什么是安全感 什么是爱一个人

 henduorendoushuotaixihuanyigerenfeichangrongyiquefaanquangan，neima shenmeshianquangan ，shenmejiaoxihuanyigerenni?jinrirenmenlaitaolunyixiaxiazheiyinanti，kanyixiajiujingshenmejiaoanquangan。

一、什么是安全感

 guishuganjiushishuoqipanpingwen、anquanxingdexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiu。guishuyubenrenbenzhijingshenshizhiyaoqiu。xihuanyigeren，danxinsangshita，cikedewoyefeichangrongyiquefaanquangan。

 shenmejiaoanquangan?guishuganshiduijianghuichuxiandeduirentihuoxintaizhuangtaidefengxianhuofengxianxingdeganjue，jiqigerenzaijiejueweirenchushishideqiangyouli/wuzhugan，jutibiaoxianweimingqueganhekekongxinggan。

 shenmeshianquangan?zuixian，guishuganshizheizhongjuede、zheizhongxintaizhuangtai;shilaiyuanyulingyifangdezhuyaobiaoxiansuodailaiduifangdejuede;shizheizhonglingrennenggouanxin、nenggouwenxin、nenggoujiezhu、nenggoujianxindeyanxingjuzhidengcengmianzhuyaobiaoxianchanshengde。

 qici，shibushinengzaochengguishugan，laiyuanyugegefangmiandeyaosu，youzhuguanxingdehekeguanxingde。zheierrenmenjiuguanjiantanyitanzhuguanxingcengmian。yaoranglingyifangzaochengguishugan，zuixianyaozuodejiushishuoranglingyifangxinziji。ranglingyifangxinzijitashizheijianbuyideshi，niwubizaiyanxingjuzhicengmiankeyifanyingchuqu，liru：shuohuayaosuanshu，shuohuodezuodedao，meifazuodaojiububiluanfuwuchengnuo;changchangjitashuoshuoxinlihua，jiangjiangnideniantou，changchangwenhaoheguanzhuyixiaxiatadeyishizhuxing;buguanduomangdoububimeilita，changchangjitamouxieyiwaijingxi;qingbieduiqitarentaihao，yantanjuzhihegongjianshangyiyang;xiangyaoweitagaizhengnidehuaixiguan。

 zuihou，huaxuewuzhishangdeguishugan。jiaruyuanyizhenshiderangtaanxin，niyaowubishijihuaxuewuzhishangdeguishugan，huanjuhuashuoniwubirangtajuede，yishizhuxingxuyaoshiwuxuchoude，bubidanxinmeiqianyishizhuxing，zheiwojuedeshizheitiaofeichangguanjiandeyaosu。

jianenggoushuochengzuiyouguishugandediqu。

nvxingbixuguishugan，nanshengyiyangbixuguishugan。

guishuganguanjianfanyingzailiangcengmian：

1、精神实质方面：

 dang1gerendaoganqingcengmianconglingyifangshoushangshiquchongzudeguishuganshi，tabianhuizhuiqiuwanmeihuaxuewuzhicengmiandeguishugan，laiezhijingshenshizhi/ganqingcengmiandeguishuganqueshao。

2、化学物质方面：

 dangzijizhuiqiuwanmeihuaxuewuzhicengmiandexiangyoudeneishihou，neimatadehuaxuewuzhiguidingshiquchongzudekaolvdeneishihou，guishuganxiangduixingzaijiangdi，neimatabiangenjuzaijingshenshizhicengmianzhuiqiuwanmeixindetidaizhe，laikaolvtazaihuaxuewuzhicengmiandeguishuganqueshao。

 ganqingyuhuaxuewuzhideguishuganmeibanfarangzijilingwaihuode，ergenjuhunyinshenghuozheileifangfalaitigaoguishugan，jiushidabufenrenzuiyuanyidefangfa。

二、什么叫喜欢一个人

 xuduorendaolianqingdemengyaqimeifaqiadangfenbianzishenjiujingyouduoailingyifang，youyudanxinchiyimengbi，henjianghuiyouyuzishendeyumeicuoguolemeiduanxingfudehunyuan。neimashenmejiaoxihuanyigerenni?

 1、xiaishixihuandegangkaishi。gangkaishizhuyaobiaoxianjiushishuoxiai，lirutadeyiduanhua、1gewuyijiandegerenxingweizaibierenyanzhongshiyiban，yexuqueledeqianfuhouyang。burongzhiyi，tazainiyanlishizuifeichangde，zuishaodoushigefeichangganranderen。

 2、liqujiusinian。liqutaninengsinian，zuobiedeshierjingchangwuyijiandexiangqita，zhengshizuishaotazainixinlizhanyoulefeichangdejiaoluoli。

 3、zhixianghetaqukanjianhai，dasixuanyang。nixinlixiangxianglexuduozhixianghetayikuaierzuodeshi，yikuaierkanjianhai、yiqilvxing、yikuaierzhuonong....dasixuanyang，zhinengliangrenyikuaierzuodeshi，renhedoubiaomingnibujingyijiandemishangleta。

 4、rentidexiyinzhu。rentidexiyinzhushinanrennvrenxiangchudebixuqiantitiaojian，ruguobushifeiluomeng、meiyouxingdeyouhuoli，jianxinmeiduanguanlianmeibanfaweichidaozuizhong。zheiyixinfuqizaodeshidaichunsuide、jueduidebolatubingzhaobudao，zheibukexue，youyutaweifanlexiaodongwudebennengfanying。

 5、suishidanyousangshita。yinweiai，yincidanxinsangshi，xiangqineiyangneibandeshijianghuisangshitajiuhuiwuyuanwugudenanguo，husiluanxiang、cujingmanmanjingchangshinvxingxihuanshangyigerendezhuyaobiaoxian。