花镇情感咨询师有用吗？如何引导男友投资？

 huazhenqingganzixunshiyouyongma？nanpengyouhenguanzhuwo，yehenshuoaiwo，keshicongbubangwomaizhenguidewupin。xinyuanzixunguwen，nijuedenanpengyoushiqueshiaiwoma?

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 dajiajinridezhutifenggechengwei“zenyangzhengqueyindaonanpengyouxiangmutouzi，shitagengaizheni”，zheierdexiangmutouzibuzhishiyouhuaxuewuzhicaichan，zailianaizhongdexiangmutouzi，yibanbaokuoqiancai、shijian、huoli、ganqingsigecengmian。

 huanjuhuashuo，yaocongsigecengmianzhuyihedui，caikeyishuonanpengyoushibushiaizheni，wohaizaikaichangzhijiangguoshehuicaifudexiangmutouzi，yuangufeichangjiandan，jinguanzhishuozaiqizhongyigecengmian，keshiqiancaixiangmutouziqueshiyubiedehaoduogexiangbanxiangsheng，lingwaiyeshizuilijidezhuyaobiaoxian。

80%zhuangkuangxia，huaxuewuzhixiangmutouzikaolvle，biedexiangmutouziyibanyebuhuichaxuduo 。

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缘故一：你一直在他心里的使用价值稍低

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缘故二：始终不符合。

shizhongbufuheyeshizulannanpengyouqusheqixiangmutouzideyigeguanjianzhuyaobiaoxian。

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事先取之必先予之

kongzicengshuo：shixianquzhibixianyuzhi。

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提高你的排位

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顺向刺激性很重要

 xuduo nvshengjingchangyouyigecuowuguannian，danxinkuajiangnanpengyou。woyongdexueshengdehuaeryan，woconglaibukuananpengyou，patazihao，yaochixucijixing。

 kanshangquhaoxiangshiyouyidingdadaoli，dannantideguanjianshi，lingyifanghuiganjuenishichongdongdewudishentan，zhangciyiwang，rutongmadelidenanpengyouyiyangpazhebudong。

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