jiadingniyouyige“huatizhongjiezhe”dequexian,youqishigennvshengliaotian。guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma?jinglilejihuixiangqinyuehuidebuchenggong,nixinxingaibianxianzhuang,xianglianaidashiqiujiaopobingzhilvliaotiandejiqiao。yinci,lianaidashiduinishuoyixietiyi,yeyouyizhengtaochangjianxiaoshouhuashu。
nihuishouyishi,guozhenheli,zongsuannenggouliaodeshijule,keshijuhuayiguo,zonghuiyouyijujinizaici“huatizhongjiezhe”derongyuchenghao——niyoubuqingchugaishuoxieshenmele。
huishouzaiciqiujiao,lianaidashifangfolejieninenghuijia,zheici,tameiyourangnidaliangdeshijixiaoshouhuashu,zhishixiangxijieshaoleyigejiao“shangduishangqie”deyuyanguanlitixi····
kexuefangfalungenfangshiyounaxiebuyiyang
zuixian,qingjiaoweixiabianjiduanhuihuazhong,nanshengerzhonghuiyingdebutongdian:
会话A
男:认识一下行吗?
女:为什么啊?
男:认识一下嘛……
会话B
男:认识一下行吗?
女:为什么呀?
nan:ganggangzaidiantijiaoxiangpangkanjianni,yebuzhidaoruhedejiuxiangwoyigerenzouhuilai。shuozhenhua,yinweiwobeizishenhezhele……
zaihuihuazhong,lingyifangjiangguoyijuhua,guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma?niyaoxiangbahuajizhuazhu,yibanyoulianggefangwei:
yigeshiwangshangmiandui,bahuatitaolunwang“xingershang”defangweiyin,lijijihuida、dechujielun,zheijiao“shangduiyuyan”,liruhuihuaadehuiying“renshiyixia”。
yigeshiwangshangqie,bahuatitaolunwang“xingerxia”defangweiyin,zuipubiandefangfashixushushijidechangjing、biaoshuxizhidetihuizheixie,zheijiujiao“shangqieyuyan”,liruhuihuabdehuiying。
shenghuoqijuzhong,juedaduoshudehuihuaquanshisuikoushuochude。eryigerenwangwangbiancheng“huatizhongjiezhe”,shiyouyuxiayishiluojisiweishimeiyijuhuadouxiang“wangshangdui”。
nv:“niganshenmegongzuo?”
nan:“wozuochengxuyuan。”
“huizong”shishangduiyuyandegongnengzhiyi,yimiaozhong,gancuililuodiwanbihuatitaolun,biciyouyaozaicixianghuatitaolun,haoleia……
jiaruyongshangqiefangshihuiyingzheigewenti:
nv:“niganshenmegongzuo?”
nan:“wojinqizaizuoyitaoshuipingyouhuasuanfa,tanengzidongjiansuoshexiangjingtoulidenanshenghenvsheng,kaizhanbuyiyangshijixiaoguodemeiyanlvjing,henqiangjingde。youyihui,wojiuyonglianggengouzuojiance,jieguochengxuliuchengjianbieyitiaoshigongde,yitiaoshimude……”
yidabohuatitaolunyijingxiangdajiapumianerlai……
caiyongkangzai《kangxilaile》yijizhonghuaweilegenghaodibiaomingguanjiandianshixianliaodeshengming,julegeshili,“henvyouquguangjie”jiuhenwuliao,“henvyouzaijiayongdianqichengneiguanglesigezhongtou,zuizhongnvyoumailaigejiankongshexiangtou,weilehelingyigenanshengxianliao,bingjianchibuxiezishenfuqian……”caiquwei。
congtaoyuxiaoshouhuashudao“shangduishangqie”dejichulilun,jiushiyifangshidaokexuefangfalundequanguocheng。lejielezheiyijichulilunhou,nizaihuitouxunshineitaoyushu,dangrangaoqingchuzaiqizhongdedadaoli,jiunengzidongshengchengxindehuashu。
ziran,youderenganjuemeibiyao,bubianshige“dahuashu”ma?woshitange“yiwanhunweizongtimubiaodetanlianai”laijiang,dongdianfangfajiukeyile,yaoshenmekexuefangfaluna?bawozheitaokexuefangfalunderenliaoliaowuji,kedahuoerbudougaobiedanshenlemeiyou?
qingbuyaozheji,jiexiaqu,woyeyizheitao“shangduishangqie”deyuyanguanlitixi,duinishuokexuefangfalunbifangshiqiangjingzainali。
02
shangduishangqiedeyunyongzhiyi:gongzuoqingkuanghuibaodebiaodafangshi
zuixian,dajiaxiangyixiang,weihexuduo nanshengtaoyan“shangqieyuyan”?
