xuduorenmeiriyidakaijisuanji,duanshijianneijiukaiqishejiaopingtai,jishimangdeeyuxiangxianghaiyaojiyashijianzaixinlangweiboshangchenzuiyu,tebieshizaishiqingshaonianertong, shangwangchengyin haoxiangbiancheng1gehenguangfandezhuangkuang,neimashejiaowangluoweishenmelingrenshangyin?
一、社交网络为什么令人上瘾
yiju2010niandidetongjishuju,dajiazaihulianwangshanghuaxiaodejunzhishijianbi10nianyiqiantishengle82%。eryijudukedaxuezhuanjiajiaoshoudan·airuilikexueyanjiusuanchudetongjishuju,tajuededajiahuazaishejiaomeitizaiwangshangdeshijiandoushifeisufazhan,shizhanyoushangwaiwangshijianzhongzuiduode,xianjieduanweishangwaiwangshijiande22.7%,bingqieyouchixuwangshangdefazhanqushi。“huanjuhuashuo,dajiaxiangyaohuaxiaozaishejiaomeitizaiwangshangdeshijianhenduo。”
聚焦点“社交媒体网络成瘾”
“daodiweishenmeshejiaowangrangdajiazheibanchiminaizhishangyin?shejiaowangzenyanggenggaidajiadeshenghuoxiguan?”“shejiaomeitiwangluochengyin”zheiyiredianhuati,zai2019nian1yuededawosiluntanshangbiancheng1gefenshequluntandezhutifengge,laiyuanyuquanshijiequanguogedidezhengyegaocengzhuzhai、kejirenyuanhejingjifazhanxuejiamen,doujuedeyingdangduishejiaomeitiwangluochengyinzaochengchongzudegaoduzhongshi。canjiazheiyifenshequluntantantaode,baohangugesousuoyinqinggaojifuzongcaimalisha·meier、linkedinchuangbanrenleide·huofumanhemeiguodukedaxuezhuanjiajiaoshoudan·airuili。
zaidawosiluntan,malisha·meierhaobuyanshizishenyeshi“jiansuoyin”。“wojiyiliyehuigesanchawuchuxianmouxieniantou,dangnanyijiejueshi,wonengjijijiansuo。”tazhiyanbuhui,jiansuozaoyibianchengtameiridexiguanxing,dayueyou20%decankaodaan,shiyihulianwangzhongjiansuohuodede。“yaoshiyouyuwohaizaichengfeijihuoshizouzailushang,zheiyizhanbihuigenggao。yinci,yidonghulianwangzhenduidangdairendebiyaoxingxianeryijian。”tayerenke,chukaijiansuoyiwai,yiyangguanjiandeshishejiaowangluo。“jiansuoheshejiaomeiti,jiangbianchengjianglaihulianwangdejidazhichengdian。”
zhuyaocongshishehuixintaixuekexueyanjiudedukedaxuezhuanjiajiaoshoudan·airuiliyezaiduishejiaowangkaizhanshenrufenxi:“meigerendoubukehuoqueshejiaowangluo。suoyourendoukeyizishenzuixinxiaoxidezhuangkuangfangjinzaiwangshang,suihougenjushejiaowang,genzishenlejiehuoshibulejiederengongxiang。dangzheileigongxianghuodemouxierendehaowuyiwenshi,xintaiguochenghuiyouchengjiugan。yuehenduorendecanjia,zheileichengjiuganyueduomingxian。”
“dangzheileichengjiuganbianchengzheizhongxiguanxingshi,renmenzaoyiyikaonaizhibukehuoquehulianwangle,jinerchuxianleshejiaomeitiwangluochengyin。”dan·airuilishuo。
二、上网成瘾该怎么办
shijishang,renmenzhengchuyu1ge“chaolianjieyishizhuxing”(hyperconnectivity)quanfangweilailindeshiqi。renmenzhongjiandelianluoyinshejiaowangyuelaiyueqiansuoweiyoudeduoerhuodelejidadijiaqiang。yucitongshi,shejiaowangjueduishiduibenrenrichangshenghuodezheizhongqinru,youyutazaoyibudanjinxianyudianzijisuanjile,jiurudianshishengchanshangyijingtuijiandegaoqingdianshi,dajianenggoubianzaidianshipangkandianshiju,bianhepengyouxianliao,pingjiazishenyijingkandedianshilanmu。
yonghefendunpingtaiwangzhandeziyouzhuangaorenyisen·nihedundehuashuo:“suizhishejiaowangluodepujihua,zheileijiaopengyoufangfazaoyibianchengzheiyixingtishangsanbozuipubiandezheizhong,meiridouchouzoudajiajishiyizhongtoudesuiyue,bingqiemeirenkeyizaihuilaile。”
dan·airuilizhuanjiajiaoshouyejuede:“jianglaimeigerendouyoudeleshejiaomeitiwangluochengyindejianghui,renmenwubifanghuanyuweiran。”tazaoyiduizishendedaxueshengjinxingleyibufenshiyan,lirujinliangjianshaozaishejiaomeitizaiwangshangdeshijian。zaiqizhong1gefangshijiushishuogenjugenggaimimadengfangshiyanjindenglu。tarangdaxueshengzaimeiyizhoumoyelixianghuzhijiangaidongshejiaopingtaidenglumima,suihoudengnixiazhouwuyelicaigaozhixianghuxinmima,neiyangpingchangnianshudeneishihou,tamenjiubukeyidenglushejiaopingtaile。“zheileishijixiaoguofeichanghao,daxueshengmendabufendounenganneixinbagongzuojiaoshanglai。”
nihedundelingwai“qiaomen”shirangzishenzaishejiaowangzhongdeshijianshezhiedu。ruguobushichaoguoedu,jiuweizijijiangshang,xiangfanzeshedingchufa。“bixudehua,nenggouyaoyuepenyouhuxiangzhiyue,huoshinenggouhuaqianlaizuoweichufafangshi,yexuneiyangcaihuiyoushijixiaoguo。”
shangwangchengyintongchangyuxintaizhangaixiangguan,yougudan、chiyiderentongchangfanganrichangshenghuo,erchenzuiyuxuniwangluo,yincijiejuebenshenshangwangchengyindenanti,shixiancongbenshenguannianxueqi,xianxiashoubaituoguanniandejushu,duogoutongjiaoliu,duoyuwaibuchupeng。
yaoshanyubiaodazishendeganqing,xuanyongxierijidefangshi,jiangnizaichenjinyuzaihulianwangdezhenzhengqingganjixialai,suihouxiaojiechuzishenchenjinyuhulianwangdeyuangu,huoshizaixusidewangluoshidairenmenhuihuodenaxieduizhengzhiliao,tuolikuhaiguannian。
xunzhaoxintaizhuanjiadexiezhu,jiarunishishangwangchengyindeweihainideshenghuopinzhi,niyingdangxunzhaojishuzhuanyedexiezhulaihuogengqiangdeyizhi,neiyangrangzishenxunsudecongxusizhongjiejuechuqu。
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