男女感情的终点 女人经历“被分手”的心态阶段

　　juliwomenfenshouyijingguoqusigeyuedeshijianye。zheishiyigemanzhangtongkudeguocheng，wojinglilewushuriyedesinianhemimang。sigeyuedeshijianye，rangwoyijingcongtongkulizouchulai，yerangwoguanniandaozijidejianqianghechengzhang。zaizheiguochengzhong，wotongguoshenrusikaoyuziwodiaojie，dongdelejieshouhefangkaishou。rujin，woyiyonggandequmianduijianglai，bingxiangxinshijiannengzhiyuyiqie。fenshousigeyuele，wozhongyukaishizhongshizijidexingfuyuzixin。

　　痛与成长

　　fenshousigeyuele，sigeyueqian，dajiafenshoule。neishihoudewo，tongchexinfei，meifajieshouzheigeshishi。keshi，shijianguoqule，tongkuyekaishizhujianxiaochu，wozaizheiguochengzhongchengzhanglehenduo。

　　zaifenshoudeneiyike，woganjuezijibeishijiepaoqileyiyang。yiqiedoubiandeshengshuertongku，woshenganmishilefangxiangheqidai。danshi，wobingmeiyouchenjinyubeishangzhong，ershixuanzeyingduiyuchulizheiyiduanganqingliekai。

　　懊悔与接受

　　fenshouzhihouderilitou，cengjingdewoxianruwujinzizeaohuizhong。wofansiguoqu，xunmizijidewentiyubuzu。keshi，wocaiyishidao，houhuimojigaibianbuleyijingfashengdekeguanshishi。wodongdelejieshou，jieshouzheiyiduanganqingwanbi，jieshouziyideguoshi。zheileijieshou，rangwozhujianshifangleneixinshenchudemimanghetongchu。

　　探索发现

　　suizheshijiantuiyi，wojianjianzhongxinshenshiziji。wozhuizhuzhexinlizhenshideshengyin，xunzhaomitufangxiang。woqingzhulegengduodeshijianhejinglilaifaxianzijireqinghexingquaihao。zheiyiduanfenshoujingli，diaodonglewoxunmimengxiangdeyongqihezikongnengli。wochangshixindexihao，jieshixinpengyou，zengjiazijidejiaojiquan。wofaxianle，qishihaiyouneimeduomeibeitanxundegailv。

　　重构与成长

　　fenshousigeyuehoudewo，bingbushiwanquanmoquletongku，danshiyijingqinfenzhongsulezishen。zheiyiduanjinglichengweiwomenrenshengdaoludeyicizhongyaodazhuanzhe，tarangwoxuehuilezenyangmianduitongku，zenyangcongzhongxuexihechengzhang。wogengdongdeleaizijidebiyaoxing，erqiedongdelejiyuduifanggengduodeguanaihekuanrong。

　　希望和将来

　　fenshoudejinglirangwoyishidaole，wangwanghuizaizuiheiandeshike，yehuiyouyixiexiwangdeshuguang。wojianxin，buguanjingliruhedeshangtong，shizhangyehuimanmanzhiyuyiqie。wojianxin，jianglaihuidaijiwogengjiameihaoshiwuyuren。wonengmanhuaiqidaihexinxin，yizhizouxiaqu，zhuiqiushuyuzijidexingfu。

　　fenshousigeyuele，sigeyueyijingguoqule，zheiyiduanfenshoudejinglijiushiwoxingmingzhongdeyibufen，tadailaiwotongku，yerangwochengzhang。wohuijiangzheiyiduanjinglilaojizaixin，yongtaweishinianhoudezijiyinrunengliangyuzhihui。jinguantongkushangweiwanquanxiaotui，danshiwoxiangxin，shijiannengrangwomaixianggenghaodemingtian。