老公要离婚如何挽救 有针对性去挽救婚姻

　　hunwaiqingnanrentichulefenshouzenmeban，danghunwaiqingnanrenmingquetichufenshoushi，wubilengjingfenxiyingduizhice。zuixian，yingyongmianduikeguanshishi，bubiweileyanzhangtongkuerduobi。cizhi，yutakaizhanchengxin、wanshandejiaoliu，lingtingtadeliyoubingbiaodazijideganshou。yucitongshi，yuqinpenghaoyouxunzhaoshiyongyujianyi，tamendeyijianhenyoukenengduizijidezuochujueceyouyidingdebangzhu。kongzhihaozijideqingxu，fangzhibiaoxianchuleguodunanguoyunaonu。zuizhuyaodeshi，weizijishijianhekongjianlaizhiyuhezhongxinzhuiqiuxingfu。hunwaiqingnanrenmingquetichufenshoushiyizhongjiyu，weilaizhanwangweilaizhilu，zhaodaozijidexingfuhekuaile。

　　怎么面对婚外情分手的考验

　　hunwaiqingnanrentichulefenshouzenmeban，fenshoushiyiduanganqingzhongzuirangrentongkudejinglizhiyi，tebieshidanghunwaiqingnanrenmingquetichufenshoushi，bansuideqingxushenglixinlichongjixinggengfuza。danshi，zhimianwentishimaijinziwochengzhangyuxingfudediyibu。zaizhihoudewenzili，jiangtantaoruhemianduizheiyangdejiongjing，yicilaishixiangerenzhonghuoxinshenghexindeqidian。

　　1. 面对现实并宣泄情绪

　　fenshoushixianshi，jinguanwufajieshou，danwomenbixumianduita。zuixian，jieshouzijixuanxieqingxu。naonu、nanguo、xinhan，zheizhongfuzadeqinggandouyidingyaozhaodaoshidudechurukou。keyikaolvyuqinyouqingtu、xieriji、kaizhanshenxinyuyuehuodongdengxingshi，laifuzhushifangqingxu，huanjiexinlideyali。

　　2. 与他开展完善的交流

　　ruguonizaoyidiaozhengqingxuhou，yuhunwaiqingnanrenkaizhanwanshandeduitanshifeichangbiyaode。qingbaochilixing、keguan，bingtingqubingtichulefenshoudeyuanyin。zheiyouzhuyunigenghaodilejiezhuangkuang，bingyutadachengyizhi。jinliangjianshaozhengchaohechize，yibaochilianghaogoutongjiaoliuqifen。

　　3. 寻找适用和建议

　　zaizheiyangyigejiannandeshike，qinpenghaoyoudezhichihejianyijiushizhenguide。tamenshinilingtingzheheyonghuzhe，tamendejingyanheyijianyexunenggoubangzhunibaituokunjing。bubimomochengshoutongchu，gentamengongxiangnideqingxu，bingqiecongtamenneilihuodejijizhudongdedalizhichihetiyi。

　　4. 坚持不懈自我成长与个人成长

　　jienafenshoubingbudengyuzhibubuqian，fanguolai，taweinidakailexindejiyuyugailv。bajiaodianfangzaizijideshenshang，xunzhaoyigerendechengzhanghefazhan。zhuyaobaokuozhongshijiankang、fazhanxingquaihao、xuexijineng，naizhikaolvdaozhongshimengxiang。genjuzheixienuli，womenjiangzhongxinfaxianzishen，yougengduojiyushixiangerenxingfubingmanzu。

　　5. 为自己时间和空间

　　fenshoushiyizhongwaishang，burongyiyishunjianzhiyu。bixuweizijichongzudeshijianhekongjianlaitongchu、diaojie、fazhan。rangyiwangdeshangtongjianjiandituichu，manmanhuifunineixindeningjingyuzixin。buyaojizhetiaojinxindelianai，ershiyishizhangyujingyanjizijidajiangengjiajiankang、gengyouyiyidejianglai。

　　6. 迈向新的起点

　　zuihou，womenjiangbaituokunjing，congtoukaishizijishenghuo。zheishiyigequanxindekaishi，yigegengchengshuhewanqiangdeni。yongbaoweilai，xiangxinzijishuipingyuxingfudegailv。yingzaonideyisheng，gaibianzijidemingyun。

　　hunwaiqingnanrentichulefenshouzenmeban，zaihunwaiqingnanrenmingquetichufenshouhou，mimanghetongkushichizaodeshi，danzhongyaodeshizenmekandaiheyingdui。genjumianduixianshi、yutakaizhanwanshandejiaoliu、xunzhaoshiyong、jianchiziwofazhanqushi、jiyuduifangshijianhekongjian，womennengwanchengziwochengzhanghemaijinxindeqidian。qianwanbuyaobeicuobaijibai，huoxuzaibeishangdeshenhou，xingfuhuizaicijinijinxing。