广州花镇可以退款吗？男人为何不再宠你？

guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma？fenzigennanpengyoufenshou!renherendouhaijide，tamentiqianzhunbeiwanhunde。

fenzitantanshouduidajiashuo：

“ai，enaifeichangrongyijiaowangnana!”

fenzijiushiwoqianpengyou，yigehenhuigandenvsheng，henanyouzhangshuaizaiyiqisannian。

 tamenlejieneishihou，zhangshuairengzaiduyanjiusheng，fenzigongzuo。lianggerenpingchangfenli，yidaozhouwujiugenniulanghezhinvxiangjuyiyanggaoxingdelebude。

zhihouzhangshuaidaxuebiye，liangrenbanyikuaizhule。

芬子说：

“chaoa，shashidouchao，nikeyixiangxiangdaodequanbushiqingwomenliangdou‘sanguanbuhe’!”

“neimebijiaoyanzhong?”woxunwendao。

“bingbu?niaoniaowoshiyidingyaobidiande，taconglaibu，haizongzaiwoniaoniaodeqingkuangxiachuchujinjin。”

 “jiazhongyuanbenjiuxiao，wupinbanhuilaibannianhairengzaixiaoxiangziliduzailuzi，nilejiewofeichangchibuxiaoluanqibazaodeziranhuanjingle。”

 “yeyou，zhihouwomenliangbingbushiyangleyitiaogouma?guangzhouhuazhenkeyituikuanma？tazijiyingyaoyang，youbuzhunshidaigouchulaisansanbu，woxiabanleleidaoyaosilehaidewaichuliumaoliugou，tajiaohao，shuoyaozaijialikannba!”

wogentashuozheizhongquanshisuoshia，tatanleyikouqibiaoshudao：

 “yikaishinengren，zhihouwoyelijibaodiao。bianshizheizhongsuoshi，cairangworenwei，womenliangyagenbingbushiyizhongren，tataibuzhongshiyinsibaohu，youlalilata，zisizili。

 bingqiea，tazhihouhaifashengbianhua，daxuebiyegongzuozhongbutaihaozhao，xintaiyuelaiyuehenchahaibijiaomingan，tarenyaowoquwan，tayoubugaoxing。

zongzhi，zhihoucaizhidaotaneimexiaopengyou，wokebuyuangenneiyangdenanhaierguoxialai。”

02

baituoxinlizhuangtaicuowuguannian

fenzidehuali，shijishangzanglelianggewomenyifandexinlizhuangtaicuowuguannian：

“womenliangyagenjiubingbushiyizhongren!”

zaileisideliangren，zishizhizhongshibuyiyangdegeren。enaishi，lianggerenjingjingdexianghuxiaijiukeyile，danjiaowangbingbushie!

 quanshijie，conglaimeiyouwanquanyizhideliangkuaiyepian。lianaizhong，dajiayizhimishangliangrenleisidediqu：“womendouaiqukanshu、aikandianying、aidongwu……”

交往起來，才发觉：

 taxiaichitianshi，nicongbupeng;tajiyagaoyiyang，yidiandiandetiwentijihuwuluncixu，niwubicongxiawangshang;taxiaiguangchiguangchi，niquezhiweizaijialiwanyouxi……

shijishangzheizhongchabie，zaidajialianaiyiqian，zaoyicunyoude。

 yinci ，gangtanlianaishihebudayiji“yimiao”，gaozhizishen：tayougenwobuyiyangdediqu，dangengshizheizhongqubie，cairangwohenxihuanshangta。

richangshenghuo，yigerendeyoudianyuquexian，jingchangshiyitide。

 liru，yigenanhaidaqi，tongchangyeshenjingdatiao;tashiyechenggong，richangshenghuolihenyoukenengyetiaomaobing;yigetiexinxiaobai，yexujiuxingqingyourou……

yinci ，weishenmebuhuanyigeshijiaosisuo，duoxiangyixianglingyifangdeyichu?

zailiao，duinanshengzheileilalilata、landengxiaowentishifounenggouhuangegoutongfangshini，lirumaimeng，renrangdounenggouzuodaomudi。

cengyouyiweipenyoushiguo，shijixiaoguohenzan，nanshengzhihoubudanjijijiawulaodong，haixuehuilezhufan。

lirumaimengduinanpengyoushuo：

“jiazhongneimeluanzenmebanni?henxiangzhengliya，kemeirixiabanledouhenwan，ganbujigaizenmebant_t(maimeng)?”

shidangrenrang，banantipaojitamen，jiqitadegerenyingxiongzhuyiqingjie，nanrenhuihenxiangyaochengxianconghuijiejuekunnande。

“tazhihouhaifashengbianhua!”

jiaowangshi，liangrenhuichixugenggai，enaishiyigeyishunjian，erjiaowangzeshiyigedongtaixingquanguocheng。

ganqingzhongyouwugeshouyaotiaojian：

 zhangxiang(qingchunnianshao)、jingjifazhan、qingshangzhishangweichi(shouhou、goutongxiediaonengli、qingxujiazhitigong)、sanguan(xingqing)、shichangjingzheng(ziranhuanjing)。

zheiwugeyaosuhuichanshengciqibiluodezhuanbian，bingduibicizhijiandaozhiweihai。

 gangjindaoshehuifazhandezhangshuai，meijinxingnanxingshichangjingzheng，rengzaileijicunhuoziyuan，jingjifazhanheshichangjingzhengzheijidayaosuturanshenxianweiji，zheishihoutazuibixudeshilejieheshiyong。

jiarufenzinengjitamenchongzudeqingxujiazhi(zheierbianshiqingshangzhishangweichi)。

zaikunnanshiqijiyulejie、shiyonghexiezhu，zhangshuaishihuiganxielingyifangde。

zaiganxiexia，lianggerendebiedefenqiyekeyigengweisihuadichuli，chanshengwenbufazhan。

chucizhiwai，yeyouyixieideayeshixiaohuobanmenlvshibushuangde“haozhao”：

liru，huantaofangwu、huanyigeyouhuifangfa、youshihouzhuguangwancan、yingyongxiaoqingqu、renyuxianlianxiaqu、xinjiyixueqilaizheixie。

 bulunshigaijinziranhuanjing、tishengziwoshiyongjiazhi、huanshitigaoqingshangzheixie，shidudiaozhengtanlianai5dayaosu，dounengrangganqingzhonghuoxinxiannengliang!

实战技巧

chukaixinlizhuangtaiyiwai，xuduo shizhanjiqiaoyekeyibangdajiataguojiaowangdemoheshijian。

换位思考一下。

haoguimicengshiyongguoyige“qiaomen”，wanquanzhilenanyoudangzhongxiyandewenti：

huihuahenjingdian，lijibanyuanju：

“xianxunzhaotafangandeyijianshi。nanyouhenfanganliulianguo，yinciyouyitianwoshitachiliulian，tabuyaochishuochoudeyaorenming。

 wodaizhejiyushuo‘zheixiagaoqingchunixiyanshiwodeganshouleba?niqiaowoheshiruguonidemianchiguoliulianguoma?bierenquanshizaiwaimianmomoditundiaocaihuijialeda!’”

cihou，nanpengyoucongcimeiyoutayanqianxiyan，naizhijianjiandibayanjiele。