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 huazhenqingganzixunshipianjuma？xuduo penyouzaitantaoqingshangzhishangnantideqingkuangxia，dahuoerzaiguangfandingyishangmianganjue“bamianlinglong、bamianlinglong”zheizhongdedianpingkeyishuosuanzuoduiyigerengaoqingshangdedianpingle。jiaruyigerennengrangdabufenrendouganjuebeikaolv，suiranshiyigejiaoqiangdegongzuonengli，danjiarudandancongqingshangzhishangzheiyishijiaojiangdehua，henyoukenenghaibixujiashangyixianggongzuonengli，neibianshi：jujuebierendegongzuonengli。

 liruwobiaomeibianshiyigezheiyangderen，bamianlinglong，bamianlinglongdezhuanyejinengdoujuyou，kebianshibumingbaizenyangjujuebieren。dudaxueqingkuangxia，tajiuchangchangyigerenjiquanqinshiderenyongsigeshengdiaodaixunhua，jiaolvbuandaoyitouhan，zheidouhaisuanbushang，shangmeikeguihaibierendaifan。

 shangbanyihou，yiyangyeshiyouyumiantian，pengyouguidingxiezhujiejuegezhonggeyangbingbushizishendegongzuozhongfanweideshier，tayeyizhiwufajujue。changchangbangzhukeshibingyebuluohao。meizichangchangxiabanlehuidaojiayihou，qidaomeiyoushiyu。

gengbieshuoneiyangdexingqing，beijiekuanneiyangdeshinanengshaodeleta?burongyijujuebieren，yinci bierenbugennijiekuangensheijiekuan?

 rujintanlegenanyou，jinguansuichudoufeichanghao，henchuse，keshimianbulelingyifangfangfozongxiguanxingzhushirangmeiziquzuo，jieguobianshi：talitianlaitazhibuji，tataishuilaitajiaoyuan!

 youhenduonvshenghemeiziyiyang，chuduixiangshijianjiule，jiubujingyijiandidakailezishendeshengmuxinfangshile，weinanyouzhufan，goumaiyifu，zhushiweinanyoukaolv。keshiniyueaita，bianhuiyuezaihutayouduoaini，zaiyitaduinihaobuhao。

 (qingganjiuzheiyang“huizuodeyouxierenchong，tinghuademeirenteng”neima，zenmezuocaikeyirangnanyougengzhenxi，huazhenqingganzixunshipianjuma？gaoduzhongshinilei?jiashangwodezhushouzixunguwenshoujiweixin，rangtajiaoniweihubaoyangzishendeganqingbiaozhun，rangnanyoujinikaolv，zhenxidetouru，rangdajiadeqingganyulaiyutianmei。)

 nantishi，geshuyijiandeshier，meizipingchangzishenjurandouburongyifajue。doushuofajueshigenggaidediyibu，keshidabufenburongyihuijuederen，tongchangzongshizaitarentichuyaoqiudejuededaomomingqimiaodenanshou，henshengqi，kebenlaihunshenshangxialianfasiquanshihuijuede，keshikouzhongjiushuobuchulaige“bu”zi，jibian tarenyizhi“dahuxiaojiao”ni，gezhonggeyangwuliqunaoni，yetongchangmeiyouyishidaobumingbaihuijueshijishangshiwomenzijidenanti。

 rutongzai《renjianshige》zhongyouneimeyiduanhua：wodebeiju，ganghaoqujueyuwoqianquehuijuedegongzuonengli。haipayidanjujuebieren，bianhuizaixianghuneixinliuyoushizhongmeifaquanyudeliefeng。

 zaidabufenrendexinli，huijuefangfobidingbianhuidaizhusunhaibieren，youyuhuijuebianshiyizhongduibierendelakai。dajiadegerendetiyantongchangshiyijijiren，zaiwomenzishenjinglibeijujuedetihuideqingkuangxia，dajiahuoxuganshoudaozishenbeijujue，beilakaizheixie。gengshizheiyitihuijiniganjue：tianya，woquanburendoubuhaole。

 zaixinlizhuangtaifangmianshang，gengfeichangrongyijifabenrenbeiyiqidewaishangheyubierenjiehedeyaoqiu。zheiyiwaishangheyaoqiuyueqiang，fushangganbianhuiyueqiang。rangtarenxinhanniyejiuyouhuikuijiu。yinci dajiajinyouzishenneixinxianyishidaozheiyidian，jujuebierenbuyiweizhejiushinihuaidan，tashigenbenmeishierde2jianshi。

 guigenjiedi，xuehaoshuo“bu”huanshifeichangjiandande，yaoshishuangyanyibixinyiheng，saynolejiuhaole。erzenyangqiadangdehuijue，ranglingyifangyishidaoshitazaiqinhainidejiexian，shitayibumingquetichuwuliqunao，erqiezhihoudoushihuiliuyizhongshinilei?

jinridajiagendahuoeryiqigongxiangjujuebierendezaoxingyishu。

diyigefangfa：xuanbinduozhu。

 woyiqiankanleneiyangdeyigeshili，yiweilaoxianshengdepenyouxiangzuobaoxianjitamen，lingyifangyikaishijiangxiangguanshangyebaoxiandehuatitaolun，tazaidiyishijianjiuqieduanlezheiyishangyebaoxiandehuatitaolun，erqieshuodao：

aiyojinrikaixin，bubitanzheizhongshi，lai，dajiayincha。zhengquele，nizhiqianshuojialixiaohaideshizenmeyangle?

 neiyangni，yijuhuajiuqianyilehuatitaolun，wuxingzhizhonganshizhelingyifangdeshi，jinriyuanbenshikaixinde，nizuobaoxiandehuatitaolunshihuirangwobugaoxingdee。yongledachadefangfa，jianghuatitaolundezhongxindiankaizhanleqianyi，qianyilaidaolingyifangdeshenshang，haigenju“yincha”zhuanzhanlexia，ranglingyifangconggongjibianchenglefangyu。

各抒已见的也有：

 zhangjie，wobunengmeigeyuedoubangnijinxingnidexiaoshouyeji，zheiyishiwozhiyoubangnidaonizheila，yaofouzedehuanimeigeyuenadechouchengyinweiwohuikanjianyanjingfahonga。

或是是：

 wotexiangmainideshangyebaoxian，jinjinjinqizaigoufang，guodujinzhangle，wodouxiangyuenijieqianhuazijinzhouzhuanxiani，nikannibianjiebu。

diergefangfa：yongtiyitidaibangzhu

 lirurujindahuoerdouhuifanghuzaijiali，chubulemen，jiajushenghuodejiaoda nantibianshi：zheidunfansheizuo?xiadunfansheizuo?xiadunfansheizuo?

neimazheigeshihou，jiaruzhangfuyoueryan：

qinaidedejinrinixuyaozuoshenmehaochideya?woyaochi。

zheigeshihou，nichediwuxuzhengpanjiedaolai，mashangdaocantingchufangkaiqiangquzhufan。

你能提议他说道：

 zheiyigexingqiquanshiwozhufanai，wohaizuofanle，niyegaichifanleba，dajialaihuangekouganba，jinriniquzhufanba，rangyinweiwoxiexixiani。

huoshihaikeyitiyitaxianlaixijiachangcai，zhaijiachangcai，qiewancai。

 zongeryanzhichongfenfahuitadenengdongxing，shitazishenyeganshouxiazhufandejianxin。jiusuantashuodaotaburongyizuo，zuodebuhaochi，haikeyishuo：meishier，wonengjiaonia，worangnijutizhidaoxiazheixie。shuoqijilingyifangtiyizheijianshiqing，shijishangbingbingbushichediquhuijuelingyifang，zhishijilexianghujiaoshedeshineikongjian，yuqinguzongdejiejuenanti。

disangefangfa：jianshaolingyifangdexiwang

 jianshaoxiwangzheiyifangfa，yongyilingyifangjiushinibutaihaolijihuijuederen，womenkeyiwanzhuandehuijue，ranglingyifangzhinanertui。zaishuojugeshilijiangyixia，lirugongzuozhong，lingyifangshitaitoubujianditoujiandepengyou，lijihuijuejiufeichangganga。kebenlaishipengyouzishendegongzuozhong，tafeidenibangtanong，dajiajiukeyineiyangshuo：

 “xing，wonengbangnizheiyimang，danshixianzaiwoshoushanghuoqueshixuduoa，niyelejiede，yinci zheigepptwohuoxububaozhibaoliange，wanyichunaxiechazikexiuguaiwoya。”

yibanlaishuo，jiarulingyifangjiaoweizaihuzheijianshiqing，neitahenyoukenengjiuburongyitiaoxuanjianchijiaonibangzhu。

 danjiarutazhenzhuyaobiaoxianchubuzaiyi，neinijiuqingyibangtayixia，wuxutaishangxin。jiaruzuizhongshijixiaoguobujinrenyi，neitayejiubukeyiguainini。

huoshishi，dajiahaikeyishuo：