小鹿乱撞情感和花镇 为什么他要那么坚决的跟你分手？

 xiaoluluanzhuangqingganhehuazhenshuodaozuoriyouyigebiyehouyinianduodexiaonvhaifalaisiliao，shuozishenconggaoxiaodaoxianzai，tanguodayuewucitanlianai，zuiduodejilushidabannian，erqiemeiyiciyaobuyouyuzhengchao，yaobuyouyujiatinglengbaoli，zuizhongdoubugaoerbie。

她跟我说一个难题：

“weihetarenchuduixiangdoutiandehouhoulong，wotangetanlianaijiubudeshanzhong?tanlianaijiujingruhetana?”

worenwei，zheigewentishifenyouxiangzhengxing。

为什么呢?

woxianeryanyizushujuxinxi——

 jinnianquannianduzhongguojiehundengji947.yiwandui，tongyinianliyi415.4wandui，zaiqizhongjiulinghoufufuzhanyoulvchao40%。

 huanjuhuashuo，shangnianyou1894.2wanrenwanhun，830.bawanrenliyi，jiaruzaizaijiashangchuduixianghetichufenshou，shangniankenenghuichuxianjinyirenganshouguoyiduanqinggandehefen。

wojiangzheizushujuxinxideshijiyiyijiuqujueyu：

henduorenyaoxiangjindaoyiduanhunyinguanxi，huoshizhengchuyuyiduanhunyinguanxizhong，ketaquebuqingchuruheyunxingyiduanhunyinguanxi。

 jiufangfonishifenquelizishenyaoquchuduixiang，yaoxiangzhaoyigeruhederen，xunzhaoyihouqufajue，zishenyagenbuqingchujiexiaquyinggaizenmeban。

shijishang，congchuduixiangdaowanhun，congzimianjiukeyikanchuqu，“tan”shigoutongjiaoliu，“jie”shijiehe。

 neicongdicengluojieryan，yaoxiangyunyinghaoqixiangoutongjiaoliu，yongyouyouxiaogoutongfangshihegoutongdejiqiao，liangrenxianghujianyougongtongyuyan，nenggouzaigegelingyuweilingyifangdaxianghupeihe，caiyoukenengjindaodaojiehedehuanjie。

zaichixudemoheqihegengshencengcidezhangwozhizhong，quwajueliangrenshizhishangdexiangtongzhichuhejiaocuodian。

zheiyizhengtaobuzhouzouchulai，caiyoukenengrangdajiadehunyinguanxibianchenghaodehunyinguanxi。

youxierenhuiganjue，ruheneimefanza，fangfonanyibaozheng。

bu，shijishangyaoshitupokouqiadang，bianhuifeichangjiandan。

shuobaile“wanzhanggaoloupingdiqi”，yaoxiangqugoujianhaodehunyinguanxi，dangranyedecongdidenggangkaishidaqi。

lujidazhazhashishile，loucaiwentuo。

那什么叫路基?

dajialailvneiyangyigeluojixing：

 wogangcaijiangguo，goutongjiaoliushiquanbuhunyinguanxigangkaishichuangjiandechuzhongjifangfa，neigoutongjiaoliushijishangbujinshiyuyan，haibaohanzhitidongzuo、shenqing、xintai、guanjiandianjiejuezheixiecengmian。

 yigerenzaiduiwaibuzuochufanyinghegerenxingwei，fenzishengwuxueshangjiangnaoshenjingfanying，shehuixinlixueshangjiangjiatingguanxiheziwochengzhang，zhengtitongchengwei——siweifangshi。

ersiweifangshi，shiyouzheifenaishangjuecede。

liuyi，woshuodeshiaishang，bingbushiqingshangzhishang。

 qingshangzhishangdefanweigengguang，shejiaomeiti、jiaoji、weirenchushiquanshiqingshangzhishangdefanying，keshi，hunyinguanxicaiyongqingshangzhishangdeyibufenbingbushihenduo，youyumeiyigerenkandaizishendelianrenhebierendeqingkuangkendingshibuyiyangde。

yinci ，congdicengluojieryan，zheifenaishang，lijijuecelenidehunyinguanxipinzhi。

wolijuhaoduogehaodehunyinguanxizhong，aishangshijixingzhuyaobiaoxiandeguanjianhuanjie：

01.学好争吵。

zhengchaoshiyizhongshifengaoxiaolvdegoutongfangshi，danqiantitiaojianshihuizhengchao。

 xiaoluluanzhuangqingganhehuazhenshuodaoaishanggaoderen，zaizhengchaodeqingkuangxiazongshizhiliyushixia，jueduibuhuiquweifanxianghudedaodedixian。

 biaomiancengkanshangqu，liangrenshizaizhengchao，qishineiyangdezhengzhibingbuhuiranghunyinpolie。fandaoshijiasulenantihexintaidechuli，zheiyejiushishuobailede“huizhengchao”。

02.学会尊重。

 jiarushuo，dajiabaquanbudefeiqiwuxintai、fumianxinxiqingkuanghetihui，douyigunaodedaozailingyifangdeshenshang。shi，womenzijishishufule，keshilingyifangni?

yinci ，worenweiyoujijuhuashiyingdangzunzhaode：

tajiushinideairen，bingbushilajixiang。

yuefaqinmijiechuderen，yueyingdangdaizhukuanronghezhongshikandai。

03.想赢，总输。

xiangyingdezheileixinlizhuangtai，zairichangshenghuohegongzuofangmian，zheiyidianhenyoukenengmeiyoushenme，naizhishiyizhongshifenxiyoudezhiliang。

keshi，zaiganqingli，zheizugoubianchengsixue。

jiaruniquandouyaoying，lingyifangzuizhongzongshicunliuyizhongqingkuang：jididejiazhigan。

lingyifangzongshiganjueyulaiyumeiyouyiyi，zaiguanlianzhongyulaiyumeiyoucunyoudebixu。zuihou，dangranbianhuiquanshenertuilikai。