huobaodejiudianxiaojieyuyibannvshidechabie——qujueyulejie“mingjiaonanrendeweishengwu”deshuiping,erzhezaizheixiefangmianderenzhinengliyoufeichangdadechabie。julilaishuo,niyizhizaiyuanxiaohuozhegongzuofangmian,pengdaoyouxierenduinizuochuhentaiguodeshier,jiadingnijiangyijianshigaozhizuitiejinnidelingyiban(nanpengyouhuozhelaogong)。huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?youyuzaoyijileilexuduogongzuoyali,xianglaininengrutongjiatelinjiqiangyibanxunsudimiaoshuzheijianshiqingba?neima,qingwenni,zaizheileizhuangkuangxia,lingyifangduinicaiyongxiashu①huozhe②denayangxintaishi,ninengjuedejiaoweikaixinni?
①neijiushinidecuo。youyunineiyangzuo,yinci caizaocheng zheibandebuliangyingxiang——lingyifanglizhi、jiangdaolidijiuzhengnidequeshao,suihouyaonihaohaofansizijidebingbushi。
②haoxiangchedilejieniweishenmehuichuxianzheizhongganjue,bingjingjingdetingzhenimiaoshushierdelijing。
wojuedejuedabufendenvshidoushihuitiaoxuan②ba?keshi,bulijienvshidenanrenquejingchangzuochu①zheiyitiaoxuan。xianglainiyidingyejingliguobushaociyu①lixiangfangdeqingkuangba!shuobailelejienanrendeshizhi,jiuhetashiyiyangdeshier。daodilingyifang(nanren)huaizheruhedeqingxu,yeshiruhesikaodeni?nvrenruguomeifahuozhizheizhongdezhuanyezhishi,jiumeifahelingyifangkaizhan“nengzaitaneixinliuyouyinxiang”deyoulianggoutongjiaoliu。
yongtuxinglaibiaomingdehua,bianshixialiedeyangzi。
ciwai,zheishushichuangzuozheyi“yaozenmerangyueduzhededao nengyishenzuozedezhuanyezhishi”weishijiaoerzhuanxiede,yejiushibuguangnengrangyueduzhebawozhuanyezhishi,gengnengduofangmianshijianhuodong,zheijiushizheishudechuangzuomudi!buqiushenjiedidedao zhuanyezhishi,shiyidianshijiyiyidoumeiyoude,huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?keshixiangneiyangmeiyiyideshier,quequeshijingchangzaishenghuoqijuzhongchansheng。
yueduzhemenyidingjingchangpengdao“jinguanwohengaoqingchu,keshiquebanbucheng”deqingkuangba?lveweiyongnanyidiandehualaibiaoming,zheijuedaduoshushiyouyu“renzhinenglidequanguochengbuchedi”erzhi。jiangjiandanyidian,bianshimeiyoufajue“lejie”he“lejie”erzhezhijiandechabie,benlaijinjin“lejie”bale,quewurenweizishenzaoyi“lejie”。
neima,“lejie”he“lejie”zhongjiandechabieshishenmeni?nenggouqingxidixiangdaocongtarenneibiantingjian,huoshiyishubenshangduqilaide、zishenjiyilidexinxineirong,zheileishuipingbianshi“lejie”。lingyifangmian,shuobaile“lejie”,bianshikeyikanqingzijijiyilidexinxideshizhi,nenggouxiangdisanzhebiaoming,haojiangxinxichuandijilingyifanggaoqingchu。jiaruyaoneng“badedao dezhuanyezhishizuoweizishendewupin”,neimejiubuzhibixu“lejie”,yeyaokeyi“lejie”,bingbatabianweikeduofangmian“tuixing”deqingkuang。weilegenghaodizuodaozheileishuiping,yingdangcaiyongde“xingdong”shi:
lejie→lejie→yaoshikeyiqutuixingjiubandedao→dangranjiubandedao
caiyongzhishangdebuzhoujiuhenyoushijixiaoguo。lingyizhongfangshizeshi:
zishenfajueyingdangcaiyongdexingdong→jileibijiaohaodexingdonggongzuojingyan→tuixing
yinzuomamasanghezhuguanmeiridoushihuijutizhidaojiudianxiaojie“yaozenmezuocaikeyibawozhunanrendexin”,jiarujiudianxiaojieshibaile,bianhuizaoshouxunchi。keshijiaruqudechenggongdehua,neimaxiaomeimenbuzongshizaoshoujiangshang,hainengrangzuoweigukedenanshifeichanggaoxing,zishenyeshinenglejie“mizhunanrendegoutongjiaoliujishuxing”,bingnenggouduofangmianlejie、shijianhuodong,suihoubatabianweizishendecaikeyi。yaoshinengqudechenggongbandedao,jiunengbianchenghuobaodejiudianxiaojie。
danshi,yibannvshijibian meiyouzheileijutigongzuojingyan,yaoshinenglejienanrendexinlizhuangtai,bingduofangmianshencengcilejiedehua,yingdangyekeyifazhandaokeyituixing“mizhunanrendegoutongjiaoliujishuxing”deshuiping。
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