花镇情感：这样做能让男人忍不住讨好你！

 wojingchangtingjianyizhongshengyin：huazhenqinggan，xiaomonv，woyaoqushiyixiayiliaomeirongzhengxing。jiarubianhaokanle，yixingyuanhuigenghaoxuduo ba?

youguanyiliaomeirongwomeiguandian，danxiangduinishuodeshi，zhangxiangzainanshengyuanzheijianshiqingshangqueshizhanyoukendingbuweima?

buyiding。woshenpangjiuhuiyou2gejieranbutongdeshili。

shiliyi：daxuebiyeshinianrengrandanshende“jihua”

 dajiadexueshengliyougenvhaijiaomay(biming)，zaigaoxiaojiuguishuyu“banjihua”，shencaihuoladazhangtuipiguda，danshuoqilainimeixin，maybiyehoushinianqijinrengjieranyishen。yanjianzhangxiangbibushangzishendexiaohuobanmenyigegexiangqinjiehun，nianguo30demayjiaolvqingxudebuhao。

nihenyoukenengyaowen：neimehaokan，butaikenengmeirenzhuia?!

 youxiaodaodayuetaderendequexuduo ，danmaydeshenshangyouyige“yuyan”，neibianshihetayueguoyicidenanhaizidaduoshuzaiwuyinxin。zaiqizhongyigenanshengdaoshihetayouhuihaojihui，kemayfajuelingyifangzhiweihongtafashengxingguanxi，huijuezhihou，cinanzaimeichuxian。

“neimeniwenguotamenweihema?”woxunwenmay。

“wenle”mayshuo，“yourenshuoyijianshiganjuebuhao，bulaidian。”

这是什么原因呢?

实例二：相貌一般的女孩，让男生暗里着迷

 womenzaikanlailingyigezhenshianli，yuanyuan，yigegezi155，shenxinglaoshilian，xingzouhaiyoudianerluoquantuidenvsheng，xiangmaozhongdengshuiping，dantashenpangcongweiqueguonanhaizi，bingqiemeiyigenanhaierduitadouhenyongxin。

 hemaydeyuyanfanguolai，yuanyuanyouyizhongyouqidefengcai，nengrangshenpangquanbunanhaizidouduitazaochenghaogandu，nijibenshangjiuzhaobudaotaoyantadenanhaizi，zheishiweishenme?

 xiangyuanyuanzheileinvhaier，wojiangtamenchengwei“yidiandaotizhi”nvhaier：tamenjubeiyizhongnengrangnanshengkuaisuzaochenghaogandude“nianxing”，yaoshihetachupengshang，jichubianshi“yuechuyuexiai”dekuan，rangnanhaizijianlehaixiangjian。

neima，zheizhongnvhaierweiherangnanrenxihuanni?

窍门一：根据寻求帮助来结交男生

shuobaile“yidao”，jiushifeichangrongyihenanshengzaochenglianluo，ranglingyifangyoujiyilidian。

eryidiandaotizhinvhaierdefangfashijishangbijiaojiandan，bianshi：xunqiubangzhu。

 wohaijideyuanyuandiyicilaidajiaqiye，neishitahuanshiyigeguanggaochuanmeigongsidexiaoshouyuan，huazhenqinggan，genwoliaowanlejiulikaile。zhihouchiwufandeqingkuangxiaqiyeyouyigenanhaixiaoconggenwoshuo：zaoshanglaidenagenvshengdaodishisheia?haitingtaorenxihuande。

wojiang：nidoumeihetashuohuani，ruhepanduanbierentaorenxihuanle?

xiaocongshuo：jiangguoya，bierenhaijiwopaokafeileni，womenliangquanshijuxiezuode，hedelai，henhedelai。

 yuanxianneiyitianyuanyuanxiangpaokafei，danburongyiyongdajiaqiyedequanzidongkafeiji，yinciwenzuozhebianshangdexiaocong，zuoweixiexie，yuanyuanjiubaqinzidadediyibeixianmokafeizengjixiaocong，lianggerenyilaierqujiudashanghuale。neiyitianxiawu，xiaocongjiuwenwoyaoleyuanyuandeshoujiweixin。

erzheiyiqie，jiuchanshengzaiyuanyuanjinwogongsibangongshiyiqiandeshifenzhongli。

nihenyoukenengyaoshuo，bubianshirangnanhaizibanggemangma?younaxienande?

shijishangbingbushi，xiangnanhaizi“xunqiubangzhu”zaoyibianchengleyuanyuandangrandegerenxingweifangfa。

 zhihouwoguanchadao，yuanyuanzairichangshenghuolixiaizaiyixiesuoshishangxiangnanhaizixunqiubangzhu，liruningbukaipinggaila，liruhuibaogongzuomeiyoudaibila，diannaoshangyaoshabingdulazhuangpsla，liruzailushangaotubupingbixufuyibala，zailirupengdaoxiaogouhaipaduziyirenxiangqianzouzheixie。

 zheizhongsuoshibingbububian，yebuhuiyoudajiaotarendenanti，danqueshifeichanghaode“yinzi”，tebieshizaibatayongzaibujiulejiedenanhaizideshenshang，feichangrongyichuangjianqidiandaodiandeqinqiegan。

 xunqiubangzhushihenanshengxiangyukaijudezuihaoshifangfa，meiyouzhiyi，jinjinjuedaduoshunvshengguannianbushang，guannianlaidaoyebuxieyiguquzuo。

为何不屑一顾?

tamenganjuexiangnanshengxunqiubangzhushijiaoqing，shibuzudandudezhuyaobiaoxian。

实际上并不是的。

 xunqiubangzhubingbushishuahuazhao，yewodecuobubiantaren，xunqiubangzhuganghaoshiyongyizhongjianshaozishendezishiquhebierenqudelianxi，qianxuyouhaoyong。

xuduo nvshengningkequganliao，ningkegaogaodangzheaojiao，danshijixiaoguohaoma?butaihao，xiangyaojijitiejindenanshengmeihaoduoge。

shenmeqingkuangnanshenghuijijitiejinni?

nixuyaoxiezhudeqingkuangxia。

 niyuejianshaoyidiandian，tamenyuehuixinxinmanmanjijihuilai，meiyounayigegangtiezhinanhuihuijueyigetaweibozhilijiunengxiezhudenvxing。

 wojinqizaizhuiwangluoju《tangrenjietanan》，nvmingxingchenqiaoenzaijuliyanyihenjiaoselvy，yizhinenggousuibianluhuonanrenxin，erlvydejiaoda baowubianshiyinqinanshengdebaohuyu。

gushiqingjiejinguanshibianzao，danjulichenqiaoendequejiangdaoyigedian，dayueyisishi——

xiangbizainanshengyanqianzhanxiannvrenqizhi，gengfeichangrongyirangnanshengchimideshishitazainvxingyanqianchengxianzhuanshuyunideyingxiongqingjie。

 shijishang，nanshengde“yingxiongrenwuqingjiexiaoyong”zairichangshenghuoli，tebieshizaizaisuoshishangjingchangkeyikandao，liruyuanyuandeshenshangdezheixie，baituonanhaizixiugediannaoshanga，bangzhugaigeppta，yuefaxiangjinneiyangdesuoshiyuefeichangrongyirangnanshengqianyishigennichuangjianqinmiwujian。

 tanlianailiyouyige“ziyiweishijichulilun”，yisishishuozaijiaowangzhong，dajiamishangdebingbushilingyifang，zhishilianaizhongdenagezishen。

jiaruninengrangyigenanrengennichupengdeqingkuangxiagerenganjueyouliang，99%tahuiduinizaochengxinrenganheyilai。

窍门二：让男生感觉与你命里注定“聊得来”

hao，jiangwandiyibu“daodianxing”，ranhoushuoshuodierbu：zenyangshifangchulaidianliuliang?

重要便是沟通交流。