花镇情感咨询成功几率大吗？男人为什么不想和你继续发展？

 huazhenqingganzixunchenggongjilvshiduoda？junjunbabamamaquanshijiaoshi，yinci ，tazixiaojiajiaolaoshijiuyouqiyan，jinzhixueshengtanlianai，jinzhihenanhaierzoudetaijin，yelijinzhichaochushidianbanbuhuijia，zaijiashangtazishenxingqingyixieneixiangxing，yinci jibenshangmeiyouguanxiqinmiwujiandeyixing，yizhidaobiyehou，douhaimeitanguotanlianai，biyezhihouzhuiganghaoduoge，doumeiyouxiawen。

 jinqi，tajiazhongyoujitaxiangxijieshaoleyigenansheng，xiangpianhukan，nanhaiziduitatebiexiai，yikaishinanhaizimeitianhetaxianliao，liaolebangeyueshangxia，lianggerentongleyicishipintonghua。

 youyuxingqinglijiaoweibijiaominganhebuxinren，xinfangfeichangzhong，yinci duilingyifangyouhenduocengfangyuli，zhuyaobiaoxianzaishipintonghuali，rangnanhaiziganjuetahen“lengdan”，jieguoshipinwanhou，nanhaizijibenshangzaimeijijilianluoguota。

 xianrujintajiandaoshenpangdepengyoudoushiyounanyoule，erzishen985zhongdiandaxuedaxuebiye，gongzuozhongshouyipofeng，zaibiedecengmianquanshifeichangchuse，weiyouzaitanlianaizheiyikuai，chedibuhao。

 junjunzaiximalayatingledajiadeshengpinke，yousousuoleyueduwenzhangledajiaxuduo tanlianaiqudechenggongdexueshengshili，xindongle，yejuecebaokaoyiduiyizixunshiyixia。

 tingwanjunjundeshier，xiaozhuliqianglietuijianleshanyutonglixin、pouxinanrenxinli，qianxinnvhaigerenjiazhitigao，wanchenggaobiedanshendejixiangruyijiaoshi。

 jixiangruyijiaoshichukaishitanlianaifazhanxuehaodetedengzixunguwenwai，huanshiwoguoerjixinlizixunshi，yongyou wuniandehunlianqingganzixungongzuojingyan。

 zuoweiyimingxinlixueshuoshi，jixiangruyijiaoshihaicengjinglihenduoniandexinlizhuangtaizhuankemenzhendezixungongzuojingyan，keyiquanfangweishenrudifenxiwenti，youxiaojingzhundingwei，zhangwoguanjiandian，xianshushijicaozuogezhonggeyangfeiguifanhuajiance。

 tebieshizaishanyunvshiqingshanggaopeiyang，xinlidiaojiehexintaiguanlijiqiao，xiezhukehuwanchengshiyongjiazhitigaobingwanchenggaobiedanshen，qianxinyuzhangqixinglianaiguanxihehunhouguanliandetiwenyugaijin，beimenchengzhiwei“guanjunjiaolianyuan”。

 jixiangruyijiaoshigenjunjunkaizhanlediyicishipinyuyingoutongjiaoliuhoufajue：huazhenqingganzixunchenggongjilvshiduoda？junjunyouqidequefazixin，duiguanliandejiejuehenmimang，kanqilaigensheidoushiyoujianju，zheiquanshizaoshoule“jiatingguanxi”deweihai。

 shijishangtashiduizishendeweihuhexinliduiguanliandebuquedingxing，taixiwangtarennengjitahaowuyiwen，youbuqidaibubiantaren，xiangchuangjianguanlianyouhaipachuangjianguanlian，bianhuihenmaodun。

jiaoshihaifajueyiqianpengdaodehaoduogenanhaizijijigenjunjunxianliao，taquanshineiyangjuedede：

“bierenjijigenwoliao，haineimejijizhudong，shifouhuishiyounaxiexinhuaibugui?shifouhuibukekao?”

zheidoushiyouyutaduiguanliandebuxinrenzaocheng de。

xuexipeixunchengzhangquanguocheng：

 weilegenghaodixiezhujunjunbaituokunjing，rangjunjunkeyifujianxinxinhexinrengan，erqiechenggongdexunzhaozishendemr.rightlaoxiansheng，jixiangruyiweitadazaochuleyixiliedegenggaifangan，rangwomenyiqitaolunyixiajunjunshizenmemaixiangxingfukuailedeba~

