花镇咨询有效果吗？教你增加不可得性

 nvxingdexintaiwanruqiwenyiyangbunengcesuan，bunengyuliao，zhiyouchuyubeidongtihui。huazhenzixunyouxiaoguoma？nvxingshentigouzaozhongnaobujiegoudeganqingdiqubinanshifazhan，yinci nvxingduixintaidefanyinggengbijiaomingan，binanshenggengqingxubuwending。

nanshengzhenduinvxingxintaidaduoshuqingkuangxiacunyouxinlikongju，shiliaoweijidexintaibaofa，lingqigaobuqingdanao，zhinenghongzhelai。

 danyiqiedoushiyouduomianxing，zhengzhishidemengliexintaishimanxingduyao，eryunyonghaoxintai，chengxianzishenzuijufengcaideyimianhechangbushiyijianyouyidewuqizhuangbei，tebieshizaiwanliushi，shifenjianxiao。

gairuheshiyongzheiyiwuqizhuangbei，kanxialainiyejiudongle。

1.运用心态间的变换所产生的神秘感

qingganzuipayicengbuhuigaibian，kuzaofawei。jiaowangshijianjiulehuizaochengyanjuangan，zaixingfudewupinkanjiuledoushihuimeiyouchuangyi。

zheishizaixintaishangzuochubianhuahuichuxianchuhuyiliaodeshijixiaoguo。

 biru，nipingchangshigejianghuashenjingdatiaojiaoweilijidenvhai，zaiwanliushijiarunengyifanchangtaizhuyaobiaoxianchuzishenwenrouxizhideyimian，lingyifanghuizaochengyanqianyiliangdejuede。

ganqingchijiudefangfujishishenmigan，dannidexintaizhuanbianjiunengzhanxianchuzheileishenmigan。

lingyifanghuiganjuetajinjinkandaolenidebingshanyijiao，yeyouxuduo bumingmiandengdaitaqutanxun。

taduinishizhongtianmanhaoqixin，nicaikeyiduitaweichibuduandeyouhuoli。

2.运用心态考虑他的爱慕虚荣

nanshengdouhenzhongshiqingmian，youxierendoukanbimingdouguanjian，tamenyongyou henqiangdeaimuxurong。

huazhenzixunyouxiaoguoma？yaoxiangnaxiayigenanren，qiejiyidian：taxuyaoshenmejiujinliangduodijiyunaxie，tayidinghuichidingni。

 duozaibierenyanqianzanmeita，jibian lianbububiaoshuxinyezaixinxi，yidanzheileixintaibeijifaqilai，taduidainideqingkuangxiayehuijiangyoushigaiguoquexian，ganjuenitiexinyoulejieta。

 huayigejingmeidezhuangmian，chuanyitaoqizhiduanzhuangdeyifukuzi，yazhidejudongzheidounengrangtazaixintaishangjuedeyukuai，buyouzizhudigantanzishendenvyouweishenmehuizheibanchuse。

 zheileiaimuxuronghuishitaganjuezishenyouqiyouqingmian，ganzhiruoyidejuede，dangranhenxiangyaojiniliudaotadeshenpang，taxiangyouzheileiqingkuang。

3.运用心态表述你对他的了解

richangshenghuo，dajiadexintaiyizhifeichangrongyibeiwaibusuoshangxia，xintaibixuziwodiaozheng，lingwaiyebixuyikaobierendiaozheng。

zaiwomenzaiyingduiairendexintaishi，zuixianyaozuodebingbingbushiyuzhixuxutaotaodigoutongjiaoliulaijiejuetadexintai。

yingdangjingxialairanglingyifangbaquanbudexintaibiaoxianchulai，yongzishende“huanweisikao”laitihuilingyifang，biaoshuchuyiyangdexintai。

lirutazaixinqingyayishi，niyishijianshuozaihaodouwangjiletadejiedi，bibushangjiujingjingdepeizheta。

zaiqifaxiedequanguochengzhongcongerwajuechulingyifangzhenzhengdexintai，jinerjiyutamenchongzudeguanxinhexinlizhuangtaishiyong。

 zheiyiquanguochengzhong，tahuiganshoudaonidelejieyuwennuan，nideshenyoutihuiyouyizhongwuxingzhongdenengliangzaizhichengdianzheta，peizhewota。

tahuiyishidaoniduitadebiyaoxing，duinizaochengleyikao，bianyuelaiyueaini，wanliuqudechenggongyeshizaowandeshi。

xintaizaiganqinglizuikejianshengfu，weichilianaiguanxitianmeideqiaomenbushimanbujiangli。