花镇咨询有效果吗？相恋三个月男友提出同居

 nilejie“dongfanghuazhu”zheiyiciyushizenmelaidema?huazhenzixunyouxiaoguoma？zaiyuangushidaishang，jiaruyigenvrenkandaoyigedoukanshangyandenansheng，bianhuiyidabangjiyuntuoruyandong。

erxiandaishehuiyigenvhaixiaishangyigenansheng，quebingbushiyigedabangjiunengchulidele。

bujinshiyuangushidai，zainifumuneishihou，haishixing“nanshengzhuinvshenggezuoshan，nvshengzhuinanshengjiacengsha”ni。

 keshirujinshiqiqueshifashengbianhua，jiaruyigenvhaiyaoxiangzhuiqiuwanmeiyigenanhai，nikaojiandanzhijiedebiaobai，jiunengzhanfutashibutaikenengde。

 rujinyaoxiangqiaruqifendeliaonanren，shiyaozhuzhongkexuefangfalunde，shengchanzhizaoxiyinzhutadexiaofangfa，youhuotalailiaoni，xuehaozenyangxiyinzhutadeyixiexiaoqiaomen，gaolengnanshenhaibingbushiyourenyouyu?

一、如何聊天才不容易把天聊死

youhenduonvhaierdouhaimeikaizhandao“liao”neiliuchengni，jiuhegaolengnanshenzhongjiandelianluojiujixianliaoliaoqushile。

shijishangnanrenhenvrenruhekaizhanhelide、youyingyangchengfendexianliaofeichangjiandan，bianshizhengqueyindaotadehuatitaolunquxianliao。

xuduo nvhaigaobudongzheiyidian，meirizongshifayixiemeishenmeyingyangchengfendejiaguanzhu，shuozhenhua，queshitingnankande。

 qiadangdezitaiyinggaishi：“gangkanzheniweixinpengyouquan，ninengdalanqiua?”zheileidaoxiangxingdelejiehuatitaolun，duoguanchatadexinlangweiboa、weixinpengyouquana，duoyixietahenganxingqudehuatitaolun。

 erqieyaorenkelingyifang，shiduzanmei，huirangnanhaizizaixinlizaochengbeiguishugan，rangdajiaxianghuzaiqianyishizhonglidadaodadong，huigengfeichangrongyiduinizaochenghaogandu。

julishuoming：“kanzheniweixinpengyouquan，ninengdalanqiua?”(dakaihuatitaolun)

“ng，youshihoudaba。”(shaoyoulengmo，yebuyaoqinei)

“nanguainishengaoneimegaoa，niputonggaozhongshilanqiushema?”(zanyang，bingzaicizhengqueyindaohuatitaolun)

neiyangzhengqueyindaohuatitaolun，huibinimeianfayixienankandezaoanwananjiuqiangqianbeie。

二、为何我们的关系一拖再拖沒有进一步发展趋势

shidudeduinanshengqiuzhu，huiranglingyifangzaochengbaohuyue!

 yixienvhaizaipengdaoxiaidenanhaiershi，queshitaiguomiantianle，hendanyouzishenxiangqianmaiyibu，bianhuihetuilingyifang，dengzheniyouyubujuedeshijian，nixiaidenanhaierzaobeitarenguaipaole。

 yinci pengdaoaideren，ganwanbiezaiyouyu，huazhenzixunyouxiaoguoma？bubiganjuebazijikunhuodeyimianjitamenkan，tahuibuxihuanni，youshishidudejianruozishen，nengranglingyifangzaochengbaohuyue!

julishuomingqingjing：“jinriqueshishuaibaodiao...”(gangkaishipaozhuan)“zenmela?”

 “meiyourenjiwobanxinjia，zijibanleyitianhaimeibanwan，haishuailegedamapa，bazijijiaoweile..”(bawozhuguanjian，meiyourenbangni，niyaoyinershoushang)

 nidouneiyangjiangguo，tabubangniliangzhizoubuguoqude，neiyangshitazainirichangshenghuobangdianxiaomang，huirangdajiadeguanliangengjinyibue!

三、如何一直我找他?如何让他来要我呢

yixienvhaierhelingyifangzhaowoliaozhaowoliaojiudadaozuijiazhuangtaile，nidouliaoshangtoule，lingyifanghaiyituozaituomeiyouxiangnigaobai。

 shijishangjiuchaledianshudunengranglingyifangcong“youhaogan”shengjidao“xiangzhanju”，jiandandianlaishuobianshi，yunyongnanshengdeduzhanyu，duitayuqingguzong。

shidudeliangliangtaba，shehuixinlixueshangyouyigegerenxingweijiao“shiyanshuxiaoyong”。

 jianyieryanbianshi：niyangleyizhishiyanshu，nimeirizaitadingjudetielonglixuehuifangxiayikexiaomili，rifuyiri，shiyanshuxunsubianhuixiayishijuedezheikexiaomilimeiridoushihuichuxian。

 ruguoniyibujitaxuehuifangxiazheikexiaomilideqingkuangxia，shiyanshubianhuigangkaishizheji、zaodongbuan、erqiezhaoxunmeirijitaxiaomilideren。

 dangdajiameirixianliaodoubianchengyizhongxiguanxingdeqingkuangxia，jiushidudejianmannidehuiyingpinlvba，baituotadeguanxingli，caikeyijifatadezaodongbuan，shitagengxiangzhanjuni。