我想生二胎但老公说工作压力大对我很冷淡

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　　了解冷静期的实质

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　　因人而异冷静期长度

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　　考虑到关系的复杂性

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　　不一样条件下的提议

　　zaifenshoulengjingqinei，butongqingkuanghuiyoubutongdetiyi。ruguoshiyigexiangduijiandandefenshou，kenengzhixuyaojigexingqideshijianqupingjingxialai，bingjishicongtoukaishizijishenghuo。danruguoshejidaofuzawenti，zuihaozailengjingqineixunzhaojishuzhuanyedezhichi，ruxinlixuezixunshihuoqingganzhidaoshi，keyibangzhubicigenghaodijiejueqingganhejiejuewenti。

　　寻找朋友和家人的大力支持

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　　fenshoulengjingqiyibanyaoduojiu，zongtilaishuo，fenshoulengjingqiyibandeyanxushijianshiyinreneryi，zaiyuziwodeqingganduoyangxinghexiufu。buguanduojiu，lengjingqidoushibiyaode，tajiyubeifenshoudeshuangfangyigezhongxinshenshibicizhijianguanxidehaojihui，rangdajiazaigengningjing、keguanzhuangtaixiazuochujueding，weiyihouderenshengchanshengwuxiandekenengxing。