huazhenguanwangtixinglianggerenzaiyiqi,buyidingshiyouyuhuxiangxiai。erhuxiangaiderenzaiyiqi,buyidingnengxiuchengzhengguo,bicixiangaidelianggeren,quebuyidingmingbairuhequyunyingbaochizheizhongai。
yincijingchang,womenyaozaisangshizhihoucaizhidaolingyifangdebaogui,yecaihuigaoqingchuqianliyinyuanyixianqianjinjinjishaoshu,qiuzhibude,xiangwangjianghucaisuanshidabufen。
richangshenghuo,douyounaxiejibenkeshinengrangqinglvzhijiangengqiangjiaowangdebixuzhuanyezhishini?
1、心态爆走下不必再次争执
shuoguoyicicidedadaolishishidangdezhengzhibingbingbushicuoshi,ershidangdejiedingyidingshiwuguanjinyaodedouzuihebusunhaixianghuqingganxiadezhengzhi,mudishiweilegenghaodijiejuekunnan,xianghudexintaidourengzaikekongxingdeqifennei。
jiarubicidexintaidouzaoyichuyubaozouqingkuang,qingzeyoukuyounao,zhongzeshengsilijie,luanshuaidongxi,zheigeshihoudezhengzhizaoyichedibianchenglesunhailingyifangdewuqizhuangbei。
xianghudouzaoyipianyilezhengchaodemudishiweilegenghaodijiejuekunnan,jinjinyiweideyaoxiangxuanxiezishendexintai,yincishangxindehuachongkouerchu,daozhidesunhaiyetongchangwufawanhui。gengguanjiandeshitahuichanshengyigexiguanxing,chixudechanshengzaizhihouderichangshenghuoli,duiqinggandaozhilianxuxingdesunhai。
2、不能用自身的投入去绑票另一方
yixielianrenzaizhengchaohuoshichanshengfenqideqingkuangxia,jiufeichangrongyijindao“touruhuizong”fangshi,liru:
“weilegenghaodinenghenizaiyiqi,wofangqileneimeduo,nizenmejiubukeyihaohaodiyijianshi?”
“ruobushiwodeqinfen,ninengyoujinridezaojiu?”
“womenzaiyiqi,woweinihualeyaoduoshaoqian,ninandaoshuoneixinmeidengjima?”
zheileizaichanshengfenqideqingkuangxia,helingyifangjinjinjijiaozishenzaiqingganzhongdezijintouruhetouru,huazhenguanwangtixingchangshiranglingyifangtuoxiedegerenxingweibianshi“touruhuizong”。neiyangzuoyuanbenshiweilegenghaodiranglingyifangjuedekuijiu,shilingyifangtuoxie,keshixuduo qingkuangxia,jieguodoushihuibianweihuxiangbaoyuanhechize,youyuruguonizaihuizongdeqingkuangxia,lingyifangyezaihuizong。
“jiuniyigefangqile,wonandaoshuomeiyouma?”/“naxiequanshinidegongxian,woneimabuqizuoyong,niyaohewozaiyiqizuoshenme?tichufenshoua”/“yemeiyoujinihuaguoqianma?woyebuzhidaoyuanlainijuranshizheiyangderen”
ruguonizaihuizongtourudeqingkuangxia,shishishangshiyongnidetouruqubangpiaolingyifang,jingonglingyifang,ranglingyifangfushu。keshiqingganzhongdetourushitongyide,bingmeirenposhini,sheqiuniyidingyaotouru,ninengbutouru,keshibukeyizaitourulezhihou,yizhijinjinjijiao,gaodefangfozishenshipobudeyideyiyang。
qingganyoushihenqiangjing,qiangjingnengdidangbabamamadedizhihewaibudegezhonggeyanggongzuoyali,keshiqingganyoushifeichangmingan,qingqingdiyipenghenyoukenengjiusuile。dangfenbiepingjingxialaizhihou,zaiquxixidihuiyinijuededeshenmehua,neixinyoudezongshishihanxin:yuanxiantayizhidouzaishuaxinyanzhezishendetouru,xinliangle,bianhuizaochengjiedi,zuizhonggebendongxi。
3、不必一点小事儿就脑洞大
bubinitongdianhuatameiyoujie,jiuganjuetayongyoubieren,bubitameiyoumiaohuinidexinxineirong,jiuganjuetabuaini,bubiganjuetameiyoupeizheniguangjiegouwubianshibuzugaoduzhongshini。xuduo qingganzuizhongyitichufenshouwanbi,bingbingbushiyouyuruguobuaile,zhishiyouyushoubule。
nvhaidenaodongdakaiyizhiwuqiongda,yidiansuoshizainaohaizhonglixiangxiangyibian,jiubianchengtabuainidekeguanshishi。qinggandeshier,zuibihuidebianshixinfanyiluanhecaiyi,danglingyifangyizhidebudaonidexinrenganshi,neiyangdeganqingyutalaijiangyoumeiyoushenmecunzaidejiazhi?
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