youyuhenbubiana,nixuyaoquxiangyiduihua,suowensuojiansuoxiang,henkenengniyaoshuodejinyouyijuhua,“leihuai,moailaozi”。bingqie,nide“shangdui”yuyan,wulunshidianpingguina、huanshiyinguoguanxituiduan,youquanshichencilandiao,lingrenmeiyouyidianerzaicigoutongjiaoliuxialaidechongdong。
zheizhongganjueshifouhenlejie?youmuyoudangchuxieyipianzuowenshizhongshi100fen60fenna42fendejuede?laoshidepingyushifoushizhongzheijiju:1、yuyankuzaofawei,meiyouganranli;2、xiezuolansan,guanlizhongxinbutuxian?
shiwomenkanlaiyikangaofenzuowendeguifan
1、kegumingxin:tongguozhuangkuangkanshizhi、jianjiejubeiqidigongxiao(shangdui)
2、fengfuduocai:yuancailiaofengfuduocai、shishilunjuchongyu、pinpaixingxiangfengyu、shiyizhangyuan(shangqie)
3、youwenbi:cuociqiehe、juxinglingbianyouganranli(shangqie)
4、youchuangyi:kanfaxinqi(shangdui)、yuancailiaoxinxian(shangqie)、shejigousijingzhi(shangdui)、xiangxiangyoududaojianjie(shangqie)
zuowenjiqiaoqianbaitiao,fangweiguigenjiedibianshi2ge:“shangdui”yaoyougaokuanbiyouchuangyi,“shangqie”yaogengpinpaixingxianggengfengfu。
dadaolidahuoeryingdangdoudongle,kejinniangaokaoyijingshihenduonianqiandejiushile,rujinshuotayeyoushijiyiyima?
shijiyiyijiuzai“biaoshukexuefangfalun”shang。congxianliaopobingzhilvdaogaofenzuowen,zheiyi“shangduishangqie”dekexuefangfalun,chuangjianzaiyigezuidicengkexuefangfalunyishang,taxiangpipeideshirenduiyuyanleixinxineirongdeguangfanfanying:yaobubeixinxiankegumingxindejianjieshuodong,yaobubeiyoudairugandeyuyandadong。
lisuoyingdang,zheiyikexuefangfalunshiyongyiqiegoutongjiaoliu,liruzhichangzhongdegongzuoqingkuanghuibaoshang,bulunshikoutoushang,huanshishumianxingshi,nidejichubiaodafangshijinyou“shangduishangqie”erzhong。
jiashenixuyaoxianglingdaobaogaozuoribaifangkehudezhuangkuang,zaijigouneirongshi,jiarunijiangnikandaolenaxietingdaolenaxieganshoudaonaxie,shushidiweilingdaokaizhanxushuhebiaoming,zheijiujiaoshangqie;fanguolai,meiqushuoquanguocheng,lijihuizonggaigukedeyoushiyulieshi,chanshunidezongtimubiao,biaoshuniduigaigukedefenbian、tuiduan,zheijiujiaoshangdui。
ziran,gongzuoqingkuanghuibaokendingshibujinyoushangduiyeshiyoushangqie,danyidingshipianzhongyumouyigebiaodafangshi。daodishizhishangduiweizhudaohuanshishangqieweizhudao,zuixianxukanlingdaodelingdaofengge。
jiarulingdaoshigeguanxinjieguobingfeiquanguochengderen,neimashangduibiaoshugengguanjian。nijiaruxuxutaotaoshuoyidadui,tafandaoganjueniqianqueluojixing。
xiangfan,jiarulingdaoshigeguanxinguanjiandianderen,neimashangqiebiqianduigengguanjian。
ciwai,yegennibaogaodeneirongxiangguan,jiarunizhilvjinjindiyicibaihuirenyunyiyun,bingmeiyouhenjinyibudetihui,baogaodeguanjianshichushiyixiexinxineirongranglingdaoganbufenbian,neimashangqiegengshihe。
xiangfan,jiarunizaoyishucichupeng,bingyongyouyigequelidejieguo,neimabaogaodeguanjianhaowuyiwenjiushinidejieguoshisha?tayoushenmegenjushiyong?nidexiayibutiyi?henxianzhu,shangduigengguanjian。
shuodaozheili,kenengdahuoerdexinxianjingtouyeguoqule,zheiyounaxielebuqide,meitingguo“shangduishangqie”yiqian,wobuhuiyeshineimezuodema?
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