，fenbiexuyaoyiduanshijianjinxingfansiheziwotisheng，yizhongxinsikaowentidehexin。zheiduanshijiankeyichengzhiwei“dujusisuoqi”，zaizheishihou，heqianrenzaicilianluohenyoukenengxiandebijiaoxinjihebulixing。

　　一同心理上的粉碎与复建

　　fenshouhoudeyiduanshijianguoqu，xintaimanmanhuifu，dajiakaishikaolvyitongdeguowangyijiweishenmedaodalefenshoudechengdu。zheiyijieduankeyichengzhiwei“xinlizhongjianqi”，zaizheishihou，zaicilianluokenengyouzhuyutaoluncongqiandenanti，bingshizhexiubuhuofujianposundeaiqing。

　　再次接触到的均衡和睦

　　zaicilianluodeshijianduanshiyigeshenzhongxuanzedeyigeguocheng。biciyinggaikaolvbicizhijiandetiyanbingxunzhaoyigejunhengdian，yifangzhizaiciyinfamaodunheliekai。zheiduanshijianxuyaozixikaoliang，fangzhitaizaohuoguochilianxita，ershishidangdeshijizhanxianzhenzhihechengxin，yixiwangchanshengjijixiaoguo。

　　挽回感情的关键是行为

　　zuizhong，bulunshenmeshihouzaicilianluo，wanhuiganqingdeguanjianshixingwei。jinjinzhishizaicilianluozishenbingbunengjiejuewenti，fanershixuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendouziwogaibian。genjuzhenchengdegoutongyulejie，biaoshuneixindezhenshixiangfahexinyuan，caikeyiyinglaiganqingdezhongsheng。

　　fenshouyihouduojiulianxikeyiwanhui，zaizheisuoyoudeyiqiehuanjiezhong，shizhangdetiaoxuanshishifenzhongyaode。yaozhunquelijiemeigejieduandeshizhangyaoqiu，zhongshibicidetiyan，bingzaizijijiaxinlibeihaoyiquedingxiayibuxingdongqianzaicilianxi。wanhuiaiqingdedaoluzhongshikaiqiqiadangdeshijianduan，shijianyouzishenshiyigezhiyuxinlinghezhiyuchuangshangdeshenqimoli。