花镇情感咨询师有用吗？如何调教男友？

 huazhenqingganzixunshiyouyongma？bujiuqianyouyiweixueshengwenlewoneiyangyigenanti：“jiaoshi，nanyoushigebudangbiaoshuderen，weixinpengyouquanchangchangnengjiandaotarendenanyousagouliang，shijishanghenyanxian。

 sagouliangjiuhaoxiangzaixuanshizhuquan，tashitanlianailederen，huiyaowohenyouanquangan，danwonanpengyoufangfocongweizuole，wogaiyongnazhongfangfatishita?”

 zhenduisagouliangzheijianshiqing，dabufennanrenshijianmode，wozhixiangyaoquebaowoxihuannijiukeyile，hekuyaogenjuzheileifangfabiaoshuni。

zailiao，sagouliangshinvrenxihuanzuode，yigedalaoyemenbuyinggaizuozheizhongshiqing。

dannvxingquejuedesagouliangshiduiyiduanqinggandegaoduzhongshi，shiyizhongfuwuchengnuo，biaominglingyifangshizaihuzishende。

yaoxiangrangnanshengsagouliangjinjibubibipo，huishitazaochengpaichixinlizhuangtai。

qiadangdezuofayinggaishineiyangde：

1、拐弯抹角地表述出自身的要求

qianghandibiaoshuzishendeyaoqiu，lingyifangdagailvhuizhizhibuli，meiyigerendoubuyuanbeiqiangpoquzuomoushi。

 danjiaruhuangefangshi，liruniyizhizaiweixinpengyouquanjiandaotarenfadeneirong，suihoujiaojinanyoukan，bingshuodao“tamenzaiyiqineimejiule，kanshangquhuanshineimatianmeini，yetairangrenxianmujiduleba”。

zheijuhuadeguanjianqujueyukanshangqu，shinengtongguoxianshipingyekeyiganshoudaodexingfukuaile。

tayexuyaoshuo“shangpin，dajiayehentianmeia”。

 nanshengdouhaomianzi，bukeyishu，cikezaimingquetichusagouliangdeyaoqiu，tahuiganjuerangtarenyeganshoudaonimendexingfushibixude。

tabixuzheileibeichengzandeaimuxurong。

2、時刻对他说，你想要参加他的人生道路

zairenshengdaoludemeiyigeguanjianshike，wohaishouhouzainishangxia。yanxiandejingse，womenyiqiyiqixinshang。

lvyoushi，zhiyinyouniyinci jingseyuelaiyuegengweixuanli。

woyekeyiyigerenlvxing，huazhenqingganzixunshiyouyongma？danyinweiyoulenidecanjiaeryuelaiyuefenwaitian。

nixuyaoshitaganshoudaodajiashilaolaodixianghulianjiezaiyiqideliangren。

youdenanshengbukensagouliangshizhenduiyanxiadezheigerenshibushixiangbanyishengderen，tabukeyimingque。

nixuyaoshitalejienidejianglailishiyoutade，dajiayiqinuli、yiqizhengtiguihua，nihenxiangyouzheizhongganjue。

nipingdingtale。neiyangtajiuhuigengweixinrenganni，ziranyexiangyaobachenggongderenxiangdahuoerzhanxian，sagouliangyeshizaowandeshi。

3、用自身的行動推动另一方

rendoushiyouhenqiangdexiaofanggongzuonengli，tarenruhezuo，shijianjiule，erwenmududijiuhuixuehao。

nixuyaoxuxutaotaodishuota，nanshengkendingshiyanfan，buxiangtingde。

nixuyaozuodeshizishenxianduosagouliang，weicilaituidongtasagouliang。

changchangfayixiedajiadeheyingzhaopian，dajiadediandiandidi，biaoshuniyizhizaizheiyiduanqingganzhongdemanzugan。

yidingyouyipirenshidajiadegongtonghaoyou，zheipirenyaogenjuguanzhuyinzhengdajiadeqinggan。

lingyifangkandeduole，zhangciyiwangtayehuiganjuetashijianshifentianmeiqieqiadangdeshi。

cikezaizhaoyigeshihedejihuigentamaimeng：“cicihuannixiuyixiazenmeyangya”。

taxinlidedichujiuhuixiaoruoxuduo ，nizaoyiganleneimeduole，yingshiwotourudeqingkuangxiale，tahuiganxinqingyuandixiuchuqu。

 jinguannvxingzongjiqiqipannanshengnenggouchangchangxiusagouliang，dansagouliangbuyidingjiuyiweizheaizhishenrugusui，buxiuyebuyidingjiuyiweizhebugouaini。