huazhenqingganwanhuiyouyongma?youxierenshuoshisanguanbuhe,lingyifangbulijiewo,woganjuebushanglingyifangdeai,dajiahuxiangyuelaiyueyuelaiyuemoshengzheixie。
jinguanfenkaideliyoukanshangqugezhonggeyang,danjuedaduoshudetichufenshouquanshizaiyizhongzhuangkuangxiachuxiande,shishenmeqingkuangni?zaidajiafahuohenaonudeqingkuangxia。
xixinxiangyixianghaijianzhi,dajiaheqinglvshuofenshoudeshihou,quanshizaifahuo、naonudezhuangkuangxia,helingyifangzhengchaodeqingkuangxia。yidanchuxianzheileizhuangkuang,yizhijinbuzhujiangchuletichufenshou。
neishifounenggoulejiewei,zhenshifenshoudeyuanyin,feichangdashuipingshangshifahuohenaonugaodegui?
weishenmeniyizhijinbuzhufahuo,yizhijinbuzhunaonuni?jiushiniqueshifapiqima?wojuedebingbushide,meiyousheixiaimomingqimiaodifahuo,neishifahuoyoushenmehaowan?wojuedezheiyidianyemeiyisi。
neijiujingweishenmenizongfapiqini?yuangushifahuohenaonunengrangnichanshengdianshenme,yinci nibujingyizhongshengleqi,bujingyizhongfalehuo。
fahuohenaonunengchanshengshenme?
A、恼怒是一种镇痛剂
tanlianaibudanyoutian、yeyousuan、yeyoutongchu,lirunanshengbulijieni,shuonishiduo,niyaorangnanshengduopeizheni,nanshengganjuenibubianzheixie。
meimeichuxianneiyangdezhuangkuangshi,dajiahuiganjuetongchu,ganjuetangetanlianaiganjuehaoleitainanshou。
dangrentibuhuozheigexintaideqingkuangxia,tabianhuirangniyaodongnu,jininaonuqilai。
nihuiguotoulai,ruguonitongchudeqingkuangxia,shifouzongjinbuzhuxiangshuonanshengjiju,huazhenqingganwanhuiyouyongma?shifouzongjinbuzhuxiangzeguaita,shifoulaoxiangduitadongnu?
bianshiyouyufahuohenaonu,nenggouzhiteng,jinilinshiwangjizheileitongchu。
womenzaidianshijizhonghuijiandaoyixierendajiadouou,dangnvzhujiaoweinanzhujiaodangleyidaoshi,tashixiashibutaitongde,danzhidaosongdaoyiyuanmenzhendedaoshang,nvzhujiaojiugangkaishifajuezheichuangkoutaitongle,yixiehuilijitengdaohunguoqu。
zheiyeshiyouyunaonuhuilinshidezhiteng,dandengnaonuzhihou,tahuijuedeyiqiannengchengshoudetong,rujintongdechibuxiao。
yinci ,nvxingyizhimomingqimiaodongnufahuoshi,shijishangshizaizishenzhiteng。
naodongda,jiranfahuonaonunenggouzhiteng,neinvrenfenmianshi,shifounenggougenjumazhangfu,shengtadeqilaijianqingyidiantongtengni?
B、发火能让另一方有负罪感
dangnanrenyibuguanzhunini,cikenifahuo,henkenengshixiangranglingyifangyoufuzuigan,zheiyangyilai,jiunengfeichanghaodecaozonglingyifangdegerenxingwei。
woshuoninalinalizuodebutaihao,neiyangniyejiuyongyoufuzuigan,ninengneijiu,suihouwoyenengduinijiayikongzhile。
lirunanshengchangchangjiabanjiadianlengdanlelaopo,neimalaopohuihenshengqideshuo,meitianjiulejiejiabanjiadian,jiadoubuhui,jieguoyemeijiannizhuandaohaoduogeqian。
laoposhixianggenjufahuo,ranglingyifangyoufuzuigan,yishidaozishendenanti,keshilaogongburongyineiyangxiang,tayiyangyehuifahuo,shuozishenneimepinleminghaibingbushiweilegenghaodizheiyijia,haiyaoshuoniyitiandaowanjiulejiezaijiali,yebuzhidaohaohaodidaochidaochizishen,
laopoxiangranglaogonggaoqingchu,talengdanlezishen,laogongyexiangranglaopogaoqingchu,tameiyoulejiezishen,douxiangranglingyifanghanyidaozishendenanti,ranglingyifangyoufuzuigan。
yinci youshi,womenzaishuolingyifangnalinalizuodebutaihaodeqingkuangxia,lingyifangyehuihuangejiaodulaikandajianalinalibutaihao,dahuoerdouhuibujingyizhongjiqilingyifangdefuzuigan,weicilaizuodaozishencaozonglingyifangdemudi。
wulunshinaonulaizhiteng,huanshifahuolairanglingyifangyoufuzuigan,shijishangbingbingbushidajiadezhuguanyishilaizuozheijianshiqing,zhishizaiqianyishizhonglaiquanzidongjinxingde。
neishifounenggoulejiewei,fahuohenaonushinanyikongzhizhude。jiranwufacaozong,neibubianshigaifahuohaidesheng,gaitichufenshouhaipingfen?
zheidaobuyiding,nengzuodaotichufenshoudefahuo,shiyouyushieryizhimeiyouchuli,yinci huiyulaiyufahuo,zuizhongzaocheng detichufenshou。jiarushuofahuoyouxiao,shiernengchulidiao,neishifouyebuneimafeichangrongyifenshouni?
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