挽回老公：如何用优雅的方式打败情敌

　　hunwaiqingnanrenzhudongtifenshoushenmexintai，dangshejidaohunwaiqingshi，nanrenzhudongyaoqiufenshoudetaidushiyigefuzaerlingrenfeijiewenti。tamenyexugandaoxiukuihezize，yishidaotamendexingweizaoyishanghaidaojiatingguanxihebanlv。yucitongshi，tamenkenenghaihuigandaojiaolvhewufataobidezhize，yishidaotamenwufajiyuhunwaiqingmubiaozhenzhenzhengzhengchengnuozhangqiwending。tamenkenenghaixuyaojienazijideneixinmaodun，tongshikaolvdaojiatingguanxi、banlvhehunwaiqingmubiaodetiyan，zuochuduiyuquanbuqingxuchangmiandemingzhizhixuan。nanrenxuyaorenzhenshenshizijidexingweibiaoxiantiaoxuan，jienazijideneixinbingzhidingchengdanzerengengjiachengshuxingdong。

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　　hunwaiqingnanrenzhudongtifenshoushenmexintai，chongtuyukuijiu

　　内心的分歧： dangnanrenshenxianhunwaiqingdangzhong，zhudongyaoqiufenshoushi，tadeneixinkenengqinshenjingliyizhongzaisuonanmianrenjichongtu。yifangmian，tamenshenzhizijipaoqileyuanxiandebanlvyujiating，tihuidaokuijiuhezizeqingxu。tamenyishidaotamendexingweizaoyizengtianleshanghaihuihuai，binggandaokuijiuyuzijipanbiangerenxingwei。lingyifangmian，takenenghuibeihunwaiqingshenshenxiyin，chanshengleqiangliedeqingxuheyuwang，zaochengwufakangjudeyouhuo。tadeneixinzaiyiwuheyuwangzhongjianyouyubuding，xianruleyizhongkunhuodeqingkuang。

　　内心的挣脱： nanrenzaitichufenshouyiqian，tongchanghuijingliyiduanneixindetongkuqi。tamenhuishenshizijigerenxingwei，xiangqijiatingguanxihebanlvdemeihaohuiyi，sisuodaodizhibuzhidefangqiyiqiequzhuixunhunwaiqing。danshi，jishiyishidaohunwaiqingdebuquedingxingqiebukechixuxing，rengjiuhuiganjueneixinwufahushizheigufengfudeqingganbulizhi。zheileizhengtuojingchangbansuijiaolvqingxu、shimianzhengheqingxubianhua，shidetamenjuedemeifapingjingyoushushi。

　　对未来忧虑： fenshoubingbudengyuwanbi，nanrenzaizhudongyaoqiufenshouhou，kenengmianlinzheduiweilaibuquedingxinghedanxin。tamenhuishenshizijihuibuhuihouhuimojizheigexuanze，danyoushiqujiatingguanxihebanlvzhihoudeguduyujimo。tahaikenenghuidanxinhunwaiqingmubiaoshibushizhenxinxiangdaitamen，nengfouweitamentigongsuoqiwangdepingwenhezhongcheng。zhenduitamendexingweiheweilaidezouxiang，nanrenxuyaomianlinzheileibuquedingxinghejiaolvqingxu，zuochuzhenzhengshihezijiyubanlvdetiaoxuan。

　　躁动不安和责任： zaizhudongyaoqiufenshouhou，nanrenkenengganshoudaoyizhongneixindebuanhewufataobidezerenxin。tamenyishidaozijibunengjiyuhunwaiqingmubiaozhenzhenzhengzhengchengnuozhangqiwending，bingqieyewufazhenzhengbaituoyuanshengjiatinghebanlvdeguanlian。zheileibuanheshimingganshidetamenjuedeyalibeizeng，yaochengdanqiyingduizheiyiqiesuozaochengdehouguoyuzeren。tamenwufahuibijiatingguanxihebanlvzaochengdeshanghai，tongshihaiyaoweizijidexuanzefuchuyingyoudedaijia。

　　成熟与义务： dangmianduihunwaiqingnanrenzhudongyaoqiufenshoudetaidushi，dajiayeyaokandaoyixienanrendouhuixuanzezouxiangchengshufuzerendetaidu。tamenhuiyongxinshenshizijidexingweibiaoxiantiaoxuan，yingduineixindezhengzhahemaodun，bingbuduanjinxinghelidequeding。tamenyebuhuiqinglvdixuanzechenmohuojixufancuowu，fanershixiangyaozhengquerenshizijisuozaochengdeshanghai，bingbuduanxiufutianbu。zheileizouxiangchengshushimingganshinanrenyingduihunwaiqinghoubixujubeidezhiliang，doushizhuixunxingfuyujiankangguanliandeqianti。

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