花镇情感咨询曝光 这3种婚姻模式最容易遭遇出轨

 huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，jinqijiandaoyigexinxi，zhongguorendapansuimingzhuanjiajiaoshoushuo，cong2000niangangkaishi，tamenmei5niankaizhanyiciquanguogedifanchourenyitongjidiaocha，diaoyanjihun/tongjushenghuoderenjinglihunhouchuguidezhanbi。

 diaoyanshujuxianshi，cong2000niandaoerlingyiwunian，zheiyizhanbiyijingxunsushangsheng。zai2000nian，nanshichuguilvwei11.8%，erlingyiwunianfanle3bei。nvxingchuguilvshiwunianjianyefanle3bei。

《renwu》zhuankanfangtanpansuimingzhuanjiajiaoshoushiwenqi：“zheixienian，zuijinichuxianyiwaidezhuanbianshisha?”

 pansuimingshuo：“zuichuxianyiwaideshiwoguodehunyinchugui。buguannanhaihenvhai，zhanbidouhuishenggao。tebieshizailaopodehunyinchugui，quanqiuzhanbizuidade。”

panzhuanjiajiaoshouhaishuo，woguodagaimei3gelaogonghemei7.wugelaopozhong，jiuyouyigeyiqianwaiyu。

 woshenpangxuduocongyehunyinzixundepenyouyegenwoshuo，tamenzheimeduonianshoudaochuli“waiyu”nantidehunyinzixun，dequeyulaiyuduo，zaoyibianchengrujinhunyinzixundeguanjianyuanguzhiyile。

 zaoshouwaiyu，huoshichuguideairen，bingbutongtongtiaoxuanwanbiguanlian。henduorenhaixianggaogaoqingchuweiheairenhuiwaiyu，zishenyingdangruhejiechuzheiyijiedi，jiqijianglailianggerenwogaihequhecong。

youyixiefufubuzhiyicizaoshouairenwaiyu，danyiranbuyuanliyi，zhiqidaizixunguwennengbangtamenxiangbanfa，zulanairenwaiyu。

 shijishanghunyinshenghuoyizhitongchangbixuxiezhuairenrenqingtamendexiangchumoshi。zaiqizhongyousanzhongxiangchumoshi，biqitaxiangchumoshigengfeichangrongyichuxiandisanzhe。

方式一：水晶制品方式。

zaizheileifangshizhongdeairen，zhiyouzailingyifangyanqianshiyanfeichanghaodemoyang。

 liru，nvshizaizheiliduanguanlianzhong，zhizhuyaobiaoxianchuxianya、shanjierenyi、taorenxihuan、tongqingdalideyimian，nanshengzhizhuyaobiaoxianchutaiyang、fenfaxiangshang，wusigangzhengbuadeyimian。

tamendeguanlianhaosizishuijing，jingyingtouliang，kanshangquxiangmenghuanbanxingfu，bukeyidiancanzha。

 danrendebenxingshifanzade，burongyizheibanjizhi，meiyigerenxinliyehuichuxianxuduo shehuifazhanbutaichengzandepinxing，liruxingaoqiao，xurongba，duji，zisizili，yexing，gongjinenglizheixie。

 jiaruyiduanguanlianzhiyouanzhuang“hao”deyibufen，huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，meifaanzhuangbiede，neiguanlianzhongdelianggerenjiuzhiyouchixuyayiganzishenzhenzhengdeyimian，zhuyaobiaoxianchuchedixubaodeyimian。

duanqineideyayiganshixingdetongde，keshizhangqixinglaikanfengxianxingbianhuifeichangda。

 jiarumouyifangzaijiehunhoupengdaoyigeduizishenhenganxingquderen，zheigerennenggouanzhuangzishenbeiyayigandeyibufen，neimajiuhuiyouhenyoukenenghuiwaiyu。

 dahuoeryingdangdoukanle《taitannikehao》，nvyihaoluosineishihouzaoyiyongyoulaogong，tayizhiqinfenzaizheiliduanguanlianzhongshiyan“qizhinvren”。

 dandangtapengdaoyilishabaisiwangdeqingkuangxia，tarendebenxingzhongyayigandelingyimianbeijihuale。tatuodiaoxiegongranwudao，naizhituoxialianyiqun，rangyilishabaisiwangweizijihuihua……

 jiaruluosimeiyoupengdaoyilishabaisiwang，yulaogongjiehunle，tamendehunyinshenghuojiuhenkenenghuibianchengshuijingzhipinfangshi。lianggerenbixuqinfenbaochihuangshishenshiheqizhinvrendeyimian，zaixianghuyanqianshiyanyigexubaoderenwujiaose。

jiaruluosijiehunhoucaipengdaoyilishabaisiwang，zheihaihuijixushiyiduanrangdajiaaitandeaiqingxiaogushima?

 rendegexingyoushihouhaosishuiliu，beiyayigan、beizudangbingbuhuishitaxiaotui，zhishihuizhaolingyigechurukoushifangchulai。jiaruyigerenbukeyizaihunyinshenghuolifangkongzijisuoyoudexingqing，jiuhenyoukenengzaipengdaoyigenengrangzishenshifangchulaibuyiyangmianderenshi，bunengyizhidebeixiyinzhu，zaita/tayanqianzhanshichuzaihunyinshenghuozhongchedibuyiyangdezishen。

第二种：没法存留方式

 cengyouxierenshuoguo，jiusuanshizuienaidefufu，yishengzhongyehuichuxianhenshuciyaoxiangshadiaolingyifang。jinglihunyinguanxiderendoulejie，zailianggerenjiaowangquanguochengzhong，youshihouhuihenkuaile，youshihouhuichuxianxuduo maodun。

keshishisharanglianggerenzaichanshengfenqi、naizhihuxiangsunhaizhihou，yiranhainengrichangshenghuozaiyiqini?

 youxinlixuezhuanjiafajue，zheibixulianggerendoushiyouyizhonggongzuonengli，nengzaixinlicunliuzhulingyifangdehao，danglingyifang“butaihao“deqingkuangxia，keyiyongzheizhong“hao”quduguo。

 qianbujiureyingdedianshilianxuju《shaonianpai》，nanhaihenvhaizhurengongzheiduifufu，bianshiyongzheileifangfaduguolejiehunhouyicicimaodun。

 dianshijuzhong，yannibanyandelaopohezhangjiayibanyandelaogong，jiehunhoumaodunchixu。yannidezuihenlihai，lianqinshengnvdouchibuxiaota。

youyitian，guinvwenzhangjiayi：

nidangchuweihequwoaiyo?neimeduonvxingnimeizhao，nizhaoleyigebumingbaishangxihailuannaopiqidenvxing。

zhangjiayizhuiyilelaopodexuduo hao，erqieshuo：

 tamadeshenshangdeyoushiduodeshubuhuilai，tadangchu(deqingkuang)shihensongchide，worenshengdaoludediyibeixianmokafei，huanshinimamaqingwohede。quanbuzheizhongzhuanbian，doushiyouyuyoulenizhihou。

 gengshiyouyuzhangjiayinengyizhijizhelaopodezheizhong“hao”，caikeyizailianggerenyoufenqideqingkuangxia，yirankeyongtajilaode“hao”，quduguo“butaihao”dejieduan。

bingbingbushimeiyigerendoushiyouneiyangdegongzuonengli。

 youderenzaiqingganchuxianmocadeqingkuangxia，haoxianghuiwangquelingyifangyiqianduizishendehao;youxierenzaiheairenchaolejia、huoshizaoshoulelengdanzhihou，huimashangganjuelingyifanghenhuai，yaoxiangzhaobierenqufuweizishendeqingxu。

 yibanyongyou neiyangxinlizhuangtaideren，huibianchenghuaxinnanhuoshibaijinnv，tamendeqingxujiaruzaiairenzheiercuobai，jiuxuyaoconglingyigerenneibianpiping。

 tamenhuifazhanqushichubujinyigelianren，yibian“zheigerenyijianshibutaihaoshi，jiuzhaoneiren”，neiyangdeqingkuangyenanyiduihunyinshenghuozhongshi。

第三种：儿童相处模式

 yiqiezhengchangdehunyinguanxizhong，airenhuizaibixudeqingkuangxia，lunzheshiyanlingyifangdebabamama——youshihouwodeneizaixiaohaichuxian，nixiangbabamamabanfuweiwo，youshihounideneizaixiaohaichuxian，woxiangbabamamabanfuweini。

 danzaiyixiehunyinguanxizhong，yifangzhiweidangxiaohaizi，naizhishuangfangdouxiangdangxiaohaizi，tamendouzhiyouxianglingyifangsuoyaoguanhuai，quefaliquzhaoliaolingyifang。

 cengjingdewotingguoyigewaiyudelaogongmaiyuanqianlaopolan，shuolaopobujizijizuofan，doubuweizijixichuangdan，yinci tachuguile。

woxunwenzheiyilaogong：neimenihuiweilaopozuozheizhongshima?

laogongshuo：wozenmekenengjitazhufanxichuangdan。

zaizheiliduanguanlianzhong，zuishaozheiyilaogongzhiweidanggexiaohai。

 zhidangxiaohaizidehunyinguanxinengchijiucunyou，jinyouyizhonggailv——zheiduiairenrichangshenghuoyeyouqitachengrencanjia，lirutamenfenbiedebabamamadourengzaizhaoliaotamen。

 keshizheileiguanlianjingbuzhuyiqiegongzuoyali，yidanlianggerenquefale“zhaoliao”，jiquebeibierenzhaoliaode“xiaohaizi”，jiuyaoxiangzhaoxunyigeyoumuqinzuoyonghuoshiyoufuqinzuoyongderen。jiaruairenchushibushang，tamenjiuhenrongyiwaiyu。

zheisanzhongfangshihenyoukenengyouerzhonghuigongcun，naizhisanzhongdoucunyou，fuhexingfangshihuirangguanliangengbuwending。