花镇情感咨询成功几率大吗？怎么让男人主动付出？

huazhenqingganzixunchenggongjilvshiduoda？woyizhiyouyigeyihuo，zaiwoxinlihaozhangshijianle，xiangxianglaoshimenxunzhaotiyiyuxiezhu。

wodemingzijiaoxiaoyan，shiyimingpingmianshejidashi，xinshuibugao，danzhonghuozishenfeichangheshile。

tajiaoyuer，zuofangchanzhongjiegongsi，biwoda4sui。

yikaishibingmeishenmedutedejuede，jinjinganjuetawenzhong。jiaowangle4geyue，yijianshihaisuanguanzhu，xuanbumingqueleqinglvguanlian。

 kuaixinniandeqingkuangxia，wodeshoujidiushi。neijiri，wojidechoumeibuzhan，qujinrongjigoubaoshi，quyingyewangdianbulingka，gukeyoucuizhewangao。ertajinjinyixiaolezhideshuoleyiju：“nizenmeneimeyibuxiaoxin。”

 shuozhenhua，zheijianshiqingguoqu，quezishizhizhongzaiwoxinliliuyouleyigenci。wozaimeiyouguidingtashitarenjianeileiwuyuanwugujiuqingkonggouwuche，maiqiyigexiliehaosedenanyou，danyebuhuiyijukuanweiyidianbiaomingdoumeiyouba。

 ziran，jishitamingquetichuyaobangwogoumaishouji，yinweiwoburongyiyao，zhongjiudajiaxiangchushijianbuzhang，qingganhaimeiyouneimashen，wobuxiangjienaxiangduixingzhenguidelipin，doubuyiweizhewoyenengjienatabierbujidexintai。

huazhenqingganzixunchenggongjilvshiduoda？zhihou，woxunwendaota，tashuodao：“taburongyisuibianjiyigenvhaitaoqian。”

 tingjianzheijuhua，woshiqueshiganjuetayouzisiziliyouxiaojiaziqi，jinguanmeiyoudaoxiangqinjiehundechengdu，wohaolaiyeshitadezhengpinnvpengyouba，jinjinjijiaodaozheileishuiping，zhihouhairuhexiangchu，ruhetuofuzhongshen。

 zaizhihou，.wolejie，tamailaiyigeershoubaoma，zhifuleyibanxianqian，yibufenquanshishuadetouzhika。woxiangtazuofangchanzhongjie，ruhequanshiyougongzuonenglihaikuande，yaoburanyebuhuiqinglvshuaneimeduole。

 pingshixiangchuzhongtayijianshihuanshifeichanghaode。chulaigenpengyoujucan，doushihuixiedaiwo，luoluodafangdexiangxijieshaopenyoubangwolejie，yongcandeqingkuangxiahuibameiweidejiazhuwowanli，laijiexiabanle，debingsongyaoshangmenzheizhongnanpengyoubiaozhunpeizhidaoshiyiyangxuduo。

 eryaowoyixienanshoudeshi，zaiyiqikuaiyinianle，taconglaimeiyousongguowoyiqielipin，lianyishuangmianwayemeiyoumaile。fanguolai，quanshiwojijijitamengoumaiyifu、weibo、richangshenghuoyongpin。

 jiuwozuoshengri，jianghaobangwoyiwaijingxide，daozuizhong，yezhihuodeyijufuwuchengnuo，shuochengkaiguodanmeiyouqudeqian，dengqudeqianlejiubangwomaishashasha。douhaimeizhidaoshengrilipin，tazaiwozheilijiele4000yuanqianxinyongkahaikuan。

 shijishangwomingbaitashiyigehenhaomianzideren，yaobushiqueshimeiyouqudeqian，jibian shuliangbingbuda，yeyingdangburongyigenwozhangkou。

 womenjiachengxiang，tamenjiazainongcun，danworenweidajiayiqinuli，gouchegoufangquanshinenggoubaozhengde。wobuzaiyigentayiqichuangdang，danxiangyaozhidaodeshi，tadaodishishuoaiwo，huanshijinjinshuoaiwofangbian。

 ruguoaiwo，taweiheyifenqiandoubuyuanyiweiwohua。wobuyuanyihuaqianqukaoliangqinggan，danzuishao，tashiqinggandeyizhongbiaodaxingshiba。wuwanyuanqiandetouzhika，bannianguoqu，tacaihaile2wan。woshilaidaogaiwanhundenianling，danshixianjieduanneiyangdezhuangkuang，wobuganjia。

ninengzhibangwoganqing，tusimianbaozijimai，wohaipadeshi，meiyouhuodewanmeideaiqing，tusimianbaoyebeibierenquzoule。

zheiyinanren，jiujingshifoukeyishijia，jiaoshinengbangwoyidiantiyima?

yingduineiyangdezhuangkuang，daoshixianbuhuangzhejia，huaizheyilv、nanshoudeqingxujiaren，neiyidinghuijiadexinbuganqingbuken。

 dequeyouhenduowenzhangneirongshuo：yaoxiangkaoliangyigenanrenshifouzhenxinaini，henzhongyaodeyigeguifanbianshikanzheigenanrenshifoudongdejinitaoqian。qian，dequeshizuilijibiaodaaiyidefangfa，danbingbingbushiweiyi。

 weiheneimeshuoni?youyuchukaiqian，dajiahainenggougenjubiedesangecengmianlaifenbian，taduinideqingganduoshen。lirunanrenduinitourudeshijian、huolijiqiganqing。

 nanyouyuerduixueshengxiaoyanshijishanghaibucuo，chulaigenpengyoujucan，doushihuixiedaita，luoluodafangdexiangxijieshaopenyoujitalejie，zhengshitacongxinlilirentongxiaoyanshitadezhengpinnvyou;

 yongcandeqingkuangxiahuibameiweidejiazhutawanli、jietaxiabanle、debingsongyaoshangmenzhuduonuanxindexingwei，doubixutahuashijian、huahuoli、jiqiganqingdezijintouru，jianxinxueshengxiaoyanyeshikeyiganshoudaode。

yingduineiyangdeqinggan，yidingyaonongqingchunantichuxiandeyuangu，lijisheqidehuajiutaiyihanle。

●一、了解现实状况

youyuxiaoyantijinanyoumailailiangershoubaoma，bixuhaidaikuan，naizhihaibuguanbuguqingmian，xiangtazhangkoujiezouqian。

neimatahenyoukenengrujindejingjifazhanqingkuangdequejiaolvbuan，yixiejiongpo，meifazaiweiganqingtouzi。

yingduineiyangdezhuangkuang，dajiajiuxuyaoduokankantabiedesangecengmiandezhuyaobiaoxian，erbubizhidingzhu“qiancai”zheiyicengmian。

●二、明确两个人价值观念是不是一致

 nanyouyueryeshuoguo：“taburongyisuibianjiyigenvshengtaoqian”，buqingchunanyouyuerbianshiyigeyushengjulaijinjinjijiaogui，shiyigebaqiankandeguozhongdenanren。danyeshiyouhenyoukenengjinjinneishihoutabuxiaodeneiyangzuozhibuzhi。

 tashuodaozheijuhuadeqingkuangxia，haichuzailianggerendexiangchuqianqi，nanrendexinlizhuangtaihuashineiyangde，“wokebuyuanhualedabantianqian，jitarenjiasuzaoxifu”。

 zheijiuhenxiangnanrenxiangmutouzichaogu，zaihaimeiyoukanhaonazhigeguyiqian，tahuizuanjinleshoutoushanglideqian，chiyiyingbuyinggaimairuni?

ziran，jiarunanrenyushengjulaibianshineileizhiduizishendaqi，duitarenxiaojiaziqidenanren，neimejiubuzhijiale。

●三、塑造男人积极投入的观念

 hexiaoyanshencengcigoutongjiaoliuhou，jiaoshifajuexiaoyanshiyigetaiguotinghuadenvxing，yizhiyayiganzishendezhenzhengyaoqiuquguanzhenanyou。yincijiaoshirangtaneixinyounaxieshierdoushuoqichuqu，bubirangnanrenqucai。

 cizhi，jiaoshirangxiaoyanzishenxianjijiyixie，changchangjinanrengoumaiwupin。dabufennanrendoumingbaibaozhiyilizheiyidadaolide，guozhenmailaijihuiyihou，nanyougentashuo：“duinitingneijiude，huaxuewuzhishangmeiyourangninaxie”。

zuizhong，bianshiyingyongyangxingqianghuafa，duinanrenjinisongliwuzheijianshiqing，duofangmianjili，shitataoqianhuadekaixin。

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