花镇教育：越成熟的女人越要掌握这些脱单套路

 yizhuanyanjiulinghouzaoyibensan，shiguangrenran，huazhenjiaoyu，xuduo nvshengyebianchengle“dalingnvqingnian”。buzhidaoderenrenweitamenyounaxiekuzhong，yizhiyurujinhaidanshen。

shijishangbingbushitamenzhaobudaonanpengyou，tamenjinjinbuyuancouhe。

 zai“dalingnvqingnian”quntizhong，youyibufenrenganjue，yigerenderichangshenghuofeichanghao，danbuzaiyichuxiandiergerenyiqishenghuo，keshejiaoquanhenxiao，youbuyuanrangzishenkanshangqu“henjia”，yinci jiutiaoxuanlesuiyueran。

 lingyibufen“dalingnvqingnian”jiusuanzhudongjingong，yehuihenlizhidefenbianlingyifangdebiaozhunzenyang，lirugezi、nianji、wenpinggongzuozhongzheixieguiding。

 lianfangwucheliangbixuzaixiangqinyuehuiqingkuangxialiaodaoqingqingchuchu，zheileishijiadezhenghunjiaoyoufangfa，zaocheng manzutiaojiandenanshengquzhikeshu，erzishendejijishijishangyebianchenglechuyubeidong。

yinci ，jinridajiajiulaitanyitangaoling“dalingshengnv”yaoxianggaobiedanshendehua，gaizenyangzuo?

第一点：防止用严苛标准挑选男生

 jiaruniqiahaotaru“dalingnvqingnian”detuandui，neimejiuyidingyaoquelizishendezongtimubiao。jiaruniyaogaobiedanshen，neimejiububiyouyuzishendingdeyichengbubiancuoguoyouxiudenanren。

ziran，duizishenheduijianglaidelingyibanyouyidingdeguidingshiqiadangde，danrendebenxingshiwuqiongwujin，shizhongdoushiyougengqiangde。

 jiarunizaicineiyang，zongshijinidegaobiedanshenzhituyuezouyuezhai，huishoucaifajueyuanxiandiyigecaisuanshizuihaoshide，danshimeiyourenlizaiyuandidengnia。

 liangzhezhijianzheishanwangzheneishangao，bibushangbahehudabufenbiaozhundenanshengdanghouxuanmubiaochangshichupeng，huoxuniyejiuhuifajue，jiusuanmeiyouchedizuodaoniguifanderen，yeshiyouyuzhongbutongdefengcai。

neiyangniqudechenggonggaobiedanshendegailvbianhuidadazengjia。

第二点：不必过度抵触相亲约会

 xuduo nvshengwangwanghuibianwei“dalingnvqingnian”，shiyouyudichuxiangqinyuehui，tamenxiangxiangzhezishendemubiao，youyitianhuitazheqicaixiangyunercheng，jiarumeilai，henyoukenengxianzaishishihoubushang。

 tamenganjuexiangqinyuehuishiyijianjiangjiadeshier，rutongzairenkezishenzhaobudaomubiao，zishenbingbuchusexingfu，naizhijuedexiangqinyuehuishiyijiandiurendeshier。

 zheileitaobinantidefangfazongshirangyuanfenhezishencashenerguo，youyuyuanfenzheileiwupinkaodengshibutaikenenglaide，zhinengyikaozishenquzhengde。

 xiangxunsugaobiedanshen，xiangqinyuehuikendingbingbushiyijiancuoshi，youyuquanbudelianrennengbianchenglianrendoushiyouyushejiaoquan，lirupenyoutongxuemenpengyoudengshejiaoquan，lengmenxiede，yeshigenjubaomingcanjiayixiejuhuilejiedaoxinaidelingyiban。

 zheishijishanggenxiangqinyuehuiyigedadaoli，jinjinxiangqinyuehuishiyiduiyideshejiaoquan，niwuxutaiyougongzuoyali，hebudangzuoyigelejiepenyoudejiyu。

 xianggaobiedanshen，jiuyunyonghaozishenderenjiguanxi，qinrenyeba，penyouyehao，zuishaozaitamenrangnixiangxijieshaoshi，zheigenanrendejiatingqingkuanghexingqingweirenshihuoderentongde。

xiangqinyuehuibingbudiuren，diurendeshizishenlianjijizhuiqiuwanmeixingfudeyongqiyemeiyou。

 yingyongmaichudiyibu，baituozishendeshushiqu，genzheizhongnanpengyoujiaowangjiaowang，weizijiyigejiyu，yejilingyifangyigejiyu，huoxuhuifajue，yuanxiantabianshinideyinyuan。

第三点：扩张自身的社交圈

weishenmedanshen?chukaizishenxiangyoudujushenghuodegudandeneiqunren，daduoshushizishenderenjijiaowangshejiaoquantaizhai。

 meiriliangdianyixian，gongzuo，dianwaimai，huijialezhaiqilai，tamenganjuerichangshenghuohenjianxin，queshimeiyouhuoliheshijianqushejiaomeiti。

 zongsuandengdaolibaitian，jiuzhuizhuihanjudayidashoujiyouxi，zhangciyiwang，ninengchajuezijiherengoutongjiaoliudegongzuonenglizaibianruo。

 ninengyuelaiyueyulaiyujiaolvqingxu，yibianxianglejiexindeyixingpengyou，yibianyouganjuejiazhongpingtangzhejiaoweifangxin，zheibanxunhuanxitong，ninengzhizezishenhuogaidanshen，youzuobudaozhudongjingong，gaobiedanshenzhituyehuiyuezouyueyuan。

youguanlingyiban，dajiachangchanghuitingwenyaobailitiaoyi，ziranzheijinjingexingrong，danhenqiadang。

 yaoxianggaobiedanshenerqiepengdaoyigehaolaogong，huazhenjiaoyu，jiubixuchupengdaliangdeyixingpengyou，neiyangnicaizhidaonixiainaxiede，taoyannaxiede，chupengduole，nidezhaoduixiangyiyuancaihuiyulaiyuqueli，yegengfeichangrongyigaobiedanshen。

yinci ，qingyingyongmaichuzishendeshushiqu，bubichenjinyu“yushiwuzheng”li。