谈恋爱的禁忌：男生最讨厌女生的14个毛病

　　hunwaiqingjingchangchaojiafenshouhuiyingxiangganqingma？zheishiyigebeishouzhumudenanti。hunwaiqingbenshenjiushiyizhongpanbian，suoyijingchangchaojiahefenshougengjiajuleqingganshangdesunhai。chaojiashihoudeyanyumaodun、qingxuguoji，rangshuangfangdeguanxibiandejinzhangheyayi。fenshouhou，bicijiangmianlinxinhan、tongkuyuneijiudengfuzadeganqing。zheishi，ganqingdexinrenheguishuganzaoyibufaqiren，yijinghennanxiangcongqianyiyangxiufu。yiner，hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshouhaowuyiwenhuirangganqingchanshengyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang。

　　hunwaiqingshiyizhonghenyanzhongdehunyinbeipangerenxingwei，nengjiganqingdailaihendadeweihai。changchangchaojiahefenshougengjiashijiazhonglezheileibuliangyingxiang。danshi，womenyinggaishendusikao：hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshoujiujinghuirangganqingzaochengzenyangdeyingxiangni？

　　1. 毁坏信任

　　hunwaiqingjingchangchaojiafenshouhuiyingxiangganqingma，xinrenshiweixiganqingdezhongyaoqianti，erhunwaiqingdechanshengyiduixinrendaozhileyanzhongchongji。changchangchaojiahefenshoujinyibupohuaibicizhijiandexinrengan。zaichaojiazhong，zhengzhineironghuishejihunwaiqingdexiaoxijie、bicidezenghenyubuxinren，zheishideyuanbenshoushangxinrengengjiananyixiubu。fenshouhou，duifangkenengduihunwaiqingdepanbianjuedeshenshendixinhan，zheileixinhanhuichixuyingxiangganqingdegaosufazhan。

　　2. 提升心理负担

　　hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiahefenshou，huijishuangfangdailaihendadexinlifudan。chaojiashihoudeqingxubengkuihexianghuzhijianzeguaihuidaozhibicizhijiandeyalizengjia，shenzhizaochengjiaolvqingxu、yiyudengxinliwentidefasheng。fenshouhou，bicihenyoukenengshenxianaohui、zizewunaideqingxuzhong，nanyibaituozheileijiongjing。zheizhongxinlifudanhuijinyibuzulanganqingdexiufujindu。

　　3. 危害沟通与问题解决能力

　　chaojiashiqinglvjianbijiaochangjiandezhengchaofangfa，danhunwaiqingdedahuanjingxia，chaojiatongchangshiququanjuxinghewentijiejuenengli。biciyexuzhishibiciqingsuyuanhen，erwufazhenzhenglingtinghelejieduifangdelichang。pinfandichaojiahefenshouhaihuijixumanmanhuihuaibicizhijiandegoutongxiediaonengli，cushichuliwentibiandegengjiakunnan。zheijinyibuxianzhileganqingdehuifuheshenghua。

　　4. 消弱婚姻关系

　　hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshouhuidadaxiaoruobicizhijiandehunyinguanxi。chaojiahefenshoucushibicizhujiansangshilebicizhijiandelejie、dalizhichihexinren，qinmiganyousuojianruo。zaichaojiahuanjiezhong，kenengshuochushangxindehuayunaizhicaiyongjiatinglengbaoligerenxingwei，zheihuiduiganqingdaozhilebunengkefudesunhai。bicideqinmiyuqingganxianghulianjiezaizheiyangdeqingkuangxiabiandegengjiamingan，nanyihuifuzhengchangyiwangdeneiyizhongguanlian。

　　5. 降低将来的概率

　　hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshouduiganqingchanshengdeyingxiangzhuyaotixianzaijianglaidebuquedingyinsushang。chaojiahefenshouhuixueruobiciduiweilaideqiwanghezixin，cushierrenguanliandegaosufazhanzaoyujiannanxianzu。zhenduiwaiyufang，fujianxinrendenandujida。danduiyufushangfang，quanyuyiwangwaishang、zaicixiangxinduifangxuyaogengduoshizhangyunuli。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，ganqingkenengbunengzaihuifuzhengchangcengjingdeneileixingfuqingkuang。

　　hunwaiqingjingchangchaojiafenshouhuiyingxiangganqingma，zongdelaishuo，hunwaiqingchangchangchaojiafenshouduiganqingyingxiangshijiqixiaojide。tapohuaixinren，zengqianglexinlifudan，jiangdilegoutongyuwentijiejuenengli，haijianshaolejianglaidegailv。yiner，jinliangjianshaohunwaiqingdechansheng，ruopengdaozheizhongqingkuang，jinzaoxunqiuzhuanyexiezhuhuozixunshifujianganqingdeguanjiansuozai。