怎么让花镇退款？教你如何掌控爱人的心

 bingbushimeiyigerendeganqingdoushihuiyifanfengshun，douhuiyushanggeshigeyangdenanti，zenmeranghuazhentuikuan？nantiyouqibijiaoyanzhongshibianhuitichufenshou。ruguofenshouhouliangrenlaosibuxiangwanglaidaohaixing，keguanjianshihenduorenfenshouzhihouyouxiangfuhexing。yaoxiangwanhuiganqingderenyouhenduo，keshiyongdefangshiweidaoliangmou，jieguozaocheng fuhexingbuchenggong。yaoxiangwanhuiganqing，zuixianyaozhengquerenshizhuangkuang，zheiyidiantongchangbeihenduorenhushi。ganqingwanhuiwangzhiwohedahuoerlaishijiliaoyiliaowanhuiganqingbixuliuyinajigefangmian。

一、我也不知道可否挽留这一段情感，值不值挽留?

 zheilianggenantiyongyigedingyiguinazaiyiqi，lingwainenggouqingxidishuo，zheichunsuishiyigerendenanti，youyuhuidazainideaizuishenchu。jiarunineixinyizhiyouneiyangdeyihuo，neizhiyoubiaomingniduizheiyifenganqingchedigaobudong。xixinyikan，wangwangzongyouyizhongmishidejuede，shiyouyuneishiwufawanjiudefangshi，huoshilingyifangdexintaiguoduqiangshi。fenbianlianggerenshibushiyeyouqingganshangdejiben，jiaruhuidashihaowuyiwende，ganqingwanhuiwangzhitishidahuoerguanjiandeshixintaidiaozheng，jiandinglixiangxinnian。

 jiannanhecuobaishibidingcunyoude，danquanshilinshide，bingbushiwufamibude。bingqie，xuduo qudechenggonglizhengquanshiguliniqinfendekaimo，yidanxiajuexin，jiuyingdangjiandingbuyizishendeguandian，zuochongyoutu，sheiyebangbushangni，dangranyenanyiwanliu。

 fenshouwanhuiganqingbudanbixudanliang，haibixufangfa。xianglingyifangchuandinidechengxinhezhencheng，suihouyongzhenxinshiyidexingdongjitamen/taliuyoukegumingxindeyinxiang，shijixiaoguohuigengweiheli。

 ganqingdewanliuzhitushimangrande，yinweiyigerenyingduidenishigudande，keshizheileigudandeqingxuyoulaizizishen，zaizaijiashangzaiyingduigezhonggeyanghurandewanliunantihejiannandeqingkuangxia，yaoyingduikumendejuede。

二、我能做什么才可以挽留我的思念?

 ganqingwanhuiwangzhiwoganjuebubibazijifangzhi“zhaoxunzhe”debuwei，eryaogaizhengzishendezhenshishenfen，gongpinghezhongshi。yejiushishuo，bubiyouyuniyaoxiangwanliuzheiyiduanguanlian，jiumeiyoudixiandibaikuanrongdadu、disanxiasi。zheibudanburongyiwanliulingyifangdexin，yehuijinijuedenankanheganga。yiner，qiadangdexintaishifenguanjian，ninenghenaizheigeren，erqiequeshixiangyaoweita/tafuchuyingyoudedaijia，danzheiwubizaibicigongpingdejibenshangjinxing。yiyiyangdefangfa，niwubixuehaozaiwanliushihuxiangzunzhong。bubiyouyudajiayiqianshiqinglv，jiumingmuzhangdandifuzhuxingdong。yiqianxingyingbulishiyouyudajiashiqinglv，rujindajiayijingfenshoule，niyinggailakaijulizaiquzhuiqiuwanmei，erbushiwusuogujidizhuizong。xianghulijieshizhonghuoganqingdejiben，yeshiwanhuiganqingdejichu。

 suihouzaizheileixinlizhuangtaidechuangjianshangjinyibugoutongjiaoliu。goutongjiaoliunenggouchuliduoyudewuhui，ranglingyifanglejienideniantou。keshi，goutongjiaoliubingbudaibiaozhexianglingyifangbiaoshunidezhongshi，zhishikeyiqiadangdihuodechengxiao。biru，jiarulingyifangdeqingshangzhishanggaoxie，neimaninengcaiyongyibuyibulaidefangshi，lirulizhi，liruyuta/tagongxiangzainijinqiderichangshenghuoquweidesuoshi。yilaierwanglingyifangdangranjiudonglenideyongyi，suihounizaijinyibushuomingxinji，denghouta/tadedafu，zheigengdangran。fanguolai，jiarulingyifangyiqianjiuhenbushanyanci，buqingchunidexiaoxinsiheyixietixing，neimazaizaicidedao ganqingdezhongyaoshiershang，niyinggailijijingongbingzhijiejinruzhutifengge。weilegenghaodifangzhilingyifangbulijienideniantou，langfeizishendeqinggan。

 biaoshunidexinlihenzhongyao，danxingdonggengguanjian，yeshiqudechenggongdezhongyao。zenyangcainengrangtadongxin?nishizenmebaozhengde?genjuniduita/tadelejie，zuoyixieguanjiandeshier。biru，ta/tafeichangxihuanyiweigexing，dancongmeilaiguotamendeyanzouhui，neimaninengzhaoyigefadingjiejiari，jitamen/taxunhuiyanchangdemenpiaofei，zheixie。chucizhiwai，ninhainenggouyulingyifangyuding，nenggoushizhezaojiuyigejidajialiuyoumeihaojiyidediqu。danjinjineiyangzuobingbushiweilegenghaodijiniyiweidizhuiyiwangxi，diandaojizhijiukeyile。buguancaiyongnazhongxingdong，ruguonichuxianzailingyifangyanqian，jiuyingdangshizheyishiwuqianlidefangfalaigenlingyifangjiaowang，neiyanglingyifangbianhuiyouyizhongyanqianyiliangdejuede。

三、、另一方在躲我/不愿与我相处/蛮横无理最坏的情况下该怎么办?

 jinguanfenshouzhihouyouxinxindiyaoxiangwanliu，danlingyifangchedibulicai，jilihuibihuodichu。ganqingwanhuiwangzhanjianyiniduiyiqienanti，bixuxianpouxizhuangkuang，suihoushuotanjutifangfa。

 yuangufeichangjiandan，shijishangnizaiyiqideqingkuangxia，qinglvhaihuijixurangniliuyouyinxiang，nixiaochendexintai，haihuijixujitamen/tafeichangdadegongzuoyali，neileidichuhegongzuoyalideshuangxiangjuede，huidangrandidichulingyifang。

 nantidechuliyenanyi,nandeshiqinglvdeshidujihuizuidaxiandudijiangdiduinidedichu,bingqieyiwangdeqinggancunyoushi,zheishinizuishidudejihui,wanliule,zuishaota/tabudichuni,jiushinizuidadexinhao。

 jiarutalaoduozheni，yaoxiangdajiaxianghudepenyouxunqiubangzhu。zenmeranghuazhentuikuan？youyubuyongxiangchu，yinci yaozaojiubujingyidejiyu。jinguanfangshifeichangjiandan，danzuizhongyaodeshizhangwohaohuangjinshijian，qingchulingyifangdejingxinghedanyou。

四、工作压力有关的误差

 wanliuyouguanlianaiguanxidegongzuoyalihejushu,butaikenengwanliulexuduoganqingdaoshangdeyihuozhedelejieyouwucha,shuobaile“jiya”de“jiuchanbuqing”shuode,zhishiyizhongbuqingchudefangfalaila。

 yaoshimeiyoushizhongdeduanxiaoxishi“woyouni/woyounidegongzuoyali”，zongshijilingyifangfeichangdadegongzuoyali，dandaliangdeshiyaoxiangraokaini。zuo，bieting。wubiyijijizhudongdezishiheqiadangdezishijiejue。

 jiarunitiaoxuanlengzang，neimejiuxingdongqilai，yizuihaodezitaikaizhan。hexinlinianshizhongnidexingdongzhongzuinengtixianzhuiqiuwanmeidelixiang,jiaruwanliuzheijianshiqing,neiyitianshizhonghuobaonengbawojihui,zuikaishishichadianerbuyuantiaoxuanfenbian,chongzunulideren,feiwaimaiyuanhecangqiongdejichulilunderen,woshidahuoeryegaoqingchu。