小鹿乱撞情感和花镇 异性交往，想对方持续宠爱你

 zai19shijimo，20shijichudeqingkuangxia，xibanyajingjishipaleituofajue，wanshiwanwu，zuizhongyaodezhizhanzaiqizhongdeyixiaobufen，yue20%，qita80%suiranshidabufen，queshizhucide。zheijiushizhimingdeerbadinglvgaozhidajiadedadaoli，xiaoluluanzhuangqingganhehuazhenshuodaozhenshibazheigejibendinglvyingyongdaogongzuozhongherichangshenghuoderen，doukeyibashierjiejuedejingranyouxu。

danshijishang，takebeiyingyongyudajiadeqingganzhong。

 youyu，dajiadabufenrendoubuqingchuruhejiejue“guanlianjiaowang”denanti，yizhibahuolihaofeizaiduoyudeshijianshang，bingfeijingyingganqing。

yinci jinridajiajiulaijiangxia，zenyangyingyong“erbadinglv”rangnanrenhenvrendejiaowangyuelaiyuegengweihemu。

一、剖析次序、轻和重

 xiaoluluanzhuangqingganhehuazhenshuodaozainannvguanxichanshengzhengzhideqingkuangxia，douhuichuxianyixieshebenzhumodenanti，biru，jingchangtaiguozaihudeyushiyuliyubi，huoshengyubuchenggongzheixie，quehushilingyifangdeqingyitihuihechuxin。

 wulunlingyifangdaodishiruhexiangde，mengqishuangyanxianfanghenhua，buguanquanguochengruhe，yaoshilingyifangchengrencuowu，bajiachaoying，bianshinizuiguanjiandeshiqing。

 danqingganjingdezhuneiyangdeshebenzhumoma?dajiadouhuipengdaoyixiejianyibuyizhidezhuangkuang，pengdaozhengchaodeqingkuangxia，queshimeibiyaobabicigaochengduilideqingkuang。

neiyangzongshiranglingyifanggengweiyaoxiangtaochuni，nantiyewufadedaochuli，haibaqingganjichaodiule，yinxiaoshida。

 yinci ，zaichanshengmaodun，dachaodanaodeqingkuangxia，dajiahebuxianpingjingxialai，changshiqukaolvyixialingyifangdeguandian，huoxuninengyoubuyiyangdekanfa。

二、爱人先爱己

zaiqingganzhong，henduorenxianghenizaiyiqitarenyiqian，douhaimeixuehaohaohaodeaizijiguozishen。

 yizhiyuzaiqingganzhong，bawobutaihaolianrendedu，buqingchuzishennaerjubeiyouhuoli，gengbumingbaizenyangqutigaoziji，yaolejieyigelianzishenyebuzuiaideren，lingyifanghuilaiaizhenima?

aiqingdedingyi，shixianghuzhijianxiyinzhu，erxiyinzhudeshizhi，shixianghuzhijianzailingyifangneixindeshiyongjiazhi。

 jiarunibingbushibajuedaduoshuhuolifangdaotigaozijideshenshang，zhishifangdaozenyangquyuelingyifangdeshenshang，neimanishizhongdouburongyidedao lingyifangzhenzhengdeai，yinweiniyongyuandouzaizhuiqiu，erbushixiyinzhu。

 neiyangdeqingganjibian duanqineideyouzheyebuhuichijiu，youyuzhuiqiulingyifangshi，nizuixianjiubazijifangzhidiwei，zheigeshihouniyizhizailingyifangyanzhongshimeiyouchongzudeyouhuolide，zaozhongwantahuiyanjuanni。

 yinci zaiqingganzhong，bixubaocunyibufenzishendeshineikongjian，laitigaoziji，molianzishen，caikeyirangzishenshizhongweichichuse。

jinyouluozuan，caikeyizuzubeibeibeidajiaaixi，gengburongyibeishiguangcanhai。

三、抓小变大

 ganqingwangwangshujiguanjiandian，doushiyouyudajiazongxiguanxingkanjinbuyaokanyuan。zailianaiguanxizhong，xiangbijiandaolingyifangdeyoushi，dajiagengxiguanxingjiandaolingyifangdequexian。

 chijiuguoqu，nibudanhuiyulaiyukanwulunnidelingyiban，qinzihuiletanlianaijieduanchimidejuede，genghuizaipengdaozhengchaohemaodundeqingkuangxia，xianghuzhijianchize，rangfenqishengji。

 yiner，yaoxiangganqinglaoguerqiechijiu，renyidingyaoxuehaozhuaxiaobianda。zaipengdaofenqideqingkuangxia，hebuhaohaodixiangyixiang，zheijianshiqingqueshihuiduiniderichangshenghuoherenshengdaoludaozhifeichangdadeweihaima?

chukainaopiqi，nandaoshuomeiyoushijixingdejiejuefanganlemeiyou?

danglingyifangyoulenitaoyandequexianshi，hebuduokanyixiatadeyoushi。

 xiangxiangdangnian，nidaodishiyouyunaxiebeitaxiyinzhu，xianrujinweilegenghaoditadeyoushi，nixiezhutagaizhengquexianerbushichizema?youhuoshi，danfutayibeizigaibudiaodefengxianxingma?