1.重拾信心

jixiangruyijiaoshidiyicishipinyuyinhoubianneiyanggaozhijunjun：

 “guishuganshirenleidouqianquedewupin，quefaguishuganhenyiqiezhengchang，danyueyongganmianduinanti，guishuganyuechongyu，yuebikaibianhuiyuedanxin，youyuguishugandeqianqueyuanbenjiulaiyuanyubuming，junjunnixuyaoquyongganmiandui。”

 shijishangxuduo nvhaimeifagaobiedanshenshiyouyuqianquechuangjianguanliandejiben，zongdanyouzishenshihuishoucanhaide。keshijianglaidenantishinanyijiejuede，taibaohuzijibianhuituiyuanleguanlian。

 xianbazijidefangyulixiechu，rangzishenxinliqueshiqiangjingqilai，yuechangkaishiyueyoufengcai，yuefeichangrongyixiyinzhutaren，youzheiyijibenzaizaijiashangyixietanlianaijiqiaohewaizai，gaobiedanshenjichujiumeishenmenanti。

 jiaoshirangjunjunconglejiedenanhaizilibiantiaogezishenjuedehaibucuode，ananxinxinquchupeng，hetajiangmeishenmenantishinanyijiejuede，duiwaibudejiaolvquanshizishendetouying。

 suihoujiaotaquzenmejiejueyixieshijidenanti，danfuzishendeyiwu。tajianjiandijiumeineimahaipale，jiujianjiandigenlingyifangchangshikaojinle，lingyifangjuededaotagangkaishichangkaishile，yeyulaiyujijile。

2.加重相互掌握，创建归属感

 junjundezhixinglihenqiang，xianheyiqianyouhaogandenanhaizigangkaishijianjiandigoutongjiaoliu。bansuizhelianggerengoutongjiaoliudeshencengci，gangkaishigongshenghaogandu。

但是有一天男生说：

“bixuquyidigongzuozhongyiduanshijian，ruguowomenxiangchudehua，huibianweiyiguolian。nikeyijienama?”

junjunhuangluanle，tabuqingchuyinggaizenmeban，laixunzhaojixiangruyijiaoshidexiezhu。

jixiangruyijiaoshigaozhijunjun：

 “zheiyiyaogaozhinanhaizi，waidibingbushijiaoda denanti，keshinayigenvhaidouburongyiyaoxiangwuwangdeyiguolian，nixuyaofazhanqushigongzuoyinweiwolejie，keshiyinweiwosuishihuanyingduiwomendoushiyouzhengtiguihuade，woxinliyoudicaikeyigennigengyouguishuganzouxialai。”

 suihounanhaiziyuanbenshimeiyoushijifanganhuijiadeshijian，zhihoushuobuyongyinianhaowuyiwennenghuijia，qidaijunjunkeyijiyutazhuanzhengdingjijiyu。

3.确定关系前不可或缺的磨练

 dangnanhaizimingquetichuxiangchushi，junjunshigaoxingde，keshitahuanshiyouguji，ganjueyiguolianhenbukekao，haidanyouzishenbabamamahuidizhizishenhetaxiangchu。

zheishihoujixiangruyijiaoshixianjijunjunshuo：

 “babamamayounaxieniantou，nidouyingdangxianquelizishendexintai，suihouquhenanhaizigoutongjiaoliu，erbushidanfangdebababamamadeniantoukandeguozhong，bixugaozhinanhaizinidejiaolvqingxu。”

junjunganjuelaoshishuodehendui，jiranyouhaogan，nenggouxianyongjiaoshijiaodexiaoqiaomen，jinanhaiziyixiemolian。

 junjunrangnanhaizisangeyuebubixiyan，zishenjiutongyizuotadenvyou。nanhaizitongyile，jinguanlianggerenwaidi，nanhaizihaimeirijijunjunhuibaozishenruhezunxunchengnuode，youshihoushuodehuahuidoudejunjunhahadaxiaobuji。

 jibian shiwaidi，nanhaiziyemeirijijigenjunjunlianluo，shuozaozhongwanan。nanhaizideguanzhu，rangjunjunchajuezijidoumeiyouxiangxiangzhongdeneimayoulv，juededaotayizhihenguanzhuzishen。

sangeyuedejianchibuxie，nanhaizihenzhenxinshiyidegaozhijunjun：

 “zishenshenmeyemeiyou，weilegenghaodijiniyunibabamamadouanxin，wotiqianzhunbeibarujinyouzhedeyitaofangfangdaonidehuxia，qidainikeyitongyizuowodenvpengyou。”

junjunjujuelefangwudenanti，keshitachedibeinanhaizidezhenxinshiyihejianchibuxiejichudongle。