恋爱咨询：已婚男上司喜欢女下属的表现

　　gangfenshouhounandezhaoxinhuanxinlishihenduonanxingqinshenjinglizuichangjiandezhuangkuang。yingduifenshoudetongkuhekumen，tamentongchangjiqiedixunzhaoxindelianaijiyu。zheizhongxintaiposhizhezijitiaojinlingyiduanguanxili，xunqiuqinmiwujianyukuanwei。huoxushiweilemibushiqudedongxiquekou，huozhexiwangtongguoxindeailaiwangdiaojiutongku。danshi，zheizhongzuofayexuzhishiyishichongdong，zhenduiqingganshangdeshijixuqiuheziwoliaoyuqueweinengconggenbenshangjiejue。yiner，zaixunzhaoxinhuanqian，lixingsikaoheziwotishengjianggengjuyouhaochu。

　　新的希望的实践探索

　　gangfenshouhounandezhaoxinhuanxinli，zaiganggangfenshouhou，nanxingtongchangjianghuiyinglaiyiduanxunzhaoxinhuanlvcheng，zheishiyizhongxinlitezheng，yizhongxunqiuanweimibushiqudedongxikongbaiqipan。zheizhongxintaiposhizhezijijiandingdimaichubufa，toushenxindelianaizhong，xunqiuzhonglian，zhonggoushenghuodemude。

　　躲避和迷途

　　zaiganggangfenshouhou，nanxingjingchangxianruyigeqingxudedigu。mituhedanyourangtamenkewangduobizheileixiaojiqingxu，xunqiuyigexindekaishi。genjuxunzhaoxinhuan，tamenxiangyaowangjitongkudejingli，baituoshangtongdeheiying，xunzhaoxinlingshenchudezhiyuheshifang。

　　填补空缺的冲动

　　fenshouhoudenanxingjingchangganshoudaoyizhongshiqudedongxiwuligan，zheileikumennenggoulaiziyusangshiairenpeiban、zhichiyuxinren。yinci，tamenxunzhaoxinhuan，changshimibuzheileikongque，qipanzaixindeganqingzhongxunzhaoanweixinrengan。zheishiyizhongqiangliedekewang，yuanyuduiqingxudadaodeyaoqiuheqipan。

　　自我肯定的向往

　　nanxingzaixunzhaoxinhuandexintaizhong，yecunzaiyizhongzhuixunziwokendingdongji。tamenxiwangtongguoxindelianaiguanlianlaijianyanzijidemeiliheyouhuoli。genjuhexinlingyibandechupengyuhudong，tamenxiwangzhaodaoziworentonggandetigao，zaicigoujianqiduizishendezixinherentong。

　　时间与自己变好

　　danshi，zhideguanzhudeshi，gangfenshouhoudenanxingxunzhaoxinhuanxinlizhuangtaibingbuyidingshichuliwentidezuijiatujing。zheizhongzuofayexuzhishiyishidechongdonghetuolixianshidexingshi，duanshijiannenggoudailaikuaile，quenanyizhangqidadaoneixinshenchudeyaoqiu。zhenzhengyiyishangdezijibianhaohexiufuxuyaoshijianheneixinshenchudeshenzhongkaolv，bixulaimianduiyuchulifenkaichanshengdeshangtongheqinggan，suzaoyigerendechengzhangyubenzhijianyi。

　　寻求心灵深处的均衡

　　zaiganggangfenshouhou，nanxingnengtongguoxunqiuxindegerenaihao、suzaoshejiaoquanzi、xunqiuxinlifudaohuozhichidengxingshi，laixunqiuneixinshenchudejunheng。genjuzijintourugerentishengyuziwogaijin，nanxingnenggouzhongsuzishendexinxinhezijuexing，jinergengyounenglilaiyingjieyiduanwanshanjiankangdeshenghuohunlianguanxi。

　　结束语

　　gangfenshouhounandezhaoxinhuanxinli，gangfenshouhounanxingxunzhaoxinhuanshiyizhongchangjiandexinlitezheng，yuanyuduikuanwei、mibukumenheziwokendingdexiangwang。danshi，zhenzhengyiyishangdezijibianhaoyinggaigengshenzhongkaolvyushijiandemolian。weiyoutongguozugoudeziwotishengyuxinlixiubu，nanxingcaikeyizaixunzhaoaiqingxinkaishidaolushangmaikaigengjiajiandingle、gengchengshudejiaobu。