花镇情感咨询曝光 暧昧中若即若离

 huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，woyunanfanggenjuhulianwanglejiede，qianjigeyueyizhinuanweideqingkuang，haidouhuigenwoshuoyiqiandeganqingjingli，zaiwangshangliaotiandefeichanghao，yibanjiushiwojijizhaotajianghua。meiyicinanfangyaoqing，youhuizhongnanfanghuidaqijijifuqian。danrujinxianzhumeiyouyiqianlianluojingchangle，danhuanshichajuedaotayouguanxinwomendeshenghuo，juedenanfangzaichiyi，henyoukenengyeyouqitatiaoxuan”。

 xueshengxianzhuyixiexinjile，tahenjiqiedegenwoshuo，aimeiqimeiyoujianliguanlian，zennengrangnanshengduizishengengfangzaixinshang，jijirangguanlianjinyibutiwenni?

 zuixiancongzheiyishilieryan，nanfangmeiyicidoujijifuqian，shuominghuanshiduinvshengyouhaogande。nanshengyezaikaoliang，henyoukenenglingwaiyouhenduodetiaoxuan。

nanshengyoujijiwenjinvshengdeqingganjingli，biaomingtayeshiyoubanvshenglierukaolvdaomubiaodefanchou。

 xianjieduanhuanjiejinliangbubipuluxuqiugan，yaojiakuaitigaohezhanxianzishendeshiyongjiazhi，liyongweixinpengyouquan、penyouzhikoudengfangshizhanshichuzishengengqiangdeyimian，laizuodaoxiyinzhunanshengdemudi。

 xianliaodangzhongyaogengquweiyixie，yaoyouyixiangbudao，bukeyiyichengbubian，yaozainanshengkexuanzedefanchouneishichutiaode，neimacainanshengcaihuiquxiangyuni。

 shijishangyoushinanrenhenvrendeaiqingjiushicongnuanweigangkaishide，keshinuanweijiule，haibujianliguanlian，feichangrongyibeinanrenzuoweibeiyongtai，cikejiuxuyaoyongyixiefangshituidonglianggerendeguanlian，neimagaizenyangzhengqueyindaonanshengjijiqujinizuotanvyouni?

1用别的异性朋友刺激性另一方。

 zhenduineileizhinuanweibujimingfendenanshengeryan，nixuyaojianjuehetalakaijuli，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，shitalejienibushizhixiaigentanuanwei。

 nvshengnenggouzaizheigenanshengshenpangshuoshuojinqigongzuozhongrichangshenghuoduiniyouhaoganderen，bingqiehaixiangnigaobaile，niyongyuanbuzhidaoyingbuyinggaijiena。

zheigeshihoujiarunanfangyouhaoganyidinghuixinji。

2学好利用情绪投资。

 zaiyiduanqingganzhong，chukaishijiantouziheqiancaitouziwai，qingxutouziyejuyouyouweizhongyaodegongxiao;yejiushishuo，jiaruninengzhengqueyindaolingyifangtishengnideqingxutouzi，duijizainideshenshangdebiedeerxiangtouziyedangranburongyishao。

 xuduo bugaobaibianshiyouyupingchangdejiaowangzhongjitamenchushichongzudeqingxushiyongjiazhi，ranglingyifangzainideshenshangmeiyouganshoudaoshufu，yaoxiangyizhigennizaiyiqi，yinci meiyougaobai。

 qingxuzheigeci，zaishehuixinlixuezhong，shiyixiliezhuanrenzhigongzuojingyandebieming，shiduozhongduoyangjuede，guannianhegerenxingweizonghexingzaochengdexintai。

zaiqingganzhong，qingxutouzishijishangbianshishengchanzhizaoxintiaojiasudejuede，ranglingyifangjuedetashiaizhenide。

 nishibushijinglineiyangdelijing?zaihegaolengnanshenxianliaodequanguochengzhongyuanbenjiujiaolvbuanjidong，zhaowoliaozhaowoliaohurangaolengnanshenbuhuiyingnixinxineirongle。

 zheigeshihounineixinyidingzaiqiaogu：woshijiangcuoshenmeleme?guoquleshiduofenzhong，zongsuanzhidaohuiying，nishentanyikouqi：yuanlaishixiangdetaiduoyemeiyoushuoshuocuo。tazongshiyihuihaoyihuibutaihao，jinizaochengleqingxushangdeqifu。

 dangzaochengneiyangdeqingxuqifushi，niyejiuhuihaoqixinzheidaodishiweihe?zainiyanjiudezheiyipiantou，bianshiniduitadeqingxutouziquanguocheng。

 tongyang，shijishangqingxutouzihuishitayizhibuduanguanxinnidezhuanbian，tahuiyongxuduo huoliqukexueyanjiulingyifangweihezheiyangweiheneiban，danghuafeishijiandeqingkuangxia，duinideqingganbianhuijianjiandizaochengle，jinerniyizhizaitaneixindebuweibianhuijianjiandigenbierenyuelaiyuebuyiyang，zheijiushirangneigerenqingxubodongdegongxiao。

3用語言拐弯抹角的暗示着。

 youshinvshengjiaoweixiuse，taoyanposhilingyifangrenkezishendenvpengyouzhenshishenfen，cikeniyejiuyongyuyananshizheta，liru：tarendoushuodajiaxianglianrenyiyangzaiyiqizheimeduonianle，xiangbudaoniyemeiyoubiaomingguo。

ruguonanshengcikemeiyoufanying，tajiuxianzhushidaizhegaoqingchuzhuanghutule。

 ziranzheijinjinyibanzhuangkuangxia，weilegenghaodirangzishenbuliuyihan，ninengzhenglianlejietaduinidejuede，tiyizhaoyigeshidudejihuilijitiaoming，quelidemingquetichuniduizheiyiduanguanliandeyihuo。

 ninengxunzhaoshihedejiyushuo：nibuxiangzaigentayouyiqielianluole，youyunibuquedingxingdajiashishaguanlian，ranhoujiaruheimingdantaquanbulianxidianhua，chukaidianhua。

guanchalingyifangdefanying，jiarutaqueshixintengni，yidinghuixiangfangshefalianluoni，shuomingqingyi。

 jiarunanshengshitaobiqingkuangbukendechuhuiying，tiyifenjieduandexiaotuizhongzhizaicinuanwei，zhidaolingyifangdechuhuida。dangzheiyiduanguanlianzuizhongbukeyijianchixiaqudeqingkuangxia，zhongguiyibanpengyouhuoshicihoudaobie。

4提高本身使用价值，展现“稀缺资源”。

 nanshengduinuanweinvshengyouyizhongwufabiaoshudeduzhanyu。liyongzheiyijibenyuanli，zainuanweizhongdaorujingzhengduishou，zhanxian“xiqueziyuan”，xiyinzhunanshengxuanshizhuquan。

什么叫稀缺资源?

 bianshiwuxiweigui，yinlaidahuoerquzhengduo。yunyongdajiadeshenshangbianshi，zhanxiandajiabeihenduoyiyangchusedenanshengqianguazhe，erqieshigenjucebianrangnanshengdedaozheiyijieguocaigengyouganranli。

 lirunicenggennanshengtidaoxiangyaoqumoujianfandian，jieguotameiyouyiqiefanying。cikenimeiyouzhuyaobiaoxianchuyiqiebumanyiqingxu，zhishidiertianlikefabugenqitaxiaonanyouquzhijianfandianjiucandejingzhao;huoshishihuijuetadeyaoqing，duitashuo“wogentarendayue”le。