youderenfangfogengshanyushejiaomeiti,danshishishangrenherenquanshishehuifazhandeyibufen,heqitazhuanyejinengyiyang,yigerenderenjijiaowangnenglishinenggouxunliande。huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?kanyixiaxiabiandeneirong,jinibaituozishendeanquanxingdiqu,tisheng nidejiaojinengli。
1、少指责。
yixiezunchengzishenwei“fanshejiaomeitizhe”,tamenpengjizhezishenhezishenshenbianderen。tamenduobirenjiguanxi,yifangmianyouyutamenchangbeitarenpintoulunzu,lingyifangmian,tamenyexiaiduitarenzhizhidiandian。nixuyaoyuelaiyueshanyushejiaomeiti,henzhongyaodeyidianbianshijienarenheren,buguantamenkanshangquzenyang,shijishangmeiyigerendoushiyoufenbiedeyoudianhequedian。xinxinhebuzixinderen,chabiejiuqujueyuqianmianyizhongduizishenyouleguandexintai。shejiaomeitizixinderennengjiandaozishenhebierendeshenshangdeyoushi,erquefazixinhefanshejiaomeitiderenzhijiandaoquexian。
•jigerenyoudianlieyigemingxi。benzhide(zhili,qingshangzhishang)hewaizaide(renti)bixuyou。yangchenghaoxiguan,meiritishizishenzheizhongyoushi,zishenyouyigequexian,jiuxiangqi2geyoushilaiyingdui。
•bieweizijitieshangbiaoqian,xiangxiuse,ruanruo,huobuxihuanshejiaomeitinaxiede。zheizhongciyongdaoyueda,niyejiuyuetuijinlezheileiniantou,nipingdinglezishenshiyigeshejiaomeitiruanruowunengderen,jieguobianshiduobijianren。jiaruxiangyiqiezhengchangshejiaomeiti,jiuxuyaojianxinzijishiyigeyourenjijiaowangnenglideren。yaogaozhizishen,nengshejiaomeitishiyizhong“tiaoxuan”,bingbushiyizhongsuyang。
•jianxinrenxingbenshan。suiranhuairenchangkuang,danhuanshiyaojianxinrenmenshitaorenxihuande,shanjierenyide,huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?youjieshoubierendegongzuonengli,zheihenzhongyao,nengjiniyaoganyingduiluren,erbushibikai。
2、不必对社交媒体过多剖析。
xiangdetaiduofandaojinibukeyixiangyoushejiaomeitidequanguocheng。henshaoxiangtingnande,danyiranyaogaibianzheileixiguanxing,yibushixianxiangxianghuichanshengshenmeshiqing,yebubishihouzhugeliang,zheihenzhongyao。
•bubizaiyihenyoukenengshibaidediquhehenyoukenengchuxiannankandediqu,yaoyiquanxinjijizhudongdexintaiyingduixindeyurenxiangchu。
•huailianguoqudeqingkuangxia,haiyaozhuiyihaoshier,wangjicuoshi。bianshizheizhonghaoshiersuanbushangnirenshengdaoluzhongdeshanguangdian,haiyaojiandaozishenzhuyaobiaoxianfeichanghaodeqingkuangxia,naizhinenggoushineileilingrenhahadaxiaodesuoshi。
3、了解到自身没那麼关键。
quweideshi,haixiuderenhuiganjuezishendebubiyaohebeihushi,lingwaiyeganjuezishenshizaiwutaijuguangdengxiabeishouguanzhudejujiaodian。zheiyidutedemiulunbianshishinizairenyanqianzaodongbuandeyuangu。zheibushishuojinidihuizishen,zhishijinirenkeweizijizuilanpingderengengshiniziji;tarenshijishangdoumangdemeikongguanjuni,meishijianpengjini。
•jilao,tarendoumangliuzishendeshier,jibenshangmeishijianliuyinidezheixieqiushi,nijiangcuodehua,yebuhuizaihunikanqilaiduomedebujingshenshizhi。jishitarenzailiuyini,yebuhuineimaxixindeguanchani,bierendoushiyouzishendeshieryaochuli。